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Re: Guys, Here Are 5 Reasons Why You Should Be A Baby Daddy. by Nobody: 4:05pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
postmann: I had enough of your time sulky boy. 1 Like |
Re: Guys, Here Are 5 Reasons Why You Should Be A Baby Daddy. by ShaqFu: 5:07pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
postmann:Oh yeah! I believe you have the sole right to decide who is responsible, and who isn't right? I believe you know we humans are naturally selfish, and not everybody share your sense of selflessness, and sacrifice. So tell me, what happens when a parent sacrifice more than the other, and what happens when that other don't feel the need to be selfless? Marriage isn't for everyone, and any who wants to father a kid, without getting married, should go right ahead. Societal norms and conventions are the major reasons why many marriages collapse today. You mean when the child grows up, he will get to know it doesn't take a good dose of responsibility and selfsacrifice to become a father. Or if she's a girl, she can actual father 3 kids from 3 different men in the name of happiness which you mistook for selfishness and irresponsibility.Tell me, how many responsible men/fathers do we have out there? I personally have seen and know many who grew up without a parent, and they're still very responsible, more than those who grew up with both parents, usually under false pretense and the likes. And any girl who wants to father 3 kids out of wedlock, from 3 different men, should go right ahead, its her life, not yours, and what guarantee do you even have that she won't raise each and everyone of them, as good, moral and upright citizens?. Thanks for once again displaying your acute sense of selfishness and irresponsibility. So you sow your wild oaths in the depth of a woman and when it's time for responsibility, you pass the baton to the mother and grandparents while you live foot lose and fancy free!!!!Hai! We see what we want to see brother. You see selfishness, others see non conformist, while others may want to give me a head. Its purely personal. And I never said anything about not accepting my responsibility, check my number 4 reason, and you'll know for sure. |
Re: Guys, Here Are 5 Reasons Why You Should Be A Baby Daddy. by postmann: 9:48pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
ShaqFu: You sound like a man who makes his own laws: a chief trait of acute selfishness and unreliability. If you cannot uphold the laws of GOD or that of your forefathers that sets you up as someone untrustworthy and unstable. More like a man of chaos driven by lustful craving; one who lives for his own pleasure even to the detriment of others. A man who cannot live within the borders of religion or societal convention is automatically a recalcitrant pariah. ShaqFu: Poor reason to support your lustful, lacklustre cravings. ShaqFu: Even godless fools have better judgment than your sick retort. ShaqFu: Whatever rocks your world. I'm just concerned about the kids your lifestyle could raise and what a societal threat to decency they could constitute. |
Re: Guys, Here Are 5 Reasons Why You Should Be A Baby Daddy. by ShaqFu: 10:15pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
postmann:Indeed, if I don't make my own laws, who will make it for me? Society? Bleep society bro!. I don't conform to religious dogma and doctrines. Its my life, and I choose to live it however, and whichever way I see fit!. Poor reason to support your lustful, lacklustre cravings.Well, its your opinion, I'm entitled to mine. [q uote]Even godless fools have better judgment than your sick retort[/quote]Yea right, but the godful genius make a healthy living shagging their female church members, right? Preach on, preacher!. Whatever rocks your world. I'm just concerned about the kids your lifestyle could raise and what a societal threat to decency they could constitute.Well, if I could train and teach a girl who isn't my own kid, and make her Head Girl in her school that has a reputation of choosing Head Girls from science department, I wonder what I'll do with my own kid. Food for thought bro. 1 Like |
Re: Guys, Here Are 5 Reasons Why You Should Be A Baby Daddy. by postmann: 10:33pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
ShaqFu: I just liked your post. Now, can I have a good night rest? |
Re: Guys, Here Are 5 Reasons Why You Should Be A Baby Daddy. by ShaqFu: 10:37pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
postmann:[size=22pt]NO![/size] |
Re: Guys, Here Are 5 Reasons Why You Should Be A Baby Daddy. by postmann: 10:43pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
ShaqFu: What persistence!!! It's Monday tomorrow, allow me some good night rest so we can have a healthier debate tomorrow. Oya goodnight, Mr ShaqFu. |
Re: Guys, Here Are 5 Reasons Why You Should Be A Baby Daddy. by ShaqFu: 5:58pm On Jul 04, 2016 |
postmann:Its evening, the weather is cool and nice, perfect time for a debate, don't you think?. |
Re: Guys, Here Are 5 Reasons Why You Should Be A Baby Daddy. by TV01(m): 8:10pm On Jul 04, 2016 |
Mindfulness:Please Mindfulness, you really need me to answer this sophomoric tripe? Take point 1 for example - Peace of mind: I googled one of the role models mentioned - Davido - he recently had big palaver with his baby mama and her family. Ugly, embarrassing, and to be frank, low class, mud slinging. Access restrictions and concerns about how the child' welfare were cited. How can a man of integrity and repute have peace of mind if he is not daily, actively and 100% involved in raising his offspring? Willful baby-daddyism is the height of irresponsibility, and at it's heart denies what it means to be a man and father. A charter for producing bitter women and malformed children. A pox on all proselytisers of such. TV 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Guys, Here Are 5 Reasons Why You Should Be A Baby Daddy. by postmann: 9:15pm On Jul 04, 2016 |
