My elder sister is a Virgin (According to her) she is keeping it because she believes remaining a virgin will make her marriage a success one, Is this really true ? please someone should enlighten me, thanks

heritage00:

My elder sister is a Virgin (According to her) she is keeping it because she believes remaining a virgin will make her marriage a success one, Is this really true ? please someone should enlighten me, thanks

Yes, she may be right. at least in the sense that men, some men look to have a virgin woman as their wives because men view that virgin woman are more trustworthy and committed to a relationship, even though these men may have had several relationships in the run up. But that doesn't make a difference. Virgin woman are generally shy and therefore liked by men.

This is nonsense.

If you are a virgin but your attitude sucks to your husband, whats the point? Everyone has a limit when it comes to behaviours

heritage00:

My elder sister is a Virgin (According to her)  she is keeping it because she believes remaining a virgin will make her marriage a success one, Is this really true ? please someone should enlighten me, thanks

ReallY? 

then maybe she's got a lot to learn about men if she thinks, this alone is gonna keep her man in!

Gabry:

This is nonsense.

If you are a virgin but your attitude sucks to your husband, whats the point? Everyone has a limit when it comes to behaviours

Being a virgin gives you an advantage, it doesn't mean that you have an unbearable attitude and your husband would take it just because you are a virgin.

rexertea:

Being a virgin gives you an advantage, it doesn't mean that you have an unbearable attitude and your husband would take it just because you are a virgin.

I mean what if her personality sucks? Some people change after marriage ooo. . . . . Like my cousin's wife! she was a virgin and he married her and all and suddenly she just changed. Now they are going through a divorce. . .

So I say virgin or no virgin, it does not guarantee anything in your relationship

Gabry:


I mean what if her personality sucks? Some people change after marriage ooo. . . . . Like my cousin's wife! she was a virgin and he married her and all and suddenly she just changed. Now they are going through a divorce. . .

So I say virgin or no virgin, it does not guarantee anything in your relationship

there is no guarantee of life and how could you guarantee a marriage to work out positively. What I said is being a virgin only gives an advantage to men. It may not be to every men. why are you taking it too personally? For me, even if the woman is not virgin , it's OK. I don't mind.

Being a virgin does not make you a better wife or husband, but it can make you an easy catch. That ends there.

Dont forget there is no single woman but was once a virgin with the same belief. Men, dont look at virginity once it is lost. They look at you. If you are good, and your man is good, it willwork out whether you are a virgin or not. Btw, did the lady find out if the would be husband is also a virgin? If he is not, what make him better than others? And what become of the lady she defiled?

Your sister can be 100 virgins put together and still will not make good wife.

Ones virginity does not have anything to do with success in marriage.
Success in marriage like every other human endeavours require determination, purposefulness, "stickability", sacrifices, patience, tolerant etc.

MARRIAGE IS NOT ALL ABOUT SEX.

For men who are looking for virgins to marry, are you still virgins?

Remember that you can never eat your cake and have it: As you go about f***** other chicks,
other guys are also f***** your wife to be!

THose girls you have f***ed, who are you leaving them for?!!!!!!

heritage00:

My elder sister is a Virgin (According to her) she is keeping it because she believes remaining a virgin will make her marriage a success one, Is this really true ? please someone should enlighten me, thanks

and u have sold ur own cos of meat pie and pure water or is it because of 100 naira recharge card?

Deep Soul:

I can think of only one advantage of being a virgin till marriage - The GOD factor

I know someone who was a virgin till she was about 25 and finally lost it.

She's getting married really soon (next month) but is sleeping around with another man who happens 2 be married!

I know plenty "non-virgins" who have a greater sense of what being morally upright really is.

Infact all the virgins I know have issues, charcter-wise.

issues?
are u jealous of them?the fact that they are virgins doesnt mean that they are perfect rather it means that they have got integrity which u dont have.

iykedare:

and u have sold your own cos of meat pie and pure water or is it because of 100 naira recharge card?
issues?
are u jealous of them?the fact that they are virgins doesnt mean that they are perfect rather it means that they have got integrity which u dont have.

Here comes the virginity campaigner. And of course, he is not even a virgin himself. Una see hypocrisy.

Yep!

vanitty:

Yep!

But unfortunately your vanity won't do your good.

^ Try and make sense

vanitty:

^ Try and make sense

Try and wake up.

Being a virgin  until marriage is good,but that is not all,CHARACTER is very important too.
most importantly God expect us to stay away from fornication,but the human factor
is always there.It takes the grace of God to stay from sex before marriage,

Michellin, you are not well versed to have an intelligent conversation are you?

Poster I was just been sarcastic jor, been a virgin is good and all but you just have to hope and pray for a good man - that will improve your chances of a successful marriage

julian_H:

Remember that you can never eat your cake and have it: As you go about f***** other chicks,
other guys are also f***** your wife to be!

