I’ve been dating my girlfriend for over 8 months now and I’ve been thinking of popping the question.

However, I feel like I have to hold back for a bit… when I started talking with her about

having a family, she show disinterest in having kids. We were having fun and talking about

having 3 kids but then she followed it with “having kids are troublesome,

I honestly don’t want to have any…”

I was taken aback, I had asked her more about it but she just shrugged it off saying that

she just doesn’t want them. I made it clear with her that I want to have kids.

So now I am wondering if we are still on the same page as when we started…

we are both dating with intentions of marriage, but with the current discussion it’s almost

like it might not work out.

When I first met her through a singles tour, she was really charming (still is) and

she made it clear that she wants to find that one person to spend the rest of her life with.

But because we never talked about having kids whatsoever, now that it happened,

I am surprised. What should I do? I love her and I want to spend the rest of my life with her

but I want to have a family… I really need help, please!

Abeeeeg, where is this "SINGLE TOUR"... Lemme tour there as well

But joke aside, some women are not really fond of having kids.. They think kids are juz little devils that will manipulate them & change all their ways randomly...

The hand writing is on the wall. And she has indirectly told u that she don't want to marry you.
Take or it or Leave it.

If u no like her stands relating to d issue of not wanting kids, abeg give me d babe na dat type I dey find

Is she doesn't want kids, then replace her with a sex doll. It's the same thing...

i smell fear in her statement..

OP talk to her again and again,if she didn't change her mind,let her go,there are many fishes in water.

maybe she's hinting u..that she isn't fertile ..go seek love else where

Who doesn't want kids, are you sure she has a womb?

impregnate her, as in give her belle b:

Oyenike01:
impregnate her, as in give her belle b:

Even if he does that, she can always abort it.

Run. This is too much of a problem. At least you know before marriage.

You be got three options: come back to Nigeria; Wake up, you are dreaming, and 3 are you still in denial that u're singer? Go mingle friend!

She doesn't want kids!!!
Whoa!!
I would looovvee to meet her.
She seems different.
The kind of discussions we will have.
I cant wait.

She has to be somebody whose womb have been removed due to one thing or the other