AyamConfidence:
from what I was able to understand from your epistle...she's your fiancée and y'all are already living together... now I'll advice you to go and marry her first then you can come and hear what I have to tell you...peace

Cool23:
Dude just chilax u know how girls are she wants u to feel bad just swallow ur pride and make her feel like she's a princess and u would even be surprised that she will be the one apologizing just beg her to forgive u cos I think that's what missing

ikombe:
Its called misunderstanding

It happens in all relationship , there is nothing like a perfect relationship you have to sit her down and talk to her as a friend and a husband to be . When issues like dis comes up wen u are finally married will you start ignoring each other . Start from now and amend ya ways . Let her know wen she is wrong and you can just tell her to forgive you if u made her annoyed even if you didnt do anything

Ladies love being pampared

Learn how to say you are sorry for no reason and i swear you will not have any problem in your relationship

pedrilo:
that girl must be in her early twenties. they know nothing abt relationships, most times they see u like their brother at home and dare u wit such effrontery. do not allow her. she dey mad

omochelsea004:
she is close to 30 year of age, & must you abuse her before making ur point?

omochelsea004:
dont you see where i said she will be going back to school on Monday? she normally come to spend weekends with me, and she will return to school on Mondays

omochelsea004:
thanks for the advice, but i noticed it is very common to her to start ignoring me whenever we av any little argument, that what she does after any argument either she is wrong or she is right, i dont get it, & am really tired of silence treatment, i don't like it at all

AyamConfidence:
don't you know that sex before marriage is wrong in God's sight...abi is she your lawfully wedded wife

pedrilo:
sorry oga, carry ur wahala and go

pedrilo:
that girl must be in her early twenties. they know nothing abt relationships, most times they see u like their brother at home and dare u wit such effrontery. do not allow her. she dey mad

HaneefahRN:
*rolls eye*. I don't get, what's the big deal about you going to buy the ponmo while she prepares the pounded yam and pepper? Abi what was the argument all about?

mhisbliss:
five years? you're not married? she's living with you? wao seems she has no future prospects is she 18? to realize five years is a long time for courtship, btw both of you are at fault

shes at fault because she should do all the chores as a lady without compelling you to help you should willingly offer to help, and i sensed she's pig headed which is not a good quality if she plans to settle down with you.

you're at fault for saying all of what you said just for a simple argument are you a lady? because you bring money she isnt entitled to her opinion again like you own her, pls try to be considerate

offer to help her anyway you can

you shouldn't have allowed her to move in with you until youre ready to get married, since you're living like couples now just be prepared to face the problems associated with such co habitation, and try to show her you're the man not by violence but simple closure and reasoning she deserves your respect.

Gofwane:
maybe you should re-read the post again. The op said she will be going back to school. He has clarified it that she only comes to spend the weekends. Though he didn't mention how often.

Gofwane:
^^^
see them. Smh for these type of ladies. You try to act cool, she takes you for granted. e.g the one above me. This is a potential disrespectful lady in the making.

Actually, i see nothing wrong in the op going to buy the kpomo. But it shouldn't be because she commanded it. It should be because he felt like doing it.