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Somebody Help!! by Merryglad(f): 2:38pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
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Re: Somebody Help!! by Godmother(f): 2:44pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
I don't think there's any 'good' way to break the news. She's going to be heartbroken, disappointed and feel she failed as a parent no matter how you tell her. 2 Likes |
Re: Somebody Help!! by DonCortino: 2:51pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
She has to have d baby! There us nothing u can do. Or better still marry d person responsible for it. |
Re: Somebody Help!! by Nobody: 3:06pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
You and your sister are screwed |
Re: Somebody Help!! by 5minsmadness: 3:10pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
Merryglad: 1. Find a time when all three of you will be free without interruptions. 2. Make sure the environment is a serene, calm one. The parlour will do if you live in your own house. If u live in a community environment take the discussion to the inner room or bedroom. 3. Begin by telling your mom that something terrible has happened. Dont tell her immediately what it is. Tell her it involves the health of your junior sister and that no matter how bad it is, life goes on. This thought will make your mom's mind run wild but calm her and tell her to please listen with patience. 4. If your mom gets violent and wild REFUSE TO GO ANY FURTHER UNTIL SHE HAS CALMED DOWN. Tell her u will not say any more until she relaxes. If its too much walk out with your sister until she calms down. 5. If your mom doesnt get violent but listen calmly then its time to drop the bombshell. Tell her without mincing words : Ifeoma is pregnant. 6. Allow her to react. Give her time to shout or cry or whatever. Do not let her get violent with your junior sister for any reason but let her pour her emotions out. 7. Your junior sister should proceed to kneel down on the floor and apologize for bringing this calamity upon her mother. She should be sorry from the depth of her heart. 8. Your mom will take over from there. All the best. 14 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Somebody Help!! by okirewaju(f): 3:17pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
The poster above me has said it all Good Luck 2 Likes |
Re: Somebody Help!! by bennyrazz: 3:52pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
@merryglad Kai, 18yrs old girl is pregnant? the deed has been done, no need crying over spilt milk. Breaking the news to your mother will surely be devastating because she will feel she has not done her job very well as a single parent. I really feel pity for your mum but the man that got your sister pregnant must accept the responsibilities of the baby, his family must be involved and they should be ready to take care of both your sister and the baby. 1 Like |
Re: Somebody Help!! by Merryglad(f): 4:00pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
DonCortino:she is keeping the baby...am sure of that |
Re: Somebody Help!! by Merryglad(f): 4:01pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
CrazyQuinn:are you married Sadduce |
Re: Somebody Help!! by Nobody: 4:02pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
Merryglad:Nope |
Re: Somebody Help!! by Merryglad(f): 4:03pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
5minsmadness:thanks alot, thanks for not casting blames and throwing stones 4 Likes |
Re: Somebody Help!! by Merryglad(f): 4:07pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
bennyrazz:i tire ooo, d funniest part is i could have swore on her behalf, but what can i do now? She is my sister still |
Re: Somebody Help!! by sisisioge: 4:07pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
Wake up in the morning. Tell the silly girl to knee in front of your mom with at least 5m distance ( to avoid unforeseen contingencies). Then tell her to use her mouth to say it. Rubbish! Whew! Rubbish! Whew! Rubbbbbbish! Chai! Sorry dearie, I'm so angry on your behalf. But its not as much your headache as the pregnant girl's. She should start appreciating the vicious circle... Let her take all the responsibility. Pele. |
Re: Somebody Help!! by Merryglad(f): 4:10pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
CrazyQuinn:my sister is far better than you, ask me how |
Re: Somebody Help!! by Merryglad(f): 4:13pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
bennyrazz:hmmm thanks |
Re: Somebody Help!! by Nobody: 4:15pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
Merryglad:There's no such thing as a life that's better than yours *jcole's voice* why should I ask you how? am I crazy? Oh I forgot |
Re: Somebody Help!! by bennyrazz: 4:22pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
Merryglad:she is your sister o, the only thing you can do now is to love and support her. I know she might be stigmatized in the environment you stay in but at least she would have learnt her lesson after the whole isssshhhh. |
Re: Somebody Help!! by sexymoma(f): 4:25pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
Tell her to take you to the bobo wey do the thing when you see the bobo biko nor fight ooo, nor do as if you dey vex ask the guy to take you to his parent "that s if his parents stays in lag gan" explain things to him nd his parent... pls i'll suggest not to bring an opinion of her getting married to him cos your sis career don end be dat ooo |
Re: Somebody Help!! by byvan03: 4:31pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
Sorry dear, just tell your mum. She can consider giving it up for adoption if there is no father in sight. She made a mistake, hopefully she learns. |
Re: Somebody Help!! by Merryglad(f): 4:34pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
CrazyQuinn:of cause you are crazy....wish you well in your crazy world |
Re: Somebody Help!! by Nobody: 4:38pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
Merryglad: |
Re: Somebody Help!! by Merryglad(f): 4:39pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
sexymoma:the first question i asked her was what she plan to do after giving birth to the baby...she said she wants to go back to school. Lets see how it plays out, thanks for your kind words |
Re: Somebody Help!! by sexymoma(f): 4:50pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
Merryglad:pls i beg you... don't allow her stay with that dude cos before you say jack she don get second belle ooo and that's how it gonna continue. 4 Likes |
Re: Somebody Help!! by Beremx(f): 4:51pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
What of the guy that impregnated her? What's he saying? |
Re: Somebody Help!! by Merryglad(f): 4:53pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
byvan03:the guy has accepted the pregnancy, the only issue now is how to tell my mum, but thanks to nairalanders |
Re: Somebody Help!! by sexymoma(f): 4:56pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
Merryglad:your mumsy never dey see signs...lolz i trust ma mama... she go don call you tell you say "sexymoma you are two week, two days and 15mins pregnant" 7 Likes |
Re: Somebody Help!! by byvan03: 4:58pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
Merryglad: OK, just tell her, no one died. |
Re: Somebody Help!! by Merryglad(f): 5:09pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
sexymoma:yesterday mumsy dey tell her to arrange her bra well i just dey look my sister eyeball to eyeball....but you know trust things na |
Re: Somebody Help!! by sexymoma(f): 5:22pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
Merryglad:my sister no time wey she nor go hear... sit her down, if possible ask you sis to be on her kneels before you even start the speech, if mumsy say make she stand up nor answer ooo.... just drop am, if you can tell in your language, it'll be more easier... go on your kneels with her after dropping the bombshell chai i can't imagine... |
Re: Somebody Help!! by 5minsmadness: 5:36pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
Merryglad: Hey, sh!t happens. We ALL (everyone on this thread) make mistakes. The important thing is to learn from them, be wiser, and move on. P. S, do not make her go on her knees from the onset, else your mom will figure it out early and it will be more difficult for you to control her rage. I've told u my own. Its left for u to do what u want. 1 Like |
Re: Somebody Help!! by 5minsmadness: 5:39pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
Re: Somebody Help!! by Nobody: 6:04pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
5minsmadness: |
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