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How And When To Quit A "Sick" Relationship by buchibrand(m): 8:30pm On Aug 07, 2016
ADVICE TO LADIES.

This article will advice you on better
ways to saying goodbye to any "sick" relationship even if you still love him.
Goodbye is probably the hardest
words to say, especially when it has got to do with someone you once shared a deep emotional feelings with.
It is wise to know when to call it a
quit, because if you fail to heed to
the warning signs and signals, you may end up being a victim.

WHY SHOULD I WALK AWAY?.

1. YOUR LIFE: You must walk away
from that relationship to save your life.
2. YOUR HEALTH: you can't afford
to allow that beast of a partner to
inflict much injury on you. He could paralyse or disfigure you, please don't risk your health
with that drug addict of a boy
friend.
3. YOUR FUTURE: if you fail to quit
that relationship at the right time, your future may be in jeopardy reason being that; you can never be on the same flight with someone heading for Paris if you are going to
Peru (don't waste your time and
resources). It may sound similar but definitely can't be the same.

WHEN DO I WALK AWAY?.

Just as all illness and diseases
have their symptoms and Signs so also is a sick relationship.
When you begin to observe the
following signs and signals, know
you that it is about time you call it a quit.
A. PHYSICAL
1. If you notice you are becoming
less/none attractive to him/her, it
may be a time to say goodbye.
2. He starts calling you by your
real names and not the usual pet
names, he need a break and you
can't allow him to dump you or do
you?.
3. when he/she fails to honour your invitations, e,g. He/
she turns down a lunch or dinner
date repeatedly(no matter what the reasons are).
4. When Excuses becomes a
lifestyle the hour to quit has come.

B. SPIRITUAL.
1. He/She no longer have interest
on spiritual activities ,e,g prayers,
fasting and other spiritual activities. If you are someone with a strong religious values and you want your partner to be same, or maybe you both started together in the church and suddenly your partner stop attending church programmes etc, this may be a sign that such fellow has defected to the opposition, and you may not want to continue with
such a person(darkness and light
has no union).

C. EMOTIONAL:
1. He/she no longer respect your
feelings, says or does whatever he
feels to you without minding what
effect it left on you.
2. He/she started cheating on you
without remorse and concern.
3. The normal things, words and
actions that has always brought
about happiness and fun to you both, becomes irritating. Hey! Don't wait to be told, no soothsayer is required to tell you "it's time to walk away".
4. He/she no longer want to see you around, your partner suddenly stops spending quality time with you.

More coming soon......
SRC: http://www.successbookz.biz/2014/08/how-to-quit-sick-relationship.html

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Re: How And When To Quit A "Sick" Relationship by Sexyjennys50(f): 8:46pm On Aug 07, 2016
Nice one, more plz.
buchibrand:
ADVICE TO LADIES.

This article will advice you on better
ways to saying goodbye to any "sick" relationship even if you still love him.
Goodbye is probably the hardest
words to say, especially when it has got to do with someone you once shared a deep emotional feelings with.
It is wise to know when to call it a
quit, because if you fail to heed to
the warning signs and signals, you may end up being a victim.

WHY SHOULD I WALK AWAY?.

1. YOUR LIFE: You must walk away
from that relationship to save your life.
2. YOUR HEALTH: you can't afford
to allow that beast of a partner to
inflict much injury on you. He could paralyse or disfigure you, please don't risk your health
with that drug addict of a boy
friend.
3. YOUR FUTURE: if you fail to quit
that relationship at the right time, your future may be in jeopardy reason being that; you can never be on the same flight with someone heading for Paris if you are going to
Peru (don't waste your time and
resources). It may sound similar but definitely can't be the same.

WHEN DO I WALK AWAY?.

Just as all illness and diseases
have their symptoms and Signs so also is a sick relationship.
When you begin to observe the
following signs and signals, know
you that it is about time you call it a quit.
A. PHYSICAL
1. If you notice you are becoming
less/none attractive to him/her, it
may be a time to say goodbye.
2. He starts calling you by your
real names and not the usual pet
names, he need a break and you
can't allow him to dump you or do
you?.
3. when he/she fails to honour your invitations, e,g. He/
she turns down a lunch or dinner
date repeatedly(no matter what the reasons are).
4. When Excuses becomes a
lifestyle the hour to quit has come.

B. SPIRITUAL.
1. He/She no longer have interest
on spiritual activities ,e,g prayers,
fasting and other spiritual activities. If you are someone with a strong religious values and you want your partner to be same, or maybe you both started together in the church and suddenly your partner stop attending church programmes etc, this may be a sign that such fellow has defected to the opposition, and you may not want to continue with
such a person(darkness and light
has no union).

