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Please Help Am Dem!! Confused.. About My Girl Friend. by Para001: 12:23am On Aug 26, 2016
She's Good looking.. Thats why i love her, but other aspects is not interesting to me.
1. She talks to guys a lot, gets lot of quite call which she tell them she can talk for this night when's shes with me
2. She has huge ego/ which i my self i have bcus am self made(which she doesn't really know)
3. She believes if i don't check up on her she can't ever do it
4. If i don't call her in a day or more she picks up a fight
5. She talks about a guy, which they speak often. I think she calls him more than she call me. She said they are just friends nothing more. And changes her mood if she has issues with this guy
6. We have sex once or twice a week at most and she said we're having sex too much. And she denys me of it 2wice now
7. She talks rudely to me but polite to other guys arnd her
8. Now she makes excuse for not seeing me.
9. I don't give her huge but i try in some aspect i can.

Now my problem is i really do love her, we've been dating almost a year yet i don't feel close to her. I tried talking to her she'll change one week and go back the following. Because of this her attitude i started giving another girl my attention, i told her about my girlfriend she was cool with it and said she loves me.. She is totally the opposite of my girlfriend.. She is quite nice and lovely, i feel totally comfortable around her. She Takecare of me fully. just that o don't want to waste time and money on a relationship that won't profit me because she's 21 and am 23. But my girlfriend is 18 and i will like to settle down with her buh her attitude makes me think other wise.

Do you guys think i should go with the girl that really show me love or i should still work things out with my girlfriend. ?
Re: Please Help Am Dem!! Confused.. About My Girl Friend. by Nobody: 12:39am On Aug 26, 2016
Too young to settle down..

And besides, what do u expect from an 18yr old girl? She still wanna have fun...

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Re: Please Help Am Dem!! Confused.. About My Girl Friend. by pimpchi(m): 12:39am On Aug 26, 2016
Na till she land heavy slap on top ur cheeks ur eye go clear... If I tear u better slap now, people go say I bad... Guy u fall my hand shaaa. Girl wey never wash pant clean dey give u sleepless nite....

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Re: Please Help Am Dem!! Confused.. About My Girl Friend. by vani86: 12:43am On Aug 26, 2016
If you were my brother i would have locked you in a room and beat d hell out of you.

All d signs that she is messing up are there and you are forming love.

Its your type girls play ludo with.

Have you forgotten girls like bad boys. Dot call amd see if she calls, if she dont come dey parra, parra back, na fine face or big breast you go chop?

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Re: Please Help Am Dem!! Confused.. About My Girl Friend. by vani86: 12:43am On Aug 26, 2016
pimpchi:
Na till she land heavy slap on top ur cheeks ur eye go clear... Love is just a mirage. Guy u fall my hand shaaa.

The nigger just vex me wella right now, at 12:43 am.
Mtcheew
Re: Please Help Am Dem!! Confused.. About My Girl Friend. by Jay542(m): 12:52am On Aug 26, 2016
The 18years babe obviously doesn't know what she wants. The 21years babe probably sees something she wants to get from you cos I wonder why you'll love a guy who is loves someone.. None of the girls is worth the stress if you ask me.

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Re: Please Help Am Dem!! Confused.. About My Girl Friend. by babeflenz(f): 12:53am On Aug 26, 2016
I don't understand you want to settle down with 18 years old girl.. With all the attitudes she's giving, so you've not seen that she just started life and wants to enjoy it? you want come use your settle down matter disturb her.. Mtcheeww... Abeg carry your settle down and settle it up with your new babe.

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Re: Please Help Am Dem!! Confused.. About My Girl Friend. by 0ubenji(m): 12:54am On Aug 26, 2016
vani86:


The nigger just vex me wella right now, at 12:43 am.
Mtcheew
lolx...biko take it easy..

Erm..u don chop?

Try cold eba wit Okro soup..
atleast dis anger go quench small
Re: Please Help Am Dem!! Confused.. About My Girl Friend. by vani86: 12:57am On Aug 26, 2016
0ubenji:
lolx...biko take it easy..

Erm..u don chop?

Try cold eba wit Okro soup..
atleast dis anger go quench small

I want drink beans with milo and sugar.

Suppose calm me down
Re: Please Help Am Dem!! Confused.. About My Girl Friend. by 0ubenji(m): 1:02am On Aug 26, 2016
vani86:

I want drink beans with milo and sugar.
Suppose calm me down
gud choice..
No 4get balance the meal with Paracetamol-sauce b4 crashing the pillows

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Re: Please Help Am Dem!! Confused.. About My Girl Friend. by Para001: 1:22am On Aug 26, 2016
TrapQueen77:
Too young to settle down..

And besides, what do u expect from an 18yr old girl? She still wanna have fun...

I jus want to keep a good relationship and get married to her before 30, if she can wait for me.
Re: Please Help Am Dem!! Confused.. About My Girl Friend. by Nobody: 1:26am On Aug 26, 2016
Para001:


I jus want to keep a good relationship and get married to her before 30, if she can wait for me.


If she doesn't want to listen to u, then try to be a little loose with rules... Maybe she felt shes been strangled in the relationship.

