tgurl21:
I can't take my ex back, he is in the past, I'm looking forward to the future.

tgurl21:
how if I may ask

LadyMercedes:

Never say never.

halfricanadian:
simply ignore and search for happiness within

importexpert:


1. He hasn’t tried dating again.

Or if he has, nothing seems to have stuck. His longest relationship is not more than 3months. This is one sign that he is not over you. If this is his case, most likely he is not ready to commit yet, because he’s still not over you. Though he is trying to move on, but your memories still haunts him, making it difficult for him to appreciate other women .

2. He is upset that you have moved on.

If he seems upset and bitter that you have moved on and you are trying to connect with other guys, then he still not over you, he is not ready to let go of you .

3. He is not over you when he is deliriously angry at you for no apparent reason.

Even if the break- up was a mutual decision and you went your separate ways in a calm manner, then all of a sudden you hear feed-backs that he is angry with you. Don’t worry, he is not mad at you, he is mad at himself for not getting over you. If you don’t want your ex back, ignore him. If you do, call him and ask him “what’s up?” Believe me, he will calm down the moment he hears from you.

4. He is not over you when he is trying to impress you when you are together .

Do you remember the time when your relationship was still young? all those "shawarma, suya, kilishi", humor and heavenly words? How charming he was for trying to impress you? If he show you the same kind of conduct, then he can’t help it, he is still in love with you. This is one great sign that he is really not over you .

5. He is not over you when he asks about you from your mutual friends.

Not just the usual pleasantries, but really interrogating and asking personal stuff, like, if you are dating or seeing someone else.
If you need help, he is more than willing to help you out. He will go out of his way to comfort you or save you from any trouble.

6. He finds a reason to communicate with you.

Whether it’s his pen that he lend you way back then, he will call you about it and ask it back, anything just to have an excuse to talk to you again .

Richiy:


I hate to break it to you, but you are NOT over your ex

chynie:

from all your write ups it is obvious u are still in-love with her cos u are sure of when last you heard from her last ''4 months ago''
swallow your pride and go and beg the love of your life

importexpert:


bro moving on is often the best but remember the words of bob marley " all women will give you bulsh!t" just choose the one that is worth it

Pouyan:
eeew.. I remember because I broke up with her when I made a particular post on IG.. The post on IG is 4 months old, that made me remember, otherwise.. I don't even remember her..

chynie:


hahahaha pathetic
if u still remember the date and events of the breakup, means ''e pain u and still paining you''

just swallow and beg for your peace of mind

waywardpikin:


How won't he remember the events that led up to the break up, is he suffering from amnesia?

Please get real.

*though I feel like he still likes her*

chynie:

me I don't remember breakups cos I don't breakup I bone u, u get tired u stop bugging my life then u become an ex

waywardpikin:


That's a lie but okay.

You must always remember. Especially the ones you really cared about.

UndisputedBosom:
Mr Ghost reader is that really u

importexpert:



ok will call you bro

chynie:


the one I remember I have made peace with and is back with
so the official breakup thing is not my way
hit and move, u call I form busy, then u do the breaking
without knowing I have moved on since

chynie:


hahahaha pathetic
if u still remember the date and events of the breakup, means ''e pain u and still paining you''

just swallow and beg for your peace of mind

WomanWrappa:
my only niqqa

UndisputedBosom:


Na ur eyes be dz abi....shey u no go kirikiri

WomanWrappa:
I d gallant like Gowon.

Pouyan:


I read the entire article at first and I must say, Mr importëxpert (Nairaland's ghost) that, this is hilariously preposterous. I dated for a long time, and I don't wish to go back to a relationship because I got FED UP. I barely had time for myself, I'm in a relationship with myself now, because I alone deserve all the love and care! Don't care about my ex + women in general are just so tiring to commit to em.

Another funny one upset she has moved on? Speak for yourself papi. Right now, I'm upset I don't have the latest iphone. I don't even know what she has been upto for 4 months now

I guess this is for the ones who their lives revolve around relationships or something. I did mention just above this one that I have no idea what she has been upto for 4 months now. As a matter of fact, the thought of her hsnt crossed my mind until I opened this thread.

IF! I would ever meet up with her again before this life is over.. I wouldn't care really, not my style..

one part of me kindof told me I planned for the break up from the very beginning.. I never made friends with any of her friends.. Now, it's so much easier.

Some people.. People like me deleted her number after the break up. It's called "MOVING ON"

AirSultan:
Its obvious from this paragraph you suffered most from the break up



You even know the exact date, lol the Cupid arrow is still stuck to your chest




Lol, the singular fact only her came to your mind buttresses my point.. egbon you're still stuck




Exactly the words I keep saying back then




you was probably too engrossed with her to take note of a third party



Lol, its the anger that made you do that, I'm pretty sure you regret it now...

your ego won't allow you see front believe me

All in all, I hate to be the carrier of bad news but you sir are still in love with that lady!

hahn:
7. He kills you, kills himself and burns down the house