"Boys, only want love if it's torture"... That's a line in Tailor Swift's song" blank space " which is Very true..
Ladies, Girls, if you really want to hold down your man/boyfriend, you have to read this with utmost interest.

1. BE SPONTANEOUS : A predictable girl never appeals to any guy, not for long anyway, when he thinks you are gonna be mad and make a fuss about what he did wrong, calm down and walk, do the shouting when he least expected.

2. SHOW INTEREST IN WHAT INTERESTS HIM: For Most guys it's sports especially football, others it might be painting, singing etc... Learn to show interest in those things, ask him about it sometimes.

3. WIN THE HEARTS OF HIS FRIEND(S) : This trick works perfectly, make his friends your mouth piece, befriend them and be cool with them.. You'll find out that they'll be taking your side whenever you guys have an issue.

4. ALWAYS APOLOGIZE WHEN YOU ARE WRONG: Most girls are guilty of never apologizing, guys do it too sha, my Bae will apologize even when she's right, then when I'm calm and cool, she'll "jejely" tell me that I've hurt her, before you know it, I'll be on my knees saying "sorry".

5. MAKE SEX "SEXIER" : For those couples that are in an intimate relationship, have you noticed that stolen meat is sweeter than your rightful share? Same goes with adventurous sex, "on the table, on the floor, on the couch, at a pub, at a friend's party" those kinda crazy sex makes him think about you even when you ain't... My thoughts sha....

These are my tips, based on experience... Try the ones you can.. Cheers!!

Men should do the same.

foolinlove:
Men should do the same.

I agree, but it's easier for guys to win their ladies heart... Esp them players

joey4sheva:

I agree, but it's easier for guys to win their ladies heart... Esp them players

Partnership has two people, so two people should make an effort.

foolinlove:

Partnership has two people, so two people should make an effort.

Yea you are right, But you know how these things start, guy makes the effort and gets the girl, girl falls madly in love, girl struggles to keep him. . Guy feels like he's gotten what he wants..

joey4sheva:

Yea you are right, But you know how these things start, guy makes the effort and gets the girl, girl falls madly in love, girl struggles to keep him. . Guy feels like he's gotten what he wants..

I don't know if that's the trajectory of every relationship. Girl struggles to keep him? I disagree.

foolinlove:

I don't know if that's the trajectory of every relationship. Girl struggles to keep him? I disagree.

Of course it's not every relationship.. But it's common, especially in Naija

joey4sheva:

Of course it's not every relationship.. But it's common, especially in Naija

I'll take your word for it. Seems like over therr women take a lot of blame for relationship brwak ups...

KingCheezyPuff:
°Haha them ol used up pimps don't have the heart of a woman but her head filled with his overdone lies.

I ain't talking about them used up pimps, just them that still wish to love and be loved back ... Garrit?