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Please i need mature opinions on the subject. Thanks!

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What did u have in mind apart from a ring...a bottle or a Love Machine? Smh.

Let me help your watery brain.
When you propose to a lady you are doing it for MARRIAGE. That is why u use a ring to signify it. When she puts it on it will serve as a symbol that she has been choosen. Proposal=Marriage. Ring=Symbol.

I like we tatted up... Ring is fine... But I think ink is permanent...

Its not compulsory









You can use a keke tyre




Iranu!!!

To me, its not compulsory. Its not a must to do what everybody does.

it signified love and trust for each other.

Why propose in the first place?

i wonder too, when you can just hot brand on the cheek or forehead

Nope!
OP, Asides rings, u can also propose with a House in Banana Island, Range Rover or even an estate.
"Baby, I present this Range sport to u as symbol of my love and affection for u, Will u marry me?" If she says YES, u give her the car keys. Simple

I don't know whether it is compulsory or not. All I know is that it is more of the 'modern' trend. Our Papas and Mamas did not do all that...They believed in Trust. Once taken you are taken!

Today, people do that for many reasons:

FOR THE YARINYA(s) (LADIES)

1. It is a proof of your 'commitment' to her

2. The 'quality' of the ring tells the worth of their man

3. To 'shame' her critics that she has a man too (even if the ring will last on that finger more than marriage ring sef)

4. To ward off 'unwanted' admirers on both sides (men away from her and girls away from her man)


5. A proof that they have been taken


6. The ring stands as an 'evidence' and authenticity of your proposal.




FOR THE YARO(s) (MEN)

1. It's a sign of possession

2. It means they are ready to settle down

3. A proof of their commitment

4. To ward off 'unsolicited' suitors

5. For the 'yahoo' abi 'guy men', it is a means to an end... (those concerned will understand)




Above all, what matters is SINCERITY.

So many ladies have been wearing that ring long enough to form part of their DNA, yet the marriage is still in the 'pipeline'. Some have 'waited' for years only to be dumped....


So...

If you are proposing, MEAN IT!!!

If you are not ready, LET HER BE!!!

Don't chain her with your ring and make her lose the serious suitors.

If nah igbo gal, u fit use "atm card".........

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