so recently, i attended the wedding of a close female friend of mine and even though i was happy for her, i couldn't ignore the feeling of nostalgia i had. imagining being friends with a married lady. No more rough play or little flirts.

now imagine she was an ex or someone i loved in a romantic way, i wonder how i would have coped with the news. so my overactive imagination is throwing it out to you all:

How does it feel to see the person you love get married to someone else?

READERS OPINIONS FROM A FORUM:

1) It’s like having a huge part of your hopes for the future die a swift death.

I wasn’t just in love with him—it would have made things so much easier had it only been a matter of scorched pride. I loved him, deeply and truly; the kind of love that has the potential to endure a lifetime (at least it felt that way on my end). Perhaps I was a little too confident. I thought that both of us would eventually find each other again when the timing was better, still free and available, and he would take me seriously. But, people move on, and while I was waiting around for him to discover how perfect I would be for him, he met someone else and got serious.,, Jane


2) They say, " Everything happens for our own good." So what good came out of this? Well this failed relationship taught me many lessons for life.

It made me mature. I no longer needed someone to complete me.
The girl who cared for every other thing, no longer cared at all.
I learnt that nothing in this life is permanent, neither happiness nor pain.
No matter how much you're in love, there comes a time when the other one decides to leave.
Love isn't always beautiful. It doesn't always result in the joining of two people.
Love is never enough because it isn't rational.
All those fairy tales, all those love-stories and movies we’ve heard and watched growing up, lied to us. Love doesn't always end happily.
I learnt not to depend on people because people leave all the time and at the end all you have is yourself and that has to be enough. Rose.

Pinshures GoT fans can relate with!!!!!