Welcome to climax Etiquette 101 !. 1. The goal of this post should be at least one climax per person per sesh, bare minimum. I hope I don’t have to point out that an climax for just one partner is not the finishing tape of a sex run. Instead, think of sex as a three-legged race — your partner can neither compete nor cross
the finish line without your help, and vice versa. Each partner should make a concerted effort to satisfy their partner before throwing in the towel.

2. Ladies first. Because a woman’s post-orgasmic resolution phase is slower and more gradual than a man’s, it makes sense that her climax come first: she can often continue to receive and enjoy stimulation, including penetration, long after her first O. In fact continued attention may result in multiple orgasms for a few lucky bitches… excuse me, women.
In contrast, men who have climaxed first may consequently struggle against their own quicker resolution and its attendant urges toward sleep and TV watching. However, this is no excuse for shirking sexual responsibility. Men can and should continue to pleasure their female partner until she is satisfied (whatever “satisfied” means to that individual).

3. But don’t make your partner’s climax a holy grail. A word of caution, though: The only thing worse than a man who does not care about a woman’s climax is one who cares about it to the exclusion of all else. This is the man who heads downtown and vows not to come up for air until his girlfriend does her best Meg Ryan.
He approaches handwork like weeding (“Must. Dig Up. climax!”) and swears, in dulcet tones an octave lower than his usual voice, that he is dedicated to “female pleasure.” He wants to be a super-lover — his ego depends upon it. He covets her orgasms like a Boy Scout covets merit badges.

While the intention is indeed admirable, all that pressure can leave a woman wishing she had just played golf instead. Plus, giving her performance anxiety is the best way to ensure she won’t reach climax. Don’t worry guys, you won’t lose your “Sensitive Guy” merit badge if you believe her when she says that she’s happy with the sex for sex’s sake, and you give up graciously. Sometimes, the fat lady simply will not sing. But that doesn’t mean everyone can’t still enjoy the show.

4. And don’t assume the worst about an O that’s not forthcoming. Of course, straight gals aren’t the only ones whose orgasms occasionally go missing. Lesbians and men (both gay and straight) are mere mortals too. Sure, men’s equipment is fairly straight forward and therefore more easily manipulated. However, factors that may inhibit “the little death” — dry skin, urge to pee, spinning room, trouble at the office — are not always discriminating. I stop here until i see comments then i will post the remaining parts but if you can't wait follow here to read the rest http://levelhealth..com.ng/2016/06/how-to-enjoy-sex-and-climax-easily.html

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