orbis:
Someone who's extremely jealous and if she sees something she feels is cheating, instead of asking to clarify...wham...she'll start to keep face. You'll them have to reassess yourself and look for what might be the issue ....damn

Is she a scorpio, i.e born october 23 to November21?

If yes, well then, you're up sh!t creek. She wont change, you'll have to manage her like this for life.

Some women are overly jealous as in they are stalkers by birth. They give you no breathing space and the slightest thing that even looks like another female coming near you and they go up in arms, become irritable and brooding, start questioning you and imagining guilty admittance in every answer you give.

Some will say you shouldnt have married her in the first place but i wont say so. If you dont marry her who will?
I'm sure this behaviour was there while you were courting but not as bad, she would have tried her best to hide it at least until you belong to her officially.

You have to be patient with her. Patience is your only tool.
Allay her fears. Show her that the person or phone call or whatsapp message she is suspecting is purely innocent. Reinforce your innocence every chance you get. She wont lose her sting but she will definitely become easier to manage in that her suspicions will reduce.

Marriage is about sacrifices, its about give and take, no one has the perfect partner, there is always one issue or the other, others are going through worse. So take heart.

The ladies here that see nothing wrong in your wife's actions but are being quick to turn the tables on you, all i have to say is... You ladies are just awesome. If it was a woman that came to comolain that her husband is always angry and hot tempered and doesn't explain what the problem is and hides his emotions, you woukd have filled the page with how childish and immature that behaviour is. You would have told her she married a boy and not a man. What you get from being so antagonistic i'll never know.

Note, i have not insulted anyone here or used derogatory words. If you respond to me with anything unladylike or passive insultive, i assure you, you will be treated with a similar dish, time-willing. Be ladylike and u will find yourself being treated like one.
Thanks.

byvan03:
Dyt angry woman ke? Lol.

You had to read that again abi?

Presently my man is driving me insane and I just feel like yelling
Argggggggghhhhh

byvan03:




I won't oblige you, those that know me know me .

Sigh.
Ok, cool.

Dyt:
I am an angry woman so I can relate to OPs wife

Sometimes a woman just keeps quiet so as not to be seen as a nag
You def ain't be fair on that woman

Still angry??
I thot something (or someone) had quenched your fire.
So is dytbabe making a comeback?

5minsmadness:
.
So is dytbabe making a comeback?

Where did she go before?

missjo:


This section sha

This section is crayziie.
Dont know why its called the family section.
It should be called Aggression Output section.
Or something like that.

dytbabe:


Where did she go before?

Thot u and dyt were one and the same.
Sorry ma.

5minsmadness:

Still angry??
I thot something (or someone) had quenched your fire.

Rolls eyes

Can I scream and yell at you?
Plsss

5minsmadness:


Thot u and dyt were one and the same.
Sorry ma.

Yes they

So what about her?

Dyt:


Rolls eyes

Can I scream and yell at you?
Plsss

I'm feeling charitable today.

Wears crash helmet and fireproof vest

My safe word is : condom.
Oya fire away.

5minsmadness:

I'm feeling charitable today.

Wears crash helmet and fireproof vest

My safe word is : condom.
Oya fire away.

Clown

Lemme jor
You men just annoy someone anyhow making one act like a crazy woman

Dyt:




Clown

Lemme jor
You men just annoy someone anyhow making one act like a crazy woman

Oya am curious now. What did oga do?

5minsmadness:


Oya am curious now. What did oga do?

He didn't come when he was supposed to

Tho he's been apologising but mbanu
Its not his 10th time

Infact I need a break

Dyt:


He didn't come when he was supposed to

Tho he's been apologising but mbanu
Its not his 10th time

Infact I need a break

Okay, calm down, take it easy.

Have a cold, coollld shower. Trust me, it helps.
There must have been a reason why he didn't come at the appointed time. A good reason even though now in your angry mood you may not see it as good.

If he is turning it into a habit, then start doing things to ensure he comes at the appointed time.
There are various techniques u can try.

5minsmadness:

Okay, calm down, take it easy.

Have a cold, coollld shower. Trust me, it helps.
There must have been a reason why he didn't come at the appointed time. A good reason even though now in your angry mood you may not see it as good.

If he is turning it into a habit, then start doing things to ensure he comes at the appointed time.
There are various techniques u can try.

Ehn
But I know that's actually his own style

Just that sometimes you expect speed at something's
Not in my bald headed man's case


He should sha send me lunch or gimme a superb weekend treat
Else no uncooked food for 7days


Still angry sha

Dyt:



You had to read that again abi?

Presently my man is driving me insane and I just feel like yelling
Argggggggghhhhh

Lol, some days are like that. Go and watch Mr bones so you no go too carry long mouth .

5minsmadness:

Is she a scorpio, i.e born october 23 to November21?

If yes, well then, you're up sh!t creek. She wont change, you'll have to manage her like this for life.

