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Re: Ladies Stop Saying This And Say This Instead by oodua1stson: 5:14pm On Jul 11, 2016 |
foolinlove:pffffffftttt You make it look like most men want to marry a virgin. From what I know, only less than 1% of Nigerian men want to marry a virgin. What am I saying sef. Naija has less than 1% of virgins (male and female |
Re: Ladies Stop Saying This And Say This Instead by chigoizie7(m): 8:01pm On Jul 11, 2016 |
newsphase: I didn't and will not disagree with any of ur points one bit, because u made a lot of points. One thing is have always refused to agree to is stereotypes, stereotypes in the sense that non-virgins are classified as either bad,wayward or bad set of people. That is the only thing I can disagree to. Culture is the people's way of life, but permit me to flaw the laws of statistics as to carrying any sort of experiment to ascertain what I am about to say. Virginity is so many things u said in our African and igbo traditions. Accepted. What I will want to say is that despite the core values placed on virgins as regards culture, u can still attest to the fact that so many of our young girls( @least 70%) got married to their husbands as non virgins, and it does not in any way deter them from the core values of marriage. U can also bare me some truth that some of our known virgins turn out to be worst or bad as regards to marriage. A certain behaviour of certain group of people over time become a kinda tradition/custom/culture. And over time, our ladies are majority as non-virgins. However, culture is what a certain group of people are known for, and in this 21st century, our young lady's are non virgins in minority, suffice it to ascertain that the number of non virgins out numbered the number of virgins, it kinda made a norm to be a non virgin. I will say that since majority of non virgins out numbered the number of virgins that it is now a norm/culture to be non virgin because that is what we are known for. Cultures and traditions are bound to change with place and time. From the above observations, I came to realise that it does not matter to me if u are a virgin or not as long as u are a good person with a good and loving heart. NB:- whatever u said up there is 100% truth. It is just that my perception about life is different than yours. |
Re: Ladies Stop Saying This And Say This Instead by foolinlove(f): 5:58am On Jul 17, 2016 |
newsphase: No matter what you say, it's still a no to sex. No means no. Women shouldn't have to offer reasons or excuses - just say no and leave it at that. If the relationship is progressing, you may want to give your reason. But until then, a simple no should suffice. |
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