we started dating wen she was in ss1 & dated for 5 years.
my ex is every guy dream girl. we planned d future together & has names of our future kids written down.
after sec school,she has to hustle & make money & further her education while i continue with my construction carpentry.
around dec 2013 i was able to save #180k & wanted to start a saloon and employ a good barber while i continue my hustle on site, she helped me with 40k.
we plan to own another saloon & later a bus so i can quit the hustle.
i started noticing some changes in her few months later.
then she told me 1 day & said "SEUN WILL I FINISH SCH AND NOW MARRY A CARPENTER". i was shocked at how she forgot the kinda life we planned to have together.i acted cool but moved all my love for her 2 my 2nd gf (i moved into new relationship cus i know she would break up with me soon).
its been 2 yrs now & she neva smell sch gate while i wil b quiting my work in 6 months & monitor my business. now i have a baby boy from the new girl(wifee)

Lol. Bright tomorrow indeed.

And what has your story taught us?

tayo60:
And what has your story taught us?

not to look down on anybody because u are aiming for something u havent got

You made the right choice, because that your ex would have nagged you for eternity. Now you have a peace of mind and remain focus, educate your son and if possible don't have more than 2 kids. Wish you luck

olaboy1:
You made the right choice, because that your ex would have nagged you for eternity. Now you have a peace of mind and remain focus, educate your son and if possible don't have more than 2 kids. Wish you luck

thanks man

never underate anyone

smithsydny:
never underate anyone

yes man

so what is this? felt like typing this story for us to do what? read n pass or advice u or criticize u? u dated a girl for 5 yrs n dumped her. got a new girl pregnant

ehheee?

Trudiee:
so what is this? felt like typing this story for us to do what? read n pass or advice u or criticize u? u dated a girl for 5 yrs n dumped her. got a new girl pregnant

ehheee?

only girls find it hard to understand the lesson in the story

Lesson Learnt: Discard a b!tch before she discards you

Funny . . Hell nawww

Trudiee:
so what is this? felt like typing this story for us to do what? read n pass or advice u or criticize u? u dated a girl for 5 yrs n dumped her. got a new girl pregnant

ehheee?

i swear u re crazzy

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gabazin080:

only girls find it hard to understand the lesson in the story

my brother, there is nothing to learn here. how a dude dated for 5 yrs n left the girl or what??
the girl that actually contributed to his business. committed herself to d guy. she sed she no wan marry carpenter, na by force?

the most he cn do is admit he was hurt n move on.
not my problem. not my business.

oya u tel me what u learnt. that the girl shd marry him cuz they been dating?

ofcuz u shd know humans can't be trusted. the gist u want us to grab is that some girls cn be materialistic or think of "irrelevant" things.

you as the guy failed to keep ur woman. u know how? she looked down on ur profession n u couldn't defend urself. carpenters are artists too. yea. without carpenters, i won't be lying in my bed texting this.

u cn make carpentry really beautiful. show her what she's not getting. there's a way around everything. u lost something. trust me. cn ur wifee contribute the way ur ex did

Ebuka2016:

i swear u re crazzy

at least i keep it interesting n fun. oya what did u learn that u haven't hrd bfore??

abegi

& she neva smell sch gate

Dat part got me

Trudiee:


at least i keep it interesting n fun. oya what did u learn that u haven't hrd bfore??

abegi

2day is sunday abegi u go church 2day??

Hmmm

Trudiee:


at least i keep it interesting n fun. oya what did u learn that u haven't hrd bfore??

abegi

though it hurts to leave her. but she broke up with me even before the new girl got pregnant. she even ditched some friends all cus she will soon be going to the university

Ebuka2016:
2day is sunday abegi u go church 2day??

yes oo God First

Ebuka2016:
2day is sunday abegi u go church 2day??

yes oo God First

gabazin080:
though it hurts to leave her. but she broke up with me even before the new girl got pregnant. she even ditched some friends all cus she will soon be going to the university

Because she's yet to gain admission into the uni today doesn't mean she won't in the future.
That's her dream, so don't look down on it. Perseverance pays a lot, and if she can persevere enough to follow her dreams then good for her.
Your own dream was to settle down early, good for you also.

gabazin080:

only girls find it hard to understand the lesson in the story

Not just girls, but unreasonable ones. The lesson(s) are right there, so obvious.

Trudiee:

yes oo God First
yes oo God First

hope the priest's sermon entered ur naughty brain?

Ebuka2016:
hope the priest's sermon entered ur naughty brain?

lol oya e don do. who get naughty brain?

eyinjuege:


Because she's yet to gain admission into the uni today doesn't mean she won't in the future.
That's her dream, so don't look down on it. Perseverance pays a lot, and if she can persevere enough to follow her dreams then good for her.
Your own dream was to settle down early, good for you also.

tell him. he probably wants us to get his "gist" that since the girl was dating him b4 her dreams to go to uni, she must continue.

op u cn excell in ur carpentry. its not sth to be ashamed of. just saying.

Trudiee:
lol oya e don do. who get naughty brain?

u of course.... abeg no take me serious oo

Ebuka2016:
u of course.... abeg no take me serious oo

lolzz y i go take am serious.
u nko? did u go to church

Trudiee:

lolzz y i go take am serious.

u nko? did u go to church

i did but na evening mass i go...i dnt lyk going in the morning. Evening mass is always sweet trust me