Both of u need to adjust especially, she's younger than u... I cud say her mentality is not in the same page as urz...
Re: Please Help Am Dem!! Confused.. About My Girl Friend. by Eminembuz(m): 1:34am On Aug 26, 2016
Sometimes nothing need to be said at all. Cause at times a person who claim to love you is just a shadow and mirage which is insidious to know that the person doesn't take you as her one and only, But she flow with you because she's afraid to be lonely. when she comes back it will be too late. Cause you will be lost in the affection to strangers around you even in the midst of your imagination. Generally as I always reiterate the fact that is'' love doesn't need a complicated metaphor''...what a precarious debonair! And for the record opss..if not for the fact that I will have so much to lose I will probably beat up and choke you!

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Re: Please Help Am Dem!! Confused.. About My Girl Friend. by Kakamorufu(m): 7:20am On Aug 26, 2016
see, she's 18 year old, she is just entering the sweetest part of her life, and moreover she's still being a kid. Bleep love. Show her you are the man in this game. Ignore her and let the bad guy in you come out. Play around make some more female friend, pick thier calls in her presence and talk dirty at tyms with them, if she ask, don't try to hide anything from her. She will conto her big ego in no time.

Being a good guy dosen't help at times. U hear

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Re: Please Help Am Dem!! Confused.. About My Girl Friend. by Para001: 10:58am On Aug 26, 2016
Kakamorufu:
see, she's 18 year old, she is just entering the sweetest part of her life, and moreover she's still being a kid. Bleep love. Show her you are the man in this game. Ignore her and let the bad guy in you come out. Play around make some more female friend, pick thier calls in her presence and talk dirty at tyms with them, if she ask, don't try to hide anything from her. She will conto her big ego in no time.

Being a good guy dosen't help at times. U hear

Lol.. I really do like this..

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Re: Please Help Am Dem!! Confused.. About My Girl Friend. by Kakamorufu(m): 2:04pm On Aug 26, 2016
Para001:

Lol.. I really do like this..
thanks man. Na d way
Re: Please Help Am Dem!! Confused.. About My Girl Friend. by westlius(m): 2:17pm On Aug 26, 2016
my brother d problem is that she feels you are broke
try this when she is around try faking up calls with a strange bae wit swt names lik lollipop how ur miss her and wana see her make her feels jealous and never beg 4 sex from her if she loves u she go rake u den u too can settle if she hates u she will be happy to break up wit u
Re: Please Help Am Dem!! Confused.. About My Girl Friend. by newsphase(m): 2:45pm On Aug 26, 2016
How did you guys date for up to a year?

How did you fall in love with her?

Are you planning for your relationship with her to end in marriage?

Para001
Re: Please Help Am Dem!! Confused.. About My Girl Friend. by Kollyman: 2:52pm On Aug 26, 2016
Sorry I don't advise children on love and relationship matters because they are never serious.
Re: Please Help Am Dem!! Confused.. About My Girl Friend. by DeLioncourt: 3:25pm On Aug 26, 2016
you're dating a teenager and you're complaining.. what were you expecting? that she'll behave like a married woman all of a sudden?

if you still love her, give her time...give her space. you cannot kee yourself over these things. whatever will be will be..no matter how hard you try.
Re: Please Help Am Dem!! Confused.. About My Girl Friend. by Para001: 9:16am On Aug 29, 2016
newsphase:
How did you guys date for up to a year?

How did you fall in love with her?

Are you planning for your relationship with her to end in marriage?

Para001

I doesn't know.. It just happened.. And we found our self still 2geda.

I cant explain.. Maybe because she's beautiful and have a gorgeous body.

Yeah i am, i kinda fst broke her wink
newsphase:
How did you guys date for up to a year?

How did you fall in love with her?

Are you planning for your relationship with her to end in marriage?

Para001

I doesn't know.. It just happened.. And we found our self still 2geda.

I cant explain.. Maybe because she's beautiful and have a gorgeous body.

Yeah i am, i kinda fst broke her wink
Re: Please Help Am Dem!! Confused.. About My Girl Friend. by Para001: 9:18am On Aug 29, 2016
Kollyman:
Sorry I don't advise children on love and relationship matters because they are never serious.


Am not a kid. I Earn 200 - 230k every month. Am no kid man
Re: Please Help Am Dem!! Confused.. About My Girl Friend. by theEYe21(f): 9:20am On Aug 29, 2016
TrapQueen77:
Too young to settle down..

And besides, what do u expect from an 18yr old girl? She still wanna have fun...
Re: Please Help Am Dem!! Confused.. About My Girl Friend. by Para001: 9:22am On Aug 29, 2016
westlius:
my brother d problem is that she feels you are broke
try this when she is around try faking up calls with a strange bae wit swt names lik lollipop how ur miss her and wana see her make her feels jealous and never beg 4 sex from her if she loves u she go rake u den u too can settle if she hates u she will be happy to break up wit u

I tried this and she broke my phone.. I nearly killed her


DeLioncourt:
you're dating a teenager and you're complaining.. what were you expecting? that she'll behave like a married woman all of a sudden?
if you still love her, give her time...give her space. you cannot kee yourself over these things. whatever will be will be..no matter how hard you try.

I think this is good.. For now

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