Hi Nairalanders,

I am confused because I dont know if I acted right or wrong. If you visits your fiance unannounced because you switched your phone off and he started behaving funny when you arrived and later you found out that he invited a girl to the house and the girl came and and meet you in the house, your guy told you secretly the she is just a friend and ask you to cook and do other things,what will you do? I told him to excuse me and I left the house and have not gone to his house since then. am I wrong or right, what would you have done if you were in my shoes. I left because I couldnt stand him dotting on the girl while I was there.

Woww . The guy sounds like bad news. What you did was the best because it would give u both time to cook up an explanation. If you had stayed, things might have exploded after a while. Let's see if he calls you first to explain, or if you feel you're bold enough, you call and talk things out amicably. He's supposedly your fiance so no need to give him up without some effort.

Wowsers. You caught him I would love to hear how he weasels out of this one.

you did the right thing dear

what on earth did he take you for anyway

iice:

Drag him by the neck. . .and smash her face J/K

Well i would ask him to explain himself and he better be telling the truth

I concur

nmadi:

Hi Nairalanders,

I am confused because I dont know if I acted right or wrong.  If you visits your fiance unannounced because you switched your phone off and he started behaving funny when you arrived and later you found out that he invited a girl to the house and the girl came and and meet you in the house, your guy told you secretly the she is just a friend and ask you to cook and do other things,what will you do? I told him to excuse me and I left the house and have not gone to his house since then.   am I wrong or right, what would you have done if you were in my shoes. I left because I couldnt stand him dotting on the girl while I was there.

You nigerian girls are horribly crazy,you take decision and you ran to nairaland to confirm if it was right or wrong, nawa ooo.

Thanks for your replies, He called and was even annoyed that I left the house after his explanations and wanted to come immediately that I am acting childishly, is that true?

you are joking right? this cant be real ,

Why ask d question.what will u do.of course that is what any girl in her right senses wld do. u did the right thing.but u no try at all o.u suppose scatter the whole place.what a fool the guy is and he thinks he is smart.he must realy think u are a dummy.abeg 4get the yellow-gutted idiot.

uhuu i dont really know much about Nigeria dating rules but i have these to tell you,


in a modern world u can just go to BF or GF house without her consent  and if he truly want u to come anytime, im sure he would have get u 1 extra keyyyy.

but now the bridge is damage lets look for the solution,

dont think u were wrong, but u guys can talk it over, but dont let love blind your eyes to forget the truth,


i guess nigerian ladies are weak in those areas but stand up and demand for the truth.