1. If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can
make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
2. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better.
3. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then hell no, you can't "be friends". A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
4. Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is, don't stay because you think "it will get better"You'll be mad at yourself later for staying when things are not better.
5.The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?
6.Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
7.Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything.* He will use it against you later.
8. You cannot change a man's behavior.* Change comes from within.
9. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...Even if he has more education or in a better job, do
not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
10. Never borrow someone Else's man. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
11. All men are NOT dogs. You should not be the one doing all the bending... Compromise is two way street.
12. You need time to heal between relationships.. There is nothing cute about baggage...Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
13. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...A relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...Look for
someone complimentary.. .not supplementary.
14. Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right. Make him miss you
sometimes...when a man always know
where you are, and you're always readily available to him - he takes it for granted
15. Never move into his mother's house. Never co-sign for a man. Don't
fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.*Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
16. Scared of being alone is what makes a lot of women stay in relationships that are abusive or hurtful: Dr. Phil says You should know that: You're the best thing that
could ever happen to anyone and if a man mistreats you, he'll miss out on a good thing. If he was attracted to you in the 1st place, just know that he's not the only one. They're all watching you, so you have a lot of choices. Make the right one.
17.Ladies take care of your own hearts.... Share this with other women and men (just so they know)... You'll make someone smile, another rethink her choices, and another woman prepare. Wake up ..............
*Doclove
*DEENSquare

again

relationship and it's wahala

abeg I'm not interested

OK... Lectures upon lectures yet relationships are not any better

The reason why Marriages and relationships fail

Because men are no longer men, but they are now women, while women are still women

Essence6055:
The reason why Marriages and relationships fail

Because men are no longer men, but they are now women, while women are still women

Dats actually a fact... Another topic on its own

Essence6055:
The reason why Marriages and relationships fail

Because men are no longer men, but they are now women, while women are still women

lol. How are men now women?

Oahray:
lol. How are men now women?

Most of us men now directly or indirectly depends on our female partners in ways dat are not suppose to be most especially *financially* just cos ur gf or wife earn or has money more dan u dosn't make her d man in ur relationship ..depending on her income b4 u do anytn is d same as puting on skirts and blouse wit high hills *madness

Oahray:
lol. How are men now women?

Most of us men now directly or indirectly depends on our female partners in ways dat are not suppose to be most especially *financially* just cos ur gf or wife earn or has money more dan u dosn't make her d man in ur relationship ..depending on her income b4 u do *everytn* is d same as puting on skirts and blouse wit high hills *madness

sdeensquare:

Most of us men now directly or indirectly depends on our female partners in ways dat are not suppose to be most especially *financially* just cos ur gf or wife earn or has money more dan u dosn't make her d man in ur relationship ..depending on her income b4 u do anytn is d same as puting on skirts and blouse wit high hills *madness

do well to speak for yourself sir.

sdeensquare:

Most of us men now directly or indirectly depends on our female partners in ways dat are not suppose to be most especially *financially* just cos ur gf or wife earn or has money more dan u dosn't make her d man in ur relationship ..depending on her income b4 u do *everytn* is d same as puting on skirts and blouse wit high hills *madness

Men depending on female partners ke?

Where did you hear that from? In Nigeria where women won't even listen to you else you have money in your pocket.

Please stop being a pussy.

truthsayer007:


Men depending on female partners ke?

Where did you hear that from? In Nigeria where women won't even listen to you else you have money in your pocket.

Please stop being a pussy.

Yea i knw what u re saying...

But belief me av seen cases of my point too

If u work far enuf u will find mystries my pussy

sdeensquare:

Yea i knw what u re saying...

But belief me av seen cases of my point too

If u work far enuf u will find mystries my pussy

Abegi, we are talking of Majority not minority. Women don't pay shiit

Even ladies who are just friends with you still try to take advantage of you.

Bros E be like say na India you dey live, not the same Nigeria i am.

sdeensquare:
1. If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can
make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
2. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better.
3. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then hell no, you can't "be friends". A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
4. Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is, don't stay because you think "it will get better"You'll be mad at yourself later for staying when things are not better.
5.The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?
6.Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
7.Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything.* He will use it against you later.
8. You cannot change a man's behavior.* Change comes from within.
9. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...Even if he has more education or in a better job, do
not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
10. Never borrow someone Else's man. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
11. All men are NOT dogs. You should not be the one doing all the bending... Compromise is two way street.
12. You need time to heal between relationships.. There is nothing cute about baggage...Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
13. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...A relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...Look for
someone complimentary.. .not supplementary.
14. Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right. Make him miss you
sometimes...when a man always know
where you are, and you're always readily available to him - he takes it for granted
15. Never move into his mother's house. Never co-sign for a man. Don't
fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.*Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
16. Scared of being alone is what makes a lot of women stay in relationships that are abusive or hurtful: Dr. Phil says You should know that: You're the best thing that
could ever happen to anyone and if a man mistreats you, he'll miss out on a good thing. If he was attracted to you in the 1st place, just know that he's not the only one. They're all watching you, so you have a lot of choices. Make the right one.
17.Ladies take care of your own hearts.... Share this with other women and men (just so they know)... You'll make someone smile, another rethink her choices, and another woman prepare. Wake up ..............
*Doclove
*DEENSquare

Wonderful piece

nice one OP I jusr

nice one OP u just made my day
The truth is, men know who their heart belongs to, if u like cook them chicken in a diamond sauce or do monkey in a snake's shadow style in bed if its not u, it can't be u. Ladies let's be wise.