Most times i suggest my going to visit my bf bit he doesn't ever reject.. I could call and say, "I'm coming on Saturday " he'll say okk,and when I come we would gist,sometimes go out and have fun. But I noticed/realised that i'm always the one suggesting my visit,anytime I say " I'm always the one suggesting my visit he'll say it's not true,that he also agreed to my coming, which almost means the same thing. I expect him to call me and say I should come on a certain date,etc. Why should i always be the one saying it.. is he shy to say it? I really don't understand.
Now I promised not to say it. We usually see every 2weeks,.that's courtesy of me. If I want to see him every week,I know it's possible but i just like to give him space to do other things,as i realised guys love to have their privacy sometimes. Now we ought to see this weekend,but he hasn't said anything yet.I want him to suggest our seeing himself,i said i wont say it again. But now i miss him...what should i do?
Should i still wait for him to say it? Or should i say it,even though i promised myself i wont say it till he does?
Or should i just stick to my promise? Cos i think if he really misses me and wants to see me he'll say it

My dear, are u OK?

uniquelycool:
Most times i suggest my going to visit my bf bit he doesn't ever reject.. I could call and say, "I'm coming on Saturday " he'll say okk,and when I come we would gist,sometimes go out and have fun. But I noticed/realised that i'm always the one suggesting my visit,anytime I say " I'm always the one suggesting my visit he'll say it's not true,that he also agreed to my coming, which almost means the same thing. I expect him to call me and say I should come on a certain date,etc. Why should i always be the one saying it.. is he shy to say it? I really don't understand.
Now I promised not to say it. We usually see every 2weeks,.that's courtesy of me. If I want to see him every week,I know it's possible but i just like to give him space to do other things,as i realised guys love to have their privacy sometimes. Now we ought to see this weekend,but he hasn't said anything yet.I want him to suggest our seeing himself,i said i wont say it again. But now i miss him...what should i do?
Should i still wait for him to say it? Or should i say it,even though i promised myself i wont say it till he does?
Or should i just stick to my promise? Cos i think if he really misses me and wants to see me he'll say it

YOU sound like a small girl, why post this private issue here, relationship is all about communication, if you can not tell him your needs then how do you expect him to read your MIND, he aint a genie naaaa.... i tire for some gals o.... he is not cheating on you, he allows you to come n go.... IT ONLY SHOWS HE IS BUSY AND YOU MAY BE LESS BUSY OR JOBLESS..... ALSO IT SHOWS YOU MAY NOT BE CONTRIBUTING TO THE RELATIONSHIP ENOUGH FOR HIM TO SEE YOUR VALUE.... YOU NEED HIM MORE THAN HE NEEDS YOU.... Increase your worth and he will do the calling.... Finally what if you are no longer a FANCY catch to him and he doesn't want to break up with you out of sympathy.... I KNOW YOU ARE A GOOD GIRL BUT PLS UPGRADE..... no one celebrates an old car or a used TOY .... always challenge him with your life success and he will marry you to keep you.

U invite babe ova, dem say u dey desperate, u keep quiet, dem say u no care..

and your point is