Without much expansions and show-working tactics on this topic, I want to go straight to the points, as a follow up to an earlier threat on: "7 wifely duties Nigerian ladies should avoid with their boyfriends"
Here are 8 Husbandly duties Nigerian Guys should avoid with their girlfriends
1. DONT TURN YOURSELF INTO WOMAN WRAPPER: Don't try to please ur girlfriend and her friends by taking them to the movies, shopping mall, weddings and all manner of outings. save ur money for the rainy days.
2. DON'T PAY FOR HER HAIRDRESSING: Stop buying Brazilian, Mexican, Japanese or even Nigerian weavon and attachment for her. if she can't maintain her hair, she can barb it. It's not ur duty to pay for ur girlfriend's hairdressing expanses.
3. DO NOT WASH HER CLOTHS: Its no more news that some girls now are rustling to testing their boyfriends to see how caring and loving they are buy asking them to wash their underwear (pants, bra, bikini etc) and some go as far as asking their guys to fix pad on their pants during menstruation..WTF!. if she can't maintain a personal cleanliness then she's not worth being a Bae!
4. DO NOT BECOME HER FAMILY WALFARE OFFICER: There's nothing wrong in giving and being generous. But u have to be careful when giving for love. "Love demands giving but avoid putting yourself in the position where u do all the givings"...Distinguished Sen Tabise (2016)
5. DO NOT TURN YOURSELF INTO HER PERSONAL DRIVER: The ladies and the front sit of the car are like ..(u know d normal pic) 5&6. Don't allow her to cajol u and turn u into her personal and even family driver. Every event she wants to attend ..naming ceremony, TM, weddings, birthday etc, it's ur car. obviously she doesn't know the cost of maintaining a car and fueling it to be on the road. once it breaks down she will jumb into the next available one.
6. DO NOT TAKE HER OUT ON EXPENSIVE DATES: Don't think u will impress her by taking her out to expensive eateries and joints. it doesn't make her love u the more but she will regard u a spender. Instead, buy her books on personal development and character building so that she can become a good and productive wife material for her future family and society at large.
7. DONT TRY TO REPLACE OR COMPETE WITH HER FATHER IN TRAINING HER: If u think training ur girlfriend will make her marry u or you are sponsoring a girl u are not married to for her to come and marry u..well, that's the biggest one chance you have entered! u don't train someone in school for marriage rather, to acquire formal education.
lastly but not the least,
8. DO NOT YIELD TO HER SEXUAL ADVANCES AND TRICKS: The truth of the matter is, sexual pleasure and intimacy is reserved for the married couples. DO not allow ur girlfriend to threaten u by saying if u don't sleep with her for her to know how strong u claim u are in bed as a man, she will leave u. Don't mind her, or is she the one that has the calibration for determining good sex?!
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i ain't buying u a new phone - i Aint't ur Papa

I ain't paying your tuition fees -I ain't ur papa

3, 4 and 7.. Every sensible dude should be weary of these numbers

I ain't buying u an iphone 6s...while ma mum still packs ha nokia 2626 wif rubber band

Who girlfriend epp sef for dz booharee era

To wrap it up, don't do anything just sit back and watch her as she tries to please you

A counter thread true talk, well said. Both threads are very correct.

'HUSBANDLY' duties

counter thread.
some ladies will not like this
thumbs up Op
the poster above me,must be guilty of some,if not all that was listed.

Counter thread leme save space

This won't stop me frm doing wetin i wan do

Lol...counter thread

tabisegroup:
Without much expansions and show-working tactics on this topic, I want to go straight to the points, as a follow up to an earlier threat on: "7 wifely duties Nigerian ladies should avoid with their boyfriends"
Here are 8 Husbandly duties Nigerian Guys should avoid with their girlfriends
1. DONT TURN YOURSELF INTO WOMAN WRAPPER: Don't try to please ur girlfriend and her friends by taking them to the movies, shopping mall, weddings and all manner of outings. save ur money for the rainy days.
2. DON'T PAY FOR HER HAIRDRESSING: Stop buying Brazilian, Mexican, Japanese or even Nigerian weavon and attachment for her. if she can't maintain her hair, she can barb it. It's not ur duty to pay for ur girlfriend's hairdressing expanses.
3. DO NOT WASH HER CLOTHS: Its no more news that some girls now are rustling to testing their boyfriends to see how caring and loving they are buy asking them to wash their underwear (pants, bra, bikini etc) and some go as far as asking their guys to fix pad on their pants during menstruation..WTF!. if she can't maintain a personal cleanliness then she's not worth being a Bae!
4. DO NOT BECOME HER FAMILY WALFARE OFFICER: There's nothing wrong in giving and being generous. But u have to be careful when giving for love. "Love demands giving but avoid putting yourself in the position where u do all the givings"...Distinguished Sen Tabise (2016)
5. DO NOT TURN YOURSELF INTO HER PERSONAL DRIVER: The ladies and the front sit of the car are like ..(u know d normal pic) 5&6. Don't allow her to cajol u and turn u into her personal and even family driver. Every event she wants to attend ..naming ceremony, TM, weddings, birthday etc, it's ur car. obviously she doesn't know the cost of maintaining a car and fueling it to be on the road. once it breaks down she will jumb into the next available one.
6. DO NOT TAKE HER OUT ON EXPENSIVE DATES: Don't think u will impress her by taking her out to expensive eateries and joints. it doesn't make her love u the more but she will regard u a spender. Instead, buy her books on personal development and character building so that she can become a good and productive wife material for her future family and society at large.
7. DONT TRY TO REPLACE OR COMPETE WITH HER FATHER IN TRAINING HER: If u think training ur girlfriend will make her marry u or you are sponsoring a girl u are not married to for her to come and marry u..well, that's the biggest one chance you have entered! u don't train someone in school for marriage rather, to acquire formal education.
lastly but not the least,
8. DO NOT YIELD TO HER SEXUAL ADVANCES AND TRICKS: The truth of the matter is, sexual pleasure and intimacy is reserved for the married couples. DO not allow ur girlfriend to threaten u by saying if u don't sleep with her for her to know how strong u claim u are in bed as a man, she will leave u. Don't mind her, or is she the one that has the calibration for determining good sex?!
You add yours

Cc: Danceville

...... Some dudes did most if not all of those things up there for their girlfriends then and today, they are happily married and for some it didn't work out. It's all about choice and what the man wants for his woman.