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How And When To Quit A "Sick" Relationship by buchibrand(m): 8:30pm On Aug 07, 2016 |
ADVICE TO LADIES. This article will advice you on better ways to saying goodbye to any "sick" relationship even if you still love him. Goodbye is probably the hardest words to say, especially when it has got to do with someone you once shared a deep emotional feelings with. It is wise to know when to call it a quit, because if you fail to heed to the warning signs and signals, you may end up being a victim. WHY SHOULD I WALK AWAY?. 1. YOUR LIFE: You must walk away from that relationship to save your life. 2. YOUR HEALTH: you can't afford to allow that beast of a partner to inflict much injury on you. He could paralyse or disfigure you, please don't risk your health with that drug addict of a boy friend. 3. YOUR FUTURE: if you fail to quit that relationship at the right time, your future may be in jeopardy reason being that; you can never be on the same flight with someone heading for Paris if you are going to Peru (don't waste your time and resources). It may sound similar but definitely can't be the same. WHEN DO I WALK AWAY?. Just as all illness and diseases have their symptoms and Signs so also is a sick relationship. When you begin to observe the following signs and signals, know you that it is about time you call it a quit. A. PHYSICAL 1. If you notice you are becoming less/none attractive to him/her, it may be a time to say goodbye. 2. He starts calling you by your real names and not the usual pet names, he need a break and you can't allow him to dump you or do you?. 3. when he/she fails to honour your invitations, e,g. He/ she turns down a lunch or dinner date repeatedly(no matter what the reasons are). 4. When Excuses becomes a lifestyle the hour to quit has come. B. SPIRITUAL. 1. He/She no longer have interest on spiritual activities ,e,g prayers, fasting and other spiritual activities. If you are someone with a strong religious values and you want your partner to be same, or maybe you both started together in the church and suddenly your partner stop attending church programmes etc, this may be a sign that such fellow has defected to the opposition, and you may not want to continue with such a person(darkness and light has no union). C. EMOTIONAL: 1. He/she no longer respect your feelings, says or does whatever he feels to you without minding what effect it left on you. 2. He/she started cheating on you without remorse and concern. 3. The normal things, words and actions that has always brought about happiness and fun to you both, becomes irritating. Hey! Don't wait to be told, no soothsayer is required to tell you "it's time to walk away". 4. He/she no longer want to see you around, your partner suddenly stops spending quality time with you. More coming soon...... SRC: http://www.successbookz.biz/2014/08/how-to-quit-sick-relationship.html 2 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: How And When To Quit A "Sick" Relationship by Sexyjennys50(f): 8:46pm On Aug 07, 2016 |
Nice one, more plz. buchibrand: 1 Like |
Re: How And When To Quit A "Sick" Relationship by buchibrand(m): 9:07pm On Aug 07, 2016 |
Sexyjennys50:Thanks for appreciating this. More will definitely come |
Re: How And When To Quit A "Sick" Relationship by Sexyjennys50(f): 10:26pm On Aug 07, 2016 |
buchibrand:Okay |
Re: How And When To Quit A "Sick" Relationship by buchibrand(m): 1:22am On Aug 08, 2016 |
D. PSYCHOLOGICAL: 1. If you observe strange moves and actions, beware 2. He/she becomes violent and aggressive. Run for your safety. 3. He starts hitting you, or even get to the extent of shouting or beating you in the public (be it with friends or relatives). My dear what are you still waiting for? FLEE! E. GENERALLY. When your love for him or her begins to dwindle, when affliction replaces affection and tears instead of cares. When you observe that the blood of the relationship is dried up, it means that LOVE is dead, It's time to walk away. More soon.... 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How And When To Quit A "Sick" Relationship by Nobody: 1:25am On Aug 08, 2016 |
Nice piece... 1 Like |
Re: How And When To Quit A "Sick" Relationship by buchibrand(m): 10:06pm On Aug 08, 2016 |
Oliviaarims:Thank you |
Re: How And When To Quit A "Sick" Relationship by buchibrand(m): 10:27pm On Aug 08, 2016 |
HOW DO I WALK AWAY? Now that you are sure you want to quit the relationship, you should know that certain cautions must be applied. For example, You cannot quit a relationship with someone who just turn violent and uncontrollable alone in his room or a hotel room for the sake of your life. It's not also advisable to invite your friends or family members to be present when you want to end your relationship with someone, who has no history of violence. Your decision may appear strange to your partner, it can also come as a big surprise to him or her, so you have to be careful about it, and to handle every aspect of it with great caution. LITTLE ADVICE HERE: please before you decide to quit your relationship no matter what the signs are. 1. Try to know what the root cause of the sudden change in his/her actions and behaviour. 2. Discuss it with him or her extensively, with the aim at resolving it (environmental disturbance and financial rise/fall can cause a change in so many people. Please do not walk away when he/she needed you the most). 3. Try all you can to get the issues resolved, peacefully and in love. If all the steps above fail to yield any positive result, then you have to..... More still coming 1 Like |
Re: How And When To Quit A "Sick" Relationship by Sexyjennys50(f): 11:48am On Aug 10, 2016 |
buchibrand: The truth remains that we are most times so blinded by this thing called love, that we forget to observe glaring warning signals. |
Re: How And When To Quit A "Sick" Relationship by buchibrand(m): 8:29pm On Aug 10, 2016 |
You are correct, and that's the reason why I'm trying to use this as a warning piece to ladies Sexyjennys50: |
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