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Pls house, I need your candid advice. My GF likes us to be gisting on fone but donot like to be with me all the time. We have bn dating for 4years . I told her some months back that if things continue like this, we might not have a happy home if we eventually got married . Please, I need ur advice on what to do cos I am planning to take her home but with the look of things I am contemplating on getting another girl cos I didnt wanna marry another wife after marrying her in the nearest future.

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guy don worry may be wit tym she would understand and also try as much as u can 2 talk 2 her wat u notice about her and also tell her how dear she means 2 u.i think she would change.

after 4yrs date, no now

@poster
how many miles is she awey from u.

How have you come to the conclusion that she would make a bad wife because she likes to gist on the phone?? Have you tried to find any solutions that work for both of you, does she like her space, and finally is she actually interested in being married to you??

@ chukudibab
how many miles is she awey from u.


Just 40Km away from my area.

@topup

How have you come to the conclusion that she would make a bad wife because she likes to gist on the phone?? Have you tried to find any solutions that work for both of you, does she like her space, and finally is she actually interested in being married to you??

I have discussed it with her Mum which the mum pleaded on her behalf but things has not changed.

She is interested marrying  me as she claimed but I just down now.

maybe you are boring guy and you have nothing fun and interesting to talk about.


Find other ways to engage her.

Sometimes when I sit back and read posts here on NL I just get bewildered,confused,laugh,think,contemplate, I don't know. Over here I now believe we are really some specie, so many many funny or should I say strange situations et al.
A future wife that doesn't love spending time with her prospective husband save on the phone, what irony (though I must say the poster didn't fill us on what the frequency of her spending time with him is or should be, for all we know he may be the very possessive type that wants attention 24/7, a situation which I think only a dolt could accomodate.)
Inthis vein I'd suggest that posters should be very explicit in their posts as regards their queries so the community can offer objective advice, this post like rommel's contain too many unknowns to merit a definitive answer.

strange! She must be hidding something

Is it that she likes to talk too much on the phone, is it that she likes to talk about emotions or subjects that make you feel uncomfortable. Is it that you dislike talking on the phone, or that you just don't care for it? What are the reasons, what is making you so agitated about the phone calls? Does she bitch on the phone, is she a gossip. I have no clue.

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Guy re u serious? Is she avoiding sexual contact? Maybe she is.

Just don't settle with a lady who is not likely to spend time with u than on phone since the distance is not far for a hangout

Be watchful and don't be blind

To me , I think see love to be space. For 3weeks now, I have been around but do not bother see me or feel uncomfortable for not setting her eyes on me .

There was a time she told me , she is wont be bothered if her  husband is always busy but if he is sending money for her and the kids that she is ok. She wont be disturbed atal.

Since then, I have been thinking deep inside me that this statement may turn to be a reality if I eventually married her.

House Pls I still need more suggestions

what suggestions again,
she probably is one of those ladies that dont like sex.
and being close means sex to her. so she wud rather stay away.

perhaps