Hi Nairalanders, help me figure this out, if its a good idea or not.

Would you advice your man or lady to talk or confront a guy/lady that has been disturbing you despite the fact that you told him/her about your relationship and all but he/she keep persisting? And you don't know what to do next.

My question to the ladies, would you?
And to the guys would you do it or have you ever done it?
How did it play out?

I cum hia 4 answers

That is childish. It doesn't make sense at all. Don't ever try approaching a guy to stay off your babe. Ladies do it, but no guy should.

During my youth service, I met these babe and we became friends; we even got intimate. What she didn't tell me was that she had a boyfriend (serious one at that)
When his boyfriend called me one Sunday and started warnin/telling me to stay away from his babe, I gladly asked him some few questions

1. If your babe truly love you,why did she agree to go out with me?
2. Why would she go intimate with another guy knowing you were there?
3. If she loved you, she won't start confessing love to me or another guy except you

He wanted to panic and I calmed him down. I told him never to fight a fellow guy over a girl. A girl who doesn't love you doesn't love you.
He got my point and apologized.
So funny his girlfriend was just using him and his head.
We soon started talking until I changed location.

So my guy, don't try it. A girl may(its their nature) but not a guy don't.

Girls ain't scarce. If you need a babe, take your time and find one.

Tkayhandsome:
That is childish. It doesn't make sense at all. Don't every try approaching a guy to stay off your babe. Ladies do it, but no guy should.
During my youth service, I met these babe and we became friends; we even got intimate. What she didn't tell me was that she had boyfriend (serious one at that)
When his boyfriend called me one Sunday and started telling me to stay away from his babe, I gladly asked him some few questions
1. If your babe truly love you,why did she agree to go out with me?
2. Why would she go intimate with another guy knowing you were there?

He wanted to panic and I calmed him down. I told him never to fight a fellow guy over a girl. A girl who doesn't love you doesn't love you.
He got my point and apologized.
So funny his girlfriend was just using him and his head.
We soon started talking until I changed location.

So my guy, don't try it. A girl may(its their nature) but not a guy.

Woaw.. But What if she is the one that came up with the idea? Like a cry for help

If you do what you ought to do, he/she will not disturb you besides you don't need to do it and if it is me, i'll not come

You are the man. Have a say and stand by your words.
Love her,respect her and provide for her, but don't ruin your reputation. Never approach anyone to leave your babe.
Let your babe command the respect to know what she wants and say No.

Mubby4luv:
Woaw.. But What if she is the one that came up with the idea? Like a cry for help

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Mubby4luv:
Hi Nairalanders, help me figure this out, if its a good idea or not.

Would you advice your man or lady to talk or confront a guy/lady that has been disturbing you despite the fact that you told him/her about your relationship and all but he/she keep persisting? And you don't know what to do next.

My question to the ladies, would you?
And to the guys would you do it or have you ever done it?
How did it play out?

Don't try it..she should be able to handle her issues herself..Are you her daddy


Even as a girl,you shouldn't confront a girl that's after your guy..if he respects you enough and the relationship is worth keeping,he will find a way to do away with the girl. The highest you can do is advise him on what to do if you know not carry chest like rambo and be confronting someone.

Mubby4luv:
Hi Nairalanders, help me figure this out, if its a good idea or not.

Would you advice your man or lady to talk or confront a guy/lady that has been disturbing you despite the fact that you told him/her about your relationship and all but he/she keep persisting? And you don't know what to do next.

My question to the ladies, would you?
And to the guys would you do it or have you ever done it?
How did it play out?

I can't do that,just let your yes be yes and no be no.simply don't give attention to the person that's the simple magic.with time the person will move on for good.

Berlyn:
simple get him/her arrested

Hahaha.. Now this is funny, wouldn't that be going too far?

MzLarem:
Don't try it..she should be able to handle her issues herself..Are you her daddy


Even as a girl,you shouldn't confront a girl that's after your guy..if he respects you enough and the relationship is worth keeping,he will find a way to do away with the girl. The highest you can do is advise him on what to do if you know not carry chest like rambo and be confronting someone.

But she talks about it really helpless, sometimes she even cries about not knowing what else to do

Mubby4luv:
But she talks about it really helpless, sometimes she even cries about not knowing what else to do

If you know what to do,simply tell her and let her go and apply it...except if its life threatening.

MzLarem:
If you know what to do,simply tell her and let her go and apply it...except if its life threatening.

Really helpful, thank you