, Dated for a yr, we were an item
, Problem crept in. Left me for her ex
, Found it difficult to let her go cos i luvd her nd still do eventho i av met a couple of gurls but none of them is fit to replace her
, After a yr, we met again yesterdy just when i thot have gotten over her. I still do luv her, never stopped
, Frm all indications, judgin frm her conduct towards me lately-sms and calls it appears she wants me back but this guy just wouldnt let her be.
, Gave her a call this evening,i sensed she was wit him but she didnt let me knw until latr wen she called back to apologise and told me she was wit him. Nw fellow NLs d problem nw is that d guy simply wants to take her to see his peeps 2moro simply because he got 2 knw frm d phone conversatn that we have a date 2moro.
, She has alrdy scheduled d next day for our so called date
, Wat do i do fellas? Am i chasing shadows?
FOW HOW LONG do i continue to fight for her luv? Is she worth fightin for? PLS fellas just wanna seek ur opinion on this,
HONEST AND MATURE ADVICE PLS.

mehnnn,u already knw the ansa, its mr lyk chasin shadow lyk u said!!so i il advise u to just let her go she isnt meant for u, there r thousand nd one grls dt il gv nythin to b with u, y nt just go get em,

What's up with the commas and sentence structure? Its kinda difficult to read, if I must say.

@ Sleek21
thanx for ur advice man but have tried a thousand times to move on wit someone else but it just aint workin, am sure u know wat its like when u have got so much that reminds u of her, To think we met right on nairaland.

I find it really hard to let go, I have a strong feelin we are meant for each other. I may b wrong tho!

does this particular babe stay in karu abuja

cos i feel i know her

did she travel on monday 2 return wednesday

lemme knw

I feel u bro, its hard to let go that damm strong feeling, but getting rid of anything that reminds u of her may help.
Her number, pictures, any pieces of item that will keep bring back flash back, just get rid of them. Move on gradually u will b ok.

Worked for me.

Why r u letting her mess with ur emotions?

If she loves u more than the new guy then she knows what to do.
Stop playing childish games. YUCK!

@all posters
Y are u al discouragin d bro@lonlypal men she lyks u its just she needs more dan just a relationship try 2 asure her u stil luv her. If she's cool wit ya, y not tak it 2 d next level dat is îf u realy luv her as u say,dont 4get women need more than just words.

If she accompanies the other guy to see his people like you said earlier, then you just have to let go. You don't force someone to love you or else, you'll live to regret it.

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does this particular babe stay in karu abuja

cos i feel i know her

did she travel on monday 2 return wednesday

lemme knw

nah she aint the one, she stays in ilorin

@ crazy man
Thats exactly ma fear, would av backed out on that basis alone but frm what she told me yesterdy seems like the guy simply wants to make that move just because he overheard we have a date 2day, Y nw? she even told me she hasnt heard frm him for more than two weeks until yesterdy when he paid her a visit. I dnt want her to fal into wrong hands cos he has been cruel to her in d past like she told me and i dnt think he's gonna change,

@ eshy
thanx man but have done exactly that, she alrdy knows that, she knows she meant evrything to me. She knows all i need right now is an avenue to take it to d next level, she has alrdy met my mum nd siblings. though not on formal intro

@ kellorah
it aint a childish game, if u were to be in ma shoes u would av done worse, am not lettin her play wit ma emotions, I feel she is @ crossroads, judgin frm what have observed on her conduct towards me and d guy in question

@ justwise
done that too, but what u dnt undastand is that when u have someone who has taken a better place in ur heart its hard to chase dem out.

U can't love two people at the same time; and she's "old enough and ugly enough" to make a decision. What is she feeling like sef? KMT!
It's u giving her the time of day anyways. Enjoy the bumpy ride.

The problem of love is that we fall in love with those that rarely loved us, when we see those that loved us genuinely, we rarely care. My friend loving someone is a choice, don't force your love on anyone, you can only proclaim it for the other partner to make a choice. when choice of love comes from within, you dont need to coax anyone to doing things. Things will naturally be done. Remember this, ladies follow whoever their hearts loves, whatever the circumstances. If she truly cares for you from within, she will make her choice whatever is the pressure from the other guy . Me think the girl knows what she is doing.

There is an adage which says: the water one will drink,wont flow past you. And i believe in this saying:If he/she is meant for u,nothing/no one would keep him/her away from u. This is an emotional situation and it's hard to love someone who obviously loves another person(or not just sure of whom she wants to be with).
I'ld say u give her a space. Am sure she wasn't forced into her present r/ship. If she wants to be with u,she is going to come to u.

@ jojohnson nd Nana
ur right bro but u need to know that sometimes its hard to fine tune the calling of the heart, At that stage we tend to make the conclusion that SHE/HE IS D ONE.
thanx anyway
I guess right nw ma only option is to look elsewhere eventhough av given it a try couple of times b4,

@y'all
thanx so much, y'all far too kind