I've been with my boyfriend for over two years now. We were great during the first year, but our relationship has become abusive. I remembered that I was the one who first laid a hand on my boyfriend. Then, that's when it all started. Every time we get into a fight, it frequently ends in violence. But now he becomes the aggressor. He's the one who hits me first. I don't hit back anymore, but this doesn't seem to stop him. He ended up taking me to the hospital to get stitches in my head after he hit me. The hospital asked questions and I covered up for him, but the police didn't believe me and arrested him. He said he's going to a counseling program to get better. He still loves me and realized the horrible things he has done. He said he wants to get back together after the program. Is there a chance for him to get better? Should I go back to him?

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No

Why not? Please go back to him asap inugo? But make sure you write your will before going back u hear. Rest in peace in advance my dear.

What is the cause of the quarrel and later resulted into an assault? Some of you ladies always say something that will absolve you of any indictment.

Yes you can but it's advisable you do a life insurance,since you don't value your life.

Op are you a masochist?

go back to him,we wil com n carry ur corpse nextweek

good u remembered u was the one who first laid a hand on him

have a pleasant abusive relationship

Shey u don start wetin u no go fit finish, oya kwontinue.

my dear every relationship has its sour taste but the only difference is how you manage it.Like u said you were the first to raise ur hands on him and he responded in greater quantum that have led him to the police station and you to the hospital.Its obvious you both are not matured and no one is willing to calm down.I dont think that is the place for both of you.Just leave and go ur separate ways.

Please hurry up and go back to him, after all what is life without him

program ko change ni. That character in his DNA, he can't change. Run farther away

you want to die....

Men who batter rarely do it once, even if they are rich and famous. So if you're in a relationship with a guy who has pushed, hit or slapped you once, take it as a warning sign. You can expect him to do it again and again.

LadyMercedes:

And chop jollof rice for burial too.

lol na only u go chop dah kain rice

rosieluv:

lol na only u go chop dah kain rice

...spek English gademmmit

don't mind those girls saying that you will be dead, some of them are suffering worst...hope he doesn't do that deliberately? know your line, any human can beat anyone. even Jesus flogged people selling in the temple.

No. Go back to him so that he can really kill you!

MrCork:



...spek English gademmmit

i didnt type that for u

rosieluv:

i didnt type that for u

..then spek props English and improve yor graama..gademmit. Nairaland is not a market place!!(no oofense)

rosieluv:

i didnt type that for u

..are u lightskin?

MrCork:


..are u lightskin?

do i luk lyk one to u?

rosieluv:

do i luk lyk one to u?

...sweeery I dint ask if u sell ground nut..i ask if u lightskin gademmit..its a simple morrafukin YES IR KNOW!

rosieluv:

i didnt type that for u

..a d may I remind u u r talkin to a Londoner from London!

MrCork:



..a d may I remind u u r talkin to a Londoner from London!

so should i kiss ur feet or wat? i actually dnt care

MrCork:



...sweeery I dint ask if u sell ground nut..i ask if u lightskin gademmit..its a simple morrafukin YES IR KNOW!

if u have sense,u wil knw am nt light skinned

rosieluv:

if u have sense,u wil knw am nt light skinned

..sweery there a reason y bleach is invented...dont u want to be lightskin beauurifull. Quit your villlage atitude or u shall NEVER find man on nairaland!!(True story)