C. EMOTIONAL:
1. He/she no longer respect your
feelings, says or does whatever he
feels to you without minding what
effect it left on you.
2. He/she started cheating on you
without remorse and concern.
3. The normal things, words and
actions that has always brought
about happiness and fun to you both, becomes irritating. Hey! Don't wait to be told, no soothsayer is required to tell you "it's time to walk away".
4. He/she no longer want to see you around, your partner suddenly stops spending quality time with you.

More coming soon......
SRC: http://www.successbookz.biz/2014/08/how-to-quit-sick-relationship.html

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Re: How And When To Quit A "Sick" Relationship by buchibrand(m): 9:07pm On Aug 07, 2016
Sexyjennys50:
Nice one, more plz.
Thanks for appreciating this. More will definitely come
Re: How And When To Quit A "Sick" Relationship by Sexyjennys50(f): 10:26pm On Aug 07, 2016
buchibrand:
Thanks for appreciating this. More will definitely come
Okay
Re: How And When To Quit A "Sick" Relationship by buchibrand(m): 1:22am On Aug 08, 2016
D. PSYCHOLOGICAL:

1. If you observe strange moves and actions, beware
2. He/she becomes violent and
aggressive. Run for your safety.
3. He starts hitting you, or even get to the extent of shouting or beating you in the public (be it with friends or relatives). My dear what are you still waiting for? FLEE!

E. GENERALLY.
When your love for him or her
begins to dwindle, when affliction
replaces affection and tears instead of cares.
When you observe that the blood of the relationship is dried up, it means that LOVE is dead, It's time to walk away.

More soon....

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Re: How And When To Quit A "Sick" Relationship by Nobody: 1:25am On Aug 08, 2016
Nice piece...

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Re: How And When To Quit A "Sick" Relationship by buchibrand(m): 10:06pm On Aug 08, 2016
Oliviaarims:
Nice piece...
Thank you
Re: How And When To Quit A "Sick" Relationship by buchibrand(m): 10:27pm On Aug 08, 2016
HOW DO I WALK AWAY?

Now that you are sure you want to
quit the relationship, you should
know that certain cautions must be applied. For example,
You cannot quit a relationship with someone who just turn violent and uncontrollable alone in his room or a hotel room for the sake of your life.
It's not also advisable to invite your friends or family members to be present when you want to end your relationship with someone, who has no history of violence.

Your decision may appear strange
to your partner, it can also come as a big surprise to him or her, so you have to be careful about it, and to handle every aspect of it with great caution.


LITTLE ADVICE HERE: please before you decide to quit your relationship no matter what the signs are.
1. Try to know what the root cause of the sudden change in his/her actions and behaviour.
2. Discuss it with him or her extensively, with the aim at
resolving it (environmental disturbance and
financial rise/fall can cause a change in so many people. Please do not walk away when he/she needed you the most).
3. Try all you can to get the issues resolved, peacefully and in love. If all the steps above fail to yield any positive result, then you have to.....


More still coming

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Re: How And When To Quit A "Sick" Relationship by Sexyjennys50(f): 11:48am On Aug 10, 2016
buchibrand:
HOW DO I WALK AWAY?

Now that you are sure you want to
quit the relationship, you should
know that certain cautions must be applied. For example,
You cannot quit a relationship with someone who just turn violent and uncontrollable alone in his room or a hotel room for the sake of your life.
It's not also advisable to invite your friends or family members to be present when you want to end your relationship with someone, who has no history of violence.

Your decision may appear strange
to your partner, it can also come as a big surprise to him or her, so you have to be careful about it, and to handle every aspect of it with great caution.


LITTLE ADVICE HERE: please before you decide to quit your relationship no matter what the signs are.
1. Try to know what the root cause of the sudden change in his/her actions and behaviour.
2. Discuss it with him or her extensively, with the aim at
resolving it (environmental disturbance and
financial rise/fall can cause a change in so many people. Please do not walk away when he/she needed you the most).
3. Try all you can to get the issues resolved, peacefully and in love. If all the steps above fail to yield any positive result, then you have to.....


More still coming

The truth remains that we are most times so blinded by this thing called love, that we forget to observe glaring warning signals.
Re: How And When To Quit A "Sick" Relationship by buchibrand(m): 8:29pm On Aug 10, 2016
You are correct, and that's the reason why I'm trying to use this as a warning piece to ladies
Sexyjennys50:


The truth remains that we are most times so blinded by this thing called love, that we forget to observe glaring warning signals.

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