THose girls you have f***ed, who are you leaving them for?!!!!!!

Abi o! Help me ask dem!

guys what are we talking abt.call a spade a spade.

most virgins would certainly make better wives than non virgins.to be a virgin is not easy in d world we live in and so they deserve more respect.

michelin,u were born a virgin but u didnt value it but sold it off so why are u bblabbing.

have a question for u?can a new cloth be as new as an old cloth.?nay

55gal:

Being a virgin until marriage is good,but that is not all,CHARACTER is very important too.
most importantly God expect us to stay away from fornication,but the human factor
is always there.It takes the grace of God to stay from sex before marriage,

thank u jor.

vanitty:

Michellin, you are not well versed to have an intelligent conversation are you?

Poster I was just been sarcastic jor, been a virgin is good and all but you just have to hope and pray for a good man - that will improve your chances of a successful marriage

thank u too.correct person

@michelin,did anyone force u to sell ur virginty?

very true.

To all the men looking for virgin wives hope you guys too are virgins oh

iykedare:

guys what are we talking abt.call a spade a spade.

most virgins would certainly make better wives than non virgins.to be a virgin is not easy in d world we live in and so they deserve more respect.

michelin,u were born a virgin but u didnt value it but sold it off so why are u bblabbing.

have a question for u?can a new cloth be as new as an old cloth.?nay
thank u jor.
thank u too.correct person

@michelin,did anyone force u to sell your virginty?

Did anyone also force your mum to sell hers? Each time you appoint a topic with a mysoginistic mindset, remember you have sisters and a mother and other female relatives.  

@vanitty

I was just playing with your username "vanity". It was meant to be a sarcastic comment but I can see you weren't smart enough to get my grift.

iykedare:

guys what are we talking abt.call a spade a spade.

most virgins would certainly make better wives than non virgins.to be a virgin is not easy in d world we live in and so they deserve more respect.

michelin,u were born a virgin but u didnt value it but sold it off so why are u bblabbing.

have a question for u?can a new cloth be as new as an old cloth.?nay
thank u jor.
thank u too.correct person

@michelin,did anyone force u to sell your virginty?

There's no guarantee. . ."people change". . .and when they do--na "catastrophe".

shooze:

To all the men looking for virgin wives hope you guys too are virgins oh

its not a bad thing to buy new clothes instead of going for bend down pick.

michelin89:

Did anyone also force your mum to sell hers? Each time you appoint a topic with a mysoginistic mindset, remember you have sisters and a mother and other female relatives.

my mum was a virgin b4 until she got married at the age of 23.

u,michelin,i sure say enough guys don chop ur meat finsh.what do u have left for ur husband.

iykedare:

my mum was a virgin b4 until she got married at the age of 23.

u,michelin,i sure say enough guys don chop your meat finsh.what do u have left for your husband.

A whole lot dear. You'll be a testimony of my successful relationship.

iykedare link=topic=327404.msg4595721#msg4595721 date=1253704036]
its not a bad thing to buy new clothes instead of going for bend down pick.

but some new clothes no dey fit like bend down pick especially jeans as another person  for don use yansh expand am well before you buy

@ topic

Being a virgin does not guarantee a successful marriage. There are other qualities needed like patience, understanding, endurance, mutual respect etc.

If NLers think it is a criteria then I (a non-virgin) should start get a lawyer for a my future divorce from my upcoming marriage.

hbabe:

@ topic

Being a virgin does not guarantee a successful marriage. There are other qualities needed like patience, understanding, endurance, mutual respect etc.

If NLers think it is a criteria then I (a non-virgin) should start get a lawyer for a my future divorce from my upcoming marriage.

no is saying that.all things being equal,virgins are better( 100 times) than non virgins for marriage.do u even need to ask?

shooze:

iykedare link=topic=327404.msg4595721#msg4595721 date=1253704036]
its not a bad thing to buy new clothes instead of going for bend down pick.

but some new clothes no dey fit like bend down pick especially jeans as another person for don use yansh expand am well before you buy

lmao.guy u wan kill me wit laugh.nice illustration

michelin89:

A whole lot dear. You'll be a testimony of my successful relationship.

i pray for that too.1 lst advice.keep the remaining meat for him.at least half meat (that is, if it is up to half o)is better than none.

hbabe:

@ topic

Being a virgin does not guarantee a successful marriage. There are other qualities needed like patience, understanding, endurance, mutual respect etc.

If NLers think it is a criteria then I (a non-virgin) should start get a lawyer for a my future divorce from my upcoming marriage.

Like h-babe rightly mention,being a virgin ain't any guarantee to a successful marriage.Marriage like a sweet,sumptuous meal,has a list of ingredients n if those ingredients r not there,virginity would be just like any other worthless attribute.

Seriously, do you still find virgins getting married these days? Maybe those under-25 sha