If you’ve ever felt furious with a man because he just doesn’t “get” why he’s making you unhappy, I can help.
Some men are actually, not on purpose trying to hurt you – But most men are just clueless. They really want to be with you.
Most men are lonely – yes, they really are. Most men feel awkward and less confident than you would imagine. In fact, most of the ‘GOOD’ men out there lack confidence and feel awkward around women.But they just cover it up with either an “I don’t care” attitude, a determination to keep an emotional “distance” between you, or outright hostility.
It’s amazing sometimes how far a man will go to protect his own heart. And nearly the worst thing any woman can do is to take what he does and says and close up your own heart in response. If you trust YOURSELF with a man, he will trust YOU.And that is just the truth ….
Now…this is very different from insisting that YOU trust HIM. And I know this is hard to get, because trust seems like it has to be a given in a good relationship – and it does. But it doesn’t begin with you trusting him.
It begins with you trusting yourself as a woman and not your ‘girlfriends and social network ‘
It begins with a sense that no matter what he does or says, you’ll be okay. It begins with him getting that you will not tolerate bad behavior, garbage, mistreatment, neglect, or any form of abuse or disconnection.
And the REASON you can trust yourself not to tolerate bad behavior is just that…you trust yourself!
And then, it makes it possible for you to be yourself around him. You can be warm, open, loving and easy-going with him.
Why Trusting Yourself Brings Him Closer. If you so completely respect and accept yourself, you’ll automatically respect and accept your man… You will honor him – exactly the way HE is.And he instantly “gets” that you respect and accept him.
Your intention to be exactly who you are in his presence – no matter what – not only completely turns him on, it makes him feel manly and accepted and trusted all at the same time. And that’s when he becomes trustworthy.That’s when you begin to trust him. And that’s how a great, deep, and connected relationship gets created.
So much of this depends on the words you use. They have to be not only respectful and communicate simply – they have to be true!
Men are so used to hearing demands from women – from their mothers, their teachers, and even the women around them at work. They’re so used to this that they almost automatically shutdown and tune out whenever the sound of your voice or the content of your words triggers them in a way that feels like a demand.
Show Him He Needs YOU. You can be ahead of nearly every other woman around by learning how to put words together that are respectful, non-demanding and yet truly express what it is you want, what it is you need and what it is you feel – in a way that makes his heart want to get closer to your heart. What this does for you is take all the frustration out of communicating with a man!
There is a child in every man that is often neglected … There is a heart in every man that is often seen so hard…. There is so much love in every man that is been lost all Becos you haven’t paid attention to the right things… Be careful who u call ‘friend or bestie’ … Be careful who you discuss your relationship with or even ur marriage … Not everyone who laughs with u loves u and wants to see you happy…. Take your time and pay more attention to the little details that you think doesn’t matter Becos they actually do… Remember little things are little things but faithfulness to little things makes them great… Take your time to study your man and practice a few things sincerely … Not all men are beasts and not all men are after sex….
I pray for those who are truly search for fulfillment in their relationships … Those who have been broken and torn apart…. May the Holy Spirit of minister to your worrying hearts the peace God brings …. I pray that soon happiness may flow in your paths in the mighty name of Jesus.
 
 
By Cajetan Didam Isah (http://www.esther.ng)


Source: http://esther.ng/the-child-in-every-man-that-needs-attention/

What a wonderful prayer for all the single ladies in the house...


Juz don't lose hope I guess.

TrapQueen77:



What a wonderful prayer for all the single ladies in the house...


Juz don't lose hope I guess.

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corrosivedick:



u dey here, u don dey miss drama for shamtiel thread

Who be tat?

Hahahahahaa... Ur moniker tho... Is ur dick made out of iron?

Too much beautiful nonsense, infact in these buhari economy we think with our pocket and not heart. Driver abeg stop me here