@topic, go look for a fresh puszy

Should you marry your big sister? Hell no! In Yorubaland person wey carry 6-months old pass you na sista.

Hmm. . . women? Having got married to her, one day, one way or the other, she's most likely to remind you that she is older than you are (even with FIVE [/b]good years). Now, if you really can deal with that, go ahead and marry her!

As for me, the minimum is [b]FIVE years younger.

5 years plenty sha

you think marrying a younger woman will guaranty you happiness? i sorry for una!

Nobody said so.
However, all said and done, it's safer to marry a younger woman.

If a man is really looking for happiness here on earth, then I wonder if he really needs to marry.

Douzy:

Nobody said so.
However, all said and done, it's safer to marry a younger woman.

If a man is really looking for happiness here on earth, then I wonder if he really needs to marry.

safer? how? pls explain what safety has to do with any of this.
when you guys think of an older woman you see an old hag. the so called "old women" may look like regina askia. they arent always haggard like people think. besides these days with austerity men have started looking down right haggard before their time.

if she looks good and takes care of herself, I see nothing wrong with it, remember BLACK DON'T CRACK, I have seen a many aged Black women who look beautiful and have fooled many at first glance, thinking she was 10 years younger. It's the melanin BABY!

Douzy:

Nobody said so.
However, all said and done, it's safer to marry a younger woman.

If a man is really looking for happiness here on earth, then I wonder if he really needs to marry.

Sorry babes. . .lol.

What women are you looking at, most older women appear to take better care of themselves then their husbands, and therefore tend to have a more youthful appearance, in addition to having a longer lifespan!

lol, @ douzy , i was just reacting to this statement

If a man is really looking for happiness here on earth, then I wonder if he really needs to marry.

i dont agree with it

Well, one doesn't really need to be married to attain real happiness.

I still dont agree with you though
but one thing i agree with is that
getting married is optional
but not that if you want real happiness you dont have to marry

I didn't say you don't have to, but that you don't need to, as in, marriage not being an essential means to or requisite for true happiness.

hum,hope she does not look too old so that people would not think she's your sugar mamai,but there's nothing wrong as long as there's love and respect.

dinner m:

hum,hope she does not look too old so that people would not think she's your sugar mamai,but there's nothing wrong as long as there's love and respect.

even if she looks as old as his mom, its no ones business!

ol boy look b4 u leap o
example guys that married older women
       RMD AND--------------------- WETIN HAPPEN
      BOBBY BROW AND ----------------- WETIN HAPPEN
         LOOK WELL WELL B4 U LEAP

opuro:

ol boy look before u leap o
example guys that married older women
RMD AND--------------------- WETIN HAPPEN
BOBBY BROW AND ----------------- WETIN HAPPEN
LOOK WELL WELL B4 U LEAP

you guys keep mentioning rmd and mee his late wife.look what happened! look what happened ! what is the relevance of that comparism to this matter?

MEE senior RMD   
       DAT IS IT

we get that she was older. but its the "see what happened" part that we dont get. what happened?

u no de read papers?

Some issues are not to be remembered after answering.
Marrying a woman with the same age with you is even funny m
ore or less talking about older than In Nigeria you have fall our hand.

Like the saying goes, "Never say never". But I don't see myself getting married to someone older than me.Worst case, she'd be thesame age with me.

Come o, what pet name would I be calling her?: Aunty? or Honey?

@Poster

Follow your heart. If you feel good about it, let noone change that.

All the best.

whats wrong about it?

opuro:

ol boy look before u leap o
example guys that married older women
       RMD AND--------------------- WETIN HAPPEN
      BOBBY BROW AND ----------------- WETIN HAPPEN
         LOOK WELL WELL B4 U LEAP

You forgot to mention
Alli Baba and ----------------
Chidi Mokeme --------------

Wa_do_moi:

whats wrong about it?

Nothin.

people that married older women
      RMD and--------------------- what happened
      bobby brown and-----------------what happened
     ALI BABA and---------------------- what happened
     chidi mokemeand------------------- what happened
people what really happened osereka want to know. Heard that opuro has been baned from nairaland why

im still waiting to know what happened.

For me oo, marrying someone younger than you is not too nice.

Even when these guys marry someone 10 yrs younger, they still dey "straph" outside,
its more comfortable to know that your husband is your senior, so that people no go ask you
whether you force am to marry you by pregnancy or otherwise when he starts misbehaving, i don talk finish.

hmm. . . not ideal in an african society. . . especially when ur lookn for respect in dat relationship and a happy ever after thingy. . . .I cant date _{*not to talk of marry*} any guy younger than i am!

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