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Women and their wahala...

Women nd dis there ego issue, i no even no wetin to talk bt jst make sure there is peace btw them.

If she is 4mnths older, why is she scared of calling ur sis by her name

You should talk to your sister tell her you are not comfortable with what is happening, she needs to know how to respect elders, if na me I go don dey call her by her name since kilofe fa nonsense, in as much as your wife respected her so why won't she. On the other thought I think your wife should forget about it, all this anti anti things are outdated
My fiancee is not yoruba and I call all his siblings by name, there is nothing like anti on uncle in their house and there is no problem about that

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southniyikaye:
the thing is,you women now,my sister may start feeling somehow and the earlier we settle this the better.because this is a relationship that is not even up to a month,my sister loves her but it is this respect ish that my wife is not comfortable with.i just want a way I can settle it and it won't bring any kind of hatred

Both of them should call them selfs name nah, its nothing hard, maybe your wife is a shy type she should do that on whatsapp or bbm, she should bombard your sister with compliments everyday but not forgetting that she won't include anti, she should just act mature
Why will someone I'm older than call me by my name sef when some people older than me puts Ma while addressing me, I go don change it for am tetee your wife they dull the matter

Your wife first. she's ur life

when ur sister come marry finish where you won put ur wife?

leave tradition and face reality

There is one thing I'm always told by my mum... as long as you are the wife, you have to respect everyone in your husband's family whether the last child is just ten years old. All your wife got to do is overlook it. Even your sister must respect everyone in her husband's family when she also gets married else she is also looking for trouble for herself.

since they are both sister in-laws.. why can't they use the term 'sister' ?

Must she call her aunty?..

Please tell ur wife to call ur sister by her name! Afterall, your sister is your younger sister, am I right?

Keeping two women in one house is like puting a cat and dog in one cage....their must be quarrel, especially as one is preggy...you knw preggy women easily get irritated by erri' lil thingy...

Keeping two women in one house is like puting a cat and dog in one cage....there must be quarrel, especially as one is preggy...you knw preggy women easily get irritated by erri' lil thingy...

southniyikaye:
the thing is,you women now,my sister may start feeling somehow and the earlier we settle this the better.because this is a relationship that is not even up to a month,my sister loves her but it is this respect ish that my wife is not comfortable with.i just want a way I can settle it and it won't bring any kind of hatred

"my wife". nd u say una neva date reach one month, hw she take b ur wife? back 2 d matter: i even wonda y ur fiancee d call her aunty in d first place. tel her 2 cal ur sis by her name too.

I listen to a program yesterday on this same issue, and the presenter said, if u find it difficult to call ur husband siblings aunty or uncle or vice versa in ur case, u can give dem a nickname. Like, omoge, arewa or using d person name to form nickname like ibukun....ibk, doyin...dy
With that dia won't be problem, Its just that dey fail to understand we r not in d 80s again, technology has taken over everything.

Maiconyoung:
"my wife". nd u say una neva date reach one month, hw she take b ur wife? back 2 d matter: i even wonda y ur fiancee d call her aunty in d first place. tel her 2 cal ur sis by her name too.

sorry we courted for almost 5years what I mean is the wedding is just a month old

irrelevant issue .

nnamdiokere45:
irrelevant issue .

i checked ur page and I see you haven't created any reasonable topic. Have begged you guys with God pls no allow devil get hand for your matter o

southniyikaye:
i checked ur page and I see you haven't created any reasonable topic. Have begged you guys with God pls no allow devil get hand for your matter o

lol...is dis ur topic reasonable? tot ur suppose to b a married man. 'my sister calls my wife by her name bt my wife calls her anty', c'mon does dis call for u to open a thread?if u wer rili mature u jst tel ur wife to cal ur sis by her name period. u cum dey act like toddler

elomez:
There is one thing I'm always told by my mum... as long as you are the wife, you have to respect everyone in your husband's family whether the last child is just ten years old. All your wife got to do is overlook it. Even your sister must respect everyone in her husband's family when she also gets married else she is also looking for trouble for herself.

I think you nailed it! U make perfect sense!! U just speak my mind---your mum was very right and she must be a wonderful mum to say that to u and u must be a typical home trained yoruba lady---#respectculture and #tradition

The thing is if she reverts to calling your sister by name it would sound confrontational.

Let her know that she'll have to bury her pride and give respect to her in-laws(I'm guessing its a Yoruba family).

It is by being humble that she will get maximum respect and love from your family members.

Tell her not to worry though, once she gives birth she will be addressed by the name of her baby.

tabtabtab:
I think you nailed it! U make perfect sense!! U just speak my mind---your mum was very right and she must be a wonderful mum to say that to u and u must be a typical home trained yoruba lady---#respectculture and #tradition

Thanks. But I'm Isoko though.

respect is reciprocal

ok

southniyikaye:
sorry we courted for almost 5years what I mean is the wedding is just a month old