1. Be honest.
There is no fancy way to do this. Just. Be. Honest. If
you’re into her, then tell her you’re into her. Don’t
play that “I’m-trying-to-come-off-cool-and-macho-so-
I’m-gonna-play-like-I’m-not-that-interested-so-she-
falls-for-me” crap. That shit’s lame. (And let me tell
you, any girl that falls into that passive-aggressive play
is not in the right state of mind to be in a serious
relationship, especially with you. ) Stop it. If you’re
not that into her, then just be honest! Let her know
you’re not as interested as she might be and spare her
the run-around of awkward texts you’re trying to
avoid sending. Don’t be that guy. Nobody likes that
guy.








2. Don’t hide your habits.
We’re not idiots. Porn, cars, video games, beer,
sports… It’s not that we have a problem with you
liking these things… we have a problem with you trying
to do these things behind our backs . Don’t lie about
what you’re doing or who you’re doing it with. Follow
the first tip. If she has a problem with what you’re
doing, ask her why instead of just finding an
elaborate way to hide it from her the next time you
decide to do it. And to some of our “free-lookers” out
there, don’t feed that “you’re the most beautiful girl
in the world” line to your girl if you’re the guy that
turns his head sideways every time you see a girl walk
past with tight jeans on. If you’re a “Barney Stinson”,
then own it and let her know. Bullshit begets bullshit,
so keep it real. If she doesn’t trust you, then there’s
an element already missing in your relationship that
you might want to think/talk about.
…this brings me to the next tip on our list…











3. *COMMUNICATE!*

This one gets the special asterisks because this one, I
feel, is the MOST important. I can’t stress this one
enough. Men have this habit of speaking through a
series of grunts, sighs, head nods, or eyebrow raises
while their arms are folded over their chest listening
to us talk. I’m almost positive there’s not a man out
there who enjoys listening to the words, “ Are you
even listening to me?! ” – But there’s a reason she’s
asking, guys. We’re not inside your heads, we don’t
know what you’re thinking and if you are listening to
us, a lot of the times, you’re not showing us any
indication it got through. Silence isn’t the answer we
want. We want a “yeah, I got you” or “no, I don’t
agree with you.” We know YOU don’t want to do
anything that’ll trigger “conversation overtime,” but if
you didn’t agree with something we said and you held
it in… you’re gonna have the same discussion with us
again in the future. So save us both some time. Speak
up.







4. Don’t be lazy.
No one’s asking you to solve all the world’s problems
and be superman, but at least handle your shit. Take
care of yourself, manage your money, be responsible
at work. Basic. Don’t expect a woman with a perfect
body if you have flaws of your own, don’t expect a
woman to be independent and make her own money
when you don’t have your own, and don’t expect a
woman to “put out” for you when you ain’t got the
moves yourself. Be who you want to attract. No, she
don’t want no scrub.






5. Show Your Appreciation.
So you might not be the best at remembering
birthdays or anniversaries, but there are other ways
to show you appreciate her. Sometimes, she can be
wrapped up in the things that are going on in her life
and be so overwhelmed that her laundry’s backed up,
or the dishes haven’t gotten to… her dog has been
cooped up at the apartment… I’m not saying to
become a “man-ny” for her, but doing something as
small as taking one item off her to-do list will make
her eternally grateful. Show her you appreciate her
time by freeing it up for her. By doing that, you’ve
got more time to be together, she’s got more energy
and hey-oh . Bring on the wine.
part 2 tommorrow...to make it 11 ways







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Lol. Op here thinks we are so dull we can't even treat a lady right. How funny!

bitchcrafts:
Lol. Op here thinks we are so dull we can't even treat a lady right. How funny!

Some of u are that dull

NO Communications... NO Relationship.

halfricanadian:


Some of u are that dull

When next I need the opinion of assholes, I'll let u know.

halfricanadian:


Some of u are that dull

Seriously?

who be princeakins?


Is he a lastma official?

Ok...

PenisOfTruth:
who be princeakins?


Is he a lastma official?

A Nairalander bruv

bitchcrafts:
When next I need the opinion of an assholes, I'll let u know.

like u dont av asshole

Hommie hating doesnt fit u

RoyalBlak007:

Seriously?

yup hommie

princeakins:


A Nairalander bruv

oohhh ..ok i go try vote for you
nothing do you

halfricanadian:

like u dont av asshole
Hommie hating doesnt fit u

You call this hating? You amuse me lol

bitchcrafts:
You call this hating? You amuse me lol

i am an amuesment oya park well

halfricanadian:


i am an amuesment oya park well

I already did until u came out with your tale of woe..

bitchcrafts:
I already did until u came out with your tale of woe..

I am no story teller

PenisOfTruth:

oohhh ..ok i go try vote for you
nothing do you

Gracias...

Everly bruv for life