A typical ‘bad boy’ is a masculine guy who not only naturally looks for certainty in action, but actually takes the action he needs to take to experience certainty.

He’s a guy on a journey, he’s going places, he’s doing exciting things, and his life is an adventure. He’s not sitting around waiting for things to be handed to him, he’s off on a mission. He experiences certainty through his ability to take action and make a difference and he communicates that to women.

He’s not waiting for a nice response and some polite validation to feel good about himself. He’s out there, living life, and experiencing the certainty he needs through taking action. Because he experiences it, he’s able to effortlessly able to communicate it to women so they experience it as well.

A typical nice guy is an inherently Masculine guy who’s biological programming dictates that the simplest and easiest way for him to experience certainty is through action, yet he doesn’t have the balls to take action.

Because he’s doesn’t take action but still craves certainty, he goes the other route and tries to experience certainty through communication. He waits for polite smiles, social validation, the approval of his mates, and acceptance from people around him to experience certainty.

This means that when he’s talking to women, he’s not able to communicate certainty because he doesn’t have it for himself. You can’t give something you don’t have. And not only does he not experience it for himself, he’s trying to experience it through women! He is the definition of needy – he needs approval and validation to feel good about himself.

This is why Feminine Women aren’t drawn to him – he has nothing to offer. All he’s doing is trying to get something from them.

Because they do love Hollywood action Movies.

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Really...

Nicely written piece. To add to the author's inditing, nice guys are boring, not creative, not spontaneous, weak and can't have control of a relationship.

With due respect to true feminists, most women are attracted to men who assume the role of a leader and know just when to apply theses roles. Know when to call her to order and not give in into her excesses and manipulative mind games.

In a nutshell, nice guys are yes yes men but women finds yes/no men more appealing.

SANDOSKI:
Really...

Sorry in advanced...

BiafraBushBoy:


Sorry in advanced...

Thanks

SANDOSKI:



Thanks

I didn't read it....
I just saw it....

They are really bad like Trump, Clinton and Buhari. Nice ones are Obama, Putin and Jonathan.

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I'm tired of the generalisation that goes on here on NL.

OP, use "some"
Eg: "Why do some women prefer bad boys to nice guys"?


I'm excluded from that though.
I like nice, civil guys. Ones with manners and a functioning brain.

Not some smelly, uncultured guy- forming rapper and acting like a teenager in a bid to come across as "cool".
I get irritated at such. 0_o

obiorathesubtle:
Ham so shock.. I hezperedt somtin diffrent.

Like

To spice up

SANDOSKI:

Let's talk about Mr Nairaland...
I need you support... No be for me ooo..

Hahahahahaha...

If I hear you are I. Denial, deep down you like bad boys. I'm sure you even have one or some right now

evegran:
I'm tired of the generalisation that goes on here on NL.

OP, use "some"
Eg: "Why do some women prefer bad boys to nice guys"?


I'm excluded from that though.
I like nice, civil guys. Ones with manners and a functioning brain.

Not some smelly, uncultured guy- forming rapper and acting like a teenager in a bid to come across as "cool".
I get irritated at such. 0_o

nice one op

I still prefer good guys OP. For me they are not boring at all. They are just perfect for my liking.

Maybe you're the opposite Bad girl like good guy it's very understandable

ForeverYoung197:
I still prefer good guys OP. For me they are not boring at all. They are just perfect for my liking.

theEYe21:
Maybe you're the opposite Bad girl like good guy it's very understandable

I ain't a bad girl. Do I look like one? Maybe I just hate being with a person who has "bad boy" possessed.

BiafraBushBoy:


Let's talk about Mr Nairaland...

I need you support... No be for me ooo..


Hahahahahaha...

Na for who

*I dey ur back.... Make I call my bestie dannyben5 ,

SANDOSKI:



Na for who
*I dey ur back.... Make I call my bestie dannyben5 ,

You don dey like 20 people back...
Oh Lawd....

It's okay to be in denial

ForeverYoung197:



I ain't a bad girl. Do I look like one? Maybe I just hate being with a person who has "bad boy" possessed.