AreaFada2:

Well, when it gets very bad, they create a new ID here on NL to lament their woes: my hubby has a secret family, my hubby shags his PA, my hubby shags my best friend, etc. Out of shame, women hardly openly admit such.

Fundamentally, we need to get one thing straight. Even though women are in serious denial. A high number of men will marry more than one wife. Or at least have a kid with another woman outside. Even if the housewife never finds out or only when the man dies. This is as sure as death.

Monogamy is wishful thinking. Only very few manage to do it throughout life.
On the flip side, about 30% of all kids belong to another man outside. So both men and women are merrily at it.

By the way, I'm NOT from a polygamous home.

inemani:


Are u serious?? OMG! And he was spewing thrash upandan? Chai, I give up

Tay16:
i have some of tomquests private messages sef. The very same guy is a shameless flirt, like the people you mentioned above. Going through his thread was quite entertaining, especially when I know what he really is like off NL

tomquest:


Ask Tay16 to post here a screenshot of the PM she's graciously lying about, simply because she's bitter over my topic (a mere discussion). Earlier on, she said it was South African girls, and here she's telling you I PM'ed her.
Don't fall cheaply for the vibes of a sick lady. Ask for proof.

Meanwhile I'm getting her reported for spreading false information, invading my privacy and generally being a sick nuisance on this forum.

Tay16:
you want to get me banned before i expose the cheap scam that you really are? Lmao okay then seek and ye shall find. Good thing i cannot be banned for posting something thats true because it wont count as defamation then

inemani:

Tomquest sir, pls verify by being present. I love two-sided facts

2undeajigs:
For goodness sake when will everyone get it into their thick skulls that men are polygamous is nature (from time immemorial). Monogamy has been forcefully imposed on man by society. real men always remembers to whom & where there responsibilities lies(wife & kids) before&after philandering.taking good care of your own should be your main priority in life. As for women who divorce & wreck there family because of a cheating husbands, good luck on that. A mans sexual market value only increases(if he takes care of himself) with time unlike women so therefore he would always move on easily. I am just tired of hearing people complain of the same old shit when they know that even there greatest grandfather wasn't loyal to a single spouse. Feel free to bash me all you want but u can't fight nature.even your sons would grow up with the unquenchable thirst for the pussy conquest.My real problem is with irresponsibly stupid assholes that absconded their patriarchal responsibilities just because the wanna have fun outside..

inemani:


Wow! This is getting interesting, I can't be entwined in this brouhaha. Oga tomquest, my hands and feet are eternally out!

tomquest:


The above was your last response to me when I stated that Tay16 is being malicious simply because of my thread, and went on to spread lies to defame me for no just reason. You jumped in her bandwagon by saying no wonder I "was spewing trash upandan"...

All these bitterness, insults, abusing one's fidelity, mother because of a mere discussion/debate on NL? And you ladies are adults? Smh.

I don't know why you had to mention me in your reply to Tay16's post and asking me to "verify by being present", so I hereby remind you of your statement above (of not being part of this)...

Lastly, DO NOT EVER mention or quote me anywhere on NL, ever. There are over 1.6 million NL members, never reply/quote/mention me going forward. Thank you!

inemani:

Tomquest sir, pls verify by being present. I love two-sided facts

inemani:


Tah! Are u a god unworthy of quote/mention? Gerrarahiamehn! Common defense of ur 'innocence' u no fit. And u call urself an adult!

inemani:


Tah! Are u a god unworthy of quote/mention? Gerrarahiamehn! Common defense of ur 'innocence' u no fit. And u call urself an adult!

tomquest:


AN UNRELENTING LIAR BUSTED!

Tay16 you just succeeded in confirming what you are. It took you almost a whole day to send the alleged PM (suddenly becomes whatsap chats which took you over 24 hours to manufacture)...It makes you feel good to LIE against someone, even in a faceless forum, because of your bitterness over a mere discussion.

In your haste to fabricate a fake chat, you didn't remember to check the date I even joined NL /created my account JUNE 17th, WHEREAS YOUR FAKE CHAT TOOK PLACE ON JUNE 15th.... KARMA!

Ordinarily a matured guy shouldn't respond to sick antics like these, but for the sake of the unsuspecting -and suspecting members- who may be your next prey!

Everyone can also check my profile to see the date I even joined this forum. Ain't you ashamed of yourself now? Loser!

Amicable24 inemani

Coldfeet:
A cheat indeed will always be a cheat!

Theres this lady who's very pretty, portable and "shapely" still after 3kids, her fitness regimen is like that of a sports person! You name it she goes the extra mile so as to remain attractive and sezy looking for her husband.

The husband did cheat on her with an over weight woman.

He said he just wanted to have a feel of what its like to do a big woman! And he kept that relationship for years!!! Till he got caught! Lolz.

He loves his wife trim( after all she's the one people see him with) but his mistress "big" the secret one that satisfies his urges.

Likewise most men that say they like their women big! The curiosity to explore the other size will also make him cheat.

Point is don't lose weight or gain it because of a mans acceptance and approval! Do it because you like it and loves who stares back at you from the mirror.

Our 5 fingers are of different sizes and length for a purpose.

Life will be such a bore if we are all tall, all short, all fat, all slim, all pretty or all ugly.

Variety is the spice of life.

Love yourself, be healthy, be happy.

2undeajigs:
For goodness sake when will everyone get it into their thick skulls that men are polygamous is nature (from time immemorial). Monogamy has been forcefully imposed on man by society. real men always remembers to whom & where there responsibilities lies(wife & kids) before&after philandering.taking good care of your own should be your main priority in life. As for women who divorce & wreck there family because of a cheating husbands, good luck on that. A mans sexual market value only increases(if he takes care of himself) with time unlike women so therefore he would always move on easily. I am just tired of hearing people complain of the same old shit when they know that even there greatest grandfather wasn't loyal to a single spouse. Feel free to bash me all you want but u can't fight nature.even your sons would grow up with the unquenchable thirst for the pussy conquest.My real problem is with irresponsibly stupid assholes that absconded their patriarchal responsibilities just because the wanna have fun outside..