Some women are overly jealous as in they are stalkers by birth. They give you no breathing space and the slightest thing that even looks like another female coming near you and they go up in arms, become irritable and brooding, start questioning you and imagining guilty admittance in every answer you give.

Some will say you shouldnt have married her in the first place but i wont say so. If you dont marry her who will?
I'm sure this behaviour was there while you were courting but not as bad, she would have tried her best to hide it at least until you belong to her officially.

You have to be patient with her. Patience is your only tool.
Allay her fears. Show her that the person or phone call or whatsapp message she is suspecting is purely innocent. Reinforce your innocence every chance you get. She wont lose her sting but she will definitely become easier to manage in that her suspicions will reduce.

Marriage is about sacrifices, its about give and take, no one has the perfect partner, there is always one issue or the other, others are going through worse. So take heart.

The ladies here that see nothing wrong in your wife's actions but are being quick to turn the tables on you, all i have to say is... You ladies are just awesome. If it was a woman that came to comolain that her husband is always angry and hot tempered and doesn't explain what the problem is and hides his emotions, you woukd have filled the page with how childish and immature that behaviour is. You would have told her she married a boy and not a man. What you get from being so antagonistic i'll never know.

Note, i have not insulted anyone here or used derogatory words. If you respond to me with anything unladylike or passive insultive, i assure you, you will be treated with a similar dish, time-willing. Be ladylike and u will find yourself being treated like one.
Thanks.

If a lady mentioned that her husband saw something that looks like cheating, I probably would have written an epistle. Yes, I would blame her because your spouse shouldn't be seeing that so called "anything that looks like cheating" in the first place.

byvan03:




Lol, some days are like that. Go and watch Mr bones so you no go too carry long mouth .

Noooo
I want to get angry
Its doing me like that
Get sooooo angry
Even when I am laughing



Op
Goan beg your wife o

Dyt:


Noooo
I want to get angry
Its doing me like that
Get sooooo angry
Even when I am laughing



Op
Goan beg your wife o

Enjoy .

Dyt:


Ehn
But I know that's actually his own style

Just that sometimes you expect speed at something's
Not in my bald headed man's case


He should sha send me lunch or gimme a superb weekend treat
Else no uncooked food for 7days


Still angry sha

Oya mention your restaurant of choice, am sure oga will oblige.
But bia, that 7 days up there is too much o, u wan kill am?

byvan03:



Enjoy .

You won't tell me sorry?

byvan03:




If a lady mentioned that her husband saw something that looks like cheating, I probably would have written an epistle. Yes, I would blame her because your spouse shouldn't be seeing that so called "anything that looks like cheating" in the first place.

Hmm, ok, i hear you.

5minsmadness:

Oya mention your restaurant of choice, am sure oga will oblige.
But bia, that 7 days up there is too much o, u wan kill am?

Surprise things
That's how I like it
Just a msg, I am downstairs your office *I won't pick his calls* I will be full of shining blushes
Women can mumu sha


7days?
Just?
He no go die


Make up something is usually the best
You know na
Hehehehehe

Chai
I don over throne OP

Soryy
No vex

Dyt:



You had to read that again abi?

Presently my man is driving me insane and I just feel like yelling
Argggggggghhhhh

Or you can just kill him...

njokusboy:


Or you can just kill him...

Na wa for you ooo
Who carry come for my matter now

Dyt:


You won't tell me sorry?

Sorry biko

byvan03:




If a lady mentioned that her husband saw something that looks like cheating, I probably would have written an epistle. Yes, I would blame her because your spouse shouldn't be seeing that so called "anything that looks like cheating" in the first place.

Lol....
You can't be serious, you ladies are more complicated than I thought....
It's impossible not to see anything that looks like cheating as far as you women are concerned, even a handshake looks like cheating....
Anyway, Wat stops you people from speaking up when you see something that looks like cheating

Dyt:


Na wa for you ooo
Who carry come for my matter now

Lol, maybe I don't get you but if something is driving you insane, isn't it easier to just get rid of it...

byvan03:




Sorry biko

Now I am smiling small

njokusboy:

Lol, maybe I don't get you but if something is driving you insane, isn't it easier to just get rid of it...

And to kill na the only thing wey come to your mind?
Nna I can't be your friend cos one day one day ehn

Dyt:


Now I am smiling small





And to kill na the only thing wey come to your mind?
Nna I can't be your friend cos one day one day ehn

Lol...
You see, you don't want to kill him and he has apologized already... Which means you are only torturing yourself mentally and emotionally....
Just get rid of the anger and move on...

byvan03:

If a lady mentioned that her husband saw something that looks like cheating.

The thread would be on fire by now.

cococandy:

I was going to ask you if you cheated on her before I saw this post.
It's clear You know what's wrong. Fix it.

Maybe she's not confronting you about it because she's afraid that it will be true that you're actually cheating and she wouldn't know how to deal with it. Whatever it is you think she saw that's making her lock up, you need to be the one to bring it up and clear the air.

Goodluck

I never said I cheated on her and I will never cheat. Get your facts right dear