ShaqFu:You're right but, it's a perfect weather for better things...! We'll kick it off tomorrow, mid-day preferably. |
Re: Guys, Here Are 5 Reasons Why You Should Be A Baby Daddy. by Raalsalghul: 12:27am On Jul 05, 2016 |
ShaqFu:Bro, I just like you (No homo). Typical of Nigerians, forcing marriage down people's neck since 504 B.C |
Re: Guys, Here Are 5 Reasons Why You Should Be A Baby Daddy. by Raalsalghul: 12:30am On Jul 05, 2016 |
Mindfulness:2 bottles of star and one plate of nkwobi for you. 1 Like |
Re: Guys, Here Are 5 Reasons Why You Should Be A Baby Daddy. by Neverquit(f): 4:01am On Jul 05, 2016 |
ShaqFu, in as much as your points are weird and twisted , I get it. You do make some sense. In this life, there is no one box fits all. Most important thing is the welfare of the child(ren). 1 Like |
Re: Guys, Here Are 5 Reasons Why You Should Be A Baby Daddy. by ShaqFu: 5:02am On Jul 05, 2016 |
Neverquit:I agree. That's why its all important we know what's good for us, decide on it, and follow it to the fullest. |
Re: Guys, Here Are 5 Reasons Why You Should Be A Baby Daddy. by Exponental(m): 9:35am On Jul 05, 2016 |
This is a good example of "arrant nonsense"! |
Re: Guys, Here Are 5 Reasons Why You Should Be A Baby Daddy. by TV01(m): 9:57am On Jul 05, 2016 |
Mindfulness:I'm sure postman will be back to reply you (double portion ), but I also find your views rather questionable. Mindfulness:See evidence of your confusion - I mean, what does the bold even mean - especially in the context of marriage and family Mindfulness:More confusion, are enriching and sacrificial mutually exclusive or diametrically opposed? Mindfulness:No he doesn't want to "make a woman his", or himself hers. He wants to use her for his selfish ends. The OP is about satisfying his lusts and desires without thought to others involved or the longer term consequences. And postmann' point was about "marriage and parenthood", which you artfully dribbled past Mindfulness:Please note the difference 'twixt a father and a sperm donor. This love you keep prating on about that you have so far failed to define - as Carefree and as Mindfulness . I have been sacrificing my sleep this past month, as for various reasons both my kids have not been sleeping well. Raising kids means I have less disposable income, less time to myself, to do the things I like to indulge in. It's a sacrifice, but one I consider well worth it. Indeed, a shorthand way of putting it is sacrifice = love. Refer to the bible verse John 3:16 Mindfulness:Yes, it may vary, but certain degrees of sacrifice, perseverance, patience and strength may all come to play in being married and raising children. It varies, but it is required. After all, if that was not the case OP wouldn't be trying his damnedest to absolve himself of the burden/responsibility would he? Mindfulness:Ask the women here; https://www.nairaland.com/3187447/men-sex-life-after-vaginal if looking like an extra out of Spartacus after a cross-section, or having their down bellows stitched from one orifice to the other is not a sacrifice? Ask them how many enjoyed pregnancy, labour, delivery or the initial aftermath. Ask the men if not having the closeness, the intimacy or even your wife for a while is thoroughly enjoyable. Mindfulness talk true, you never born Mindfulness:What he wants is the fulfilment of his lusts and desires without consequence. The particulars of being male, without the burdens of manhood. And of course, it's women who will bear the brunt. Ask the women I cited above if after all they went through to deliver, it would be great for the father to be elsewhere knocking boots - ye I'm old - with a more nubile chick, instead of supporting her and caring for their child. Mindfulness:Standard false narrative, always compare a fatally flawed and simply bad idea with the worst possible outcome, and an outlier, of a good one. Do try and have expansive convos, and not simply weave self-justification into your every utterance. Some real life experience would go a long way too . TV 2 Likes |
Re: Guys, Here Are 5 Reasons Why You Should Be A Baby Daddy. by 5minsmadness: 11:15am On Jul 05, 2016 |
I have been sacrificing my sleep this past month, as for various reasons both my kids have not been sleeping well. Raising kids means I have less disposable income, less time to myself, to do the things I like to indulge in. It's a sacrifice, but one I consider well worth it. Indeed, a shorthand way of putting it is sacrifice = love. Refer to the bible verse John 3:16 This is sacrifice. Doing things to better your partner and kids even if it puts speedbumps in your path. This is greater than any form of self love for self love is selfish and seeks only its own gratification. Self love does not share and so cannot grow. True love comes from sharing your love to others. Cc mindfulness. 2 Likes |
Re: Guys, Here Are 5 Reasons Why You Should Be A Baby Daddy. by Nobody: 12:38pm On Jul 06, 2016 |
5minsmadness: Raising my kids does not feel like sacrifice to me. |
Re: Guys, Here Are 5 Reasons Why You Should Be A Baby Daddy. by Nobody: 12:41pm On Jul 06, 2016 |
TV01: If having a family feels sacrificial to you, then so be it. I don't share this attitude and feeling. I enjoy having a family. |
Re: Guys, Here Are 5 Reasons Why You Should Be A Baby Daddy. by joseph1832(m): 12:20pm On Aug 29, 2016 |
Mindfulness:So you don't mind being a baby mama? |
Re: Guys, Here Are 5 Reasons Why You Should Be A Baby Daddy. by Nobody: 11:42am On May 29, 2018 |
seconded!! 1 Like 1 Share |
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