Hi,
I need you guys help pls.
Am in a relationship with my boyfriend, we've been together since I was 16 his four years older than I am. we love each other so much! he wants to get married, he has a very good job we are fincially ok. Am 21 now and his 25 I don't mind the getting married part, cause I want to wake up beside him every morning. The issue is he wants kids at least a year after we get married then i'll be 22 and he'll be 26 I don't want to have Kids right now it's too early for me and my career. He doesn't seem to understand. Please advice with the best way to make him understand i can't have Kids now, cause have tried and his family and mine will expect kids too, I believe if he agrees with me we both can make the family understand and also to wait. please advice.

Then don't get married until you want to have kids..

It seems in ur writeup dat u don't even want to marry now. Let's just tell ourselves d simple truth. U did not tell us d kind of work u are into. I will advice u to Sit dis ur fiancee down n tell him how n when u would like to have his baby. But if everything seems to fall on deaf ears, then u will have to choose btw ur career n ur relationship at d moment.