I have my boo and we love each other, he works outside lagos but we see twice a month, weekends, we talk almost daily but recently my friend from university says walked in to our office, yea, he jus got employment here with us and we got close and talking. He simply likes finishing my jokes and buy me lunch, although I told him I was in a relationship and he said it was ok. He chats me up at nights after work and gives me latest movie gist. Recently we were talking about the new movie me before you and he got me saying romantic things in the movie. Last night my boo said he read on palmchat about ways couples flirt with opposite sex and I got thinking, I am jus chatting or am I flirting now? Am really confused. Please help

No worry the symptoms go soon manifest

Huh!

queenoflafia:
No worry the symptoms go soon manifest

ahahahahahah...PATIENCE IS THE KEY.....she go learn new thing soon

in few weeks,you may be welcomin in a new love.

Tell us the koko.
Some things are missing in your story.

It's an Exciting Confusion.
I believe many advices would come, from the absurd to the helpful..
For me, the issue is clarity of purpose, what do you REALLY want?
Guys are having side-chicks, do you also want to have a side-Dick?
You can test your friend's intentions, does he wants your Flesh or your friendship?
You can also talk to your Fiance about your struggles. But be careful, any of these can go wrong!

It actually depends on what you and this university friend talks about. Its not until you engage in sexual activity with someone else that you've started cheating, if you're already have romantic and deep conversations with someone else such that you don't want your partner to know about, consider yourself flirting/cheating. If you know you're not ready to 'be' with the new guy, it's better to start limiting the communication because he's around and your bf is not which makes it more dangerous. Think before you do something you might regret.

Orgasmgush:
I have my boo and we love each other, he works outside lagos but we see twice a month, weekends, we talk almost daily but recently my friend from university says walked in to our office, yea, he jus got employment here with us and we got close and talking. He simply likes finishing my jokes and buy me lunch, although I told him I was in a relationship and he said it was ok. He chats me up at nights after work and gives me latest movie gist. Recently we were talking about the new movie me before you and he got me saying romantic things in the movie. Last night my boo said he read on palmchat about ways couples flirt with opposite sex and I got thinking, I am jus chatting or am I flirting now? Am really confused. Please help

very soon, you'll have SEX with this ur so-called friend... It's just the obvious, so don't be pained!

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As long as he remains a boyfriend it's ok to flirt unless there is an agreement on the table to marry otherwise I see no reason to stop the new guy from wooing you.

My humble opinion.