Obamaa:

Deres dis gurl i met thru a friend(actually he introduced us on fone) and since we stay far apart we couldnt see immediately bt we kept in constant touch thru fone.4 d last 3mths we have bin tlkin daily on fone.She stays in d north n i go dere often bt nw i hv not gone as am busy in ma base.But d thin is dat we r doing gr8 2geda on fone and she is alwaiz hapi 2 hear ma voice and kallin or flashin wen i dnt kal.Bt receently she has bin actin up like she is nt hapi 2 hear ma voice or as if am disturbin,wen i tld her abt it she said dat she is sori 4 d lack of excitement in her voice.Wat do people think is happenin and wat do i do 2 make dis relationship work.

I nid objective views.

justwise:

Distance kills rela/ship, she needed more than phone calls, she can see her friends and their bfs doing things together. If u can visit her, she is only a human being.

Ani Lee:

Cant agree more. Even though some can manage distanced relationships, others cant. Sometimes people need more than faith. Indeed faith [b]without action is dead. [/b]

justwise:

Absolutely!!, i know how it feels to keep long distance rela/ship when i know that meeting physically will not happen soon. I don't get myself in that situation again. Even when i visited Nig after 10yrs, i refused to get hooked up only to come back here and start thinking whats she up2 and all that

Ani Lee:

Eeh me too. I once opted for a LDR (long distance relationship) and initially I was so excited and I think i greatly overestimated my capabilities, thinking I could handle it. Months later, I was bored, irritated when he would call or communicate, eventually, I called it off. It was all for the better for me. And him I believe. I learnt my lesson and dont do that anymore. [b]I can't live on false hope and wouldnt victimize another human being to the same phenomenon. [/b] [b][/b]

Body no be fire wood

Obamaa:

i have received amazin answers so far n i fink i hv 2 plan on visitin soon, 10x y'all.