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Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by hilaryiq(f): 7:45pm On Sep 07, 2016 |
CSTR2: Yes I mentioned that it's both the OP and her bfs fault for different reasons and they should both be held responsible for their actions. Singling her out and saying if it were your own daughter you'd disown her, isn't right in any way nor is it offering any good advice |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by bareal(m): 8:20pm On Sep 07, 2016 |
Joavid: OK ma |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Sexina851(f): 8:22pm On Sep 07, 2016 |
Everybody doing "oju aiye" if aborting the pregnancy is murder then using c.d is kidnapping too.. Anyway dear if u would keep it make sure u tell his family about it, But above all no man, or only few men can consider marrying a baby mama.. |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Berbierklaus(f): 9:04pm On Sep 07, 2016 |
Tega4B:After you have received enough to stop fecking about and aborting up and down. 1 Like |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Berbierklaus(f): 9:06pm On Sep 07, 2016 |
hilaryiq:
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Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Nobody: 9:10pm On Sep 07, 2016 |
Berbierklaus: Eku se O Madam Well done I don see your handiwork |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by danbrowndmf(m): 9:14pm On Sep 07, 2016 |
Berbierklaus:just let it go.... |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by lekonso: 9:52pm On Sep 07, 2016 |
If everything you said is true (because we have not heard the other side of the story) the guy must be very wicked. Has he accepted the pregnancy even if he is not going to marry you? you did not tell us that. If he accepted the pregnancy go ahead and have the baby. If you arbort the baby you may find it difficult to conceive in future. Having the baby does not mean you will not find the right person to marry you after, but that may not be easy either. My advice is that if he has accepted the baby go ahead and have the baby and leave the rest to God for judgement. |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Nobody: 10:01pm On Sep 07, 2016 |
OP! I can see your mind is made up. Then why seeking for people's advice on nairaland in the first place. Truth is: Abortion is MURDER! Morning after pills is also abortion(SINCE CONCEPTION HAS TAKEN PLACE AND THE CHROMOSOMES ARE COMPLETE ) and hence murder. Condom use is fornication/adultery which is a sin. That all sins are the same is a devilish way of promoting sin and wickedness. No wonder our Christianity is very powerless, shallow and fruitless today. Abortion is totally wrong no matter what de-humanised misguided shallow valueless wicked people are saying. I stopped having sex years ago after I became born again because it's a SIN and I have never gotten any girl pregnant. SO AM IN A VERY GOOD POSITION TO CATEGORICALLY TELL YOU THAT WHAT YOU'RE ABOUT TO DO IS THE MOST INHUMAN WICKEDNESS TO THAT SWEET UNBORN CHILD. GOOD DAY! 1 Like |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by DECOtech(m): 10:07pm On Sep 07, 2016 |
Berbierklaus: it is still #50 oh! ...upon the high price of dollar! |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Starieangel(f): 10:12pm On Sep 07, 2016 |
CrazyQuinn:his crime was loving us so much. 1 Like |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by thedarkside: 10:31pm On Sep 07, 2016 |
Tosssin: become what??..another jonathan??...you,christians with your jelly-fish minds.....i gbadun una,well well........ ..................... 1 Like |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Boldstar(m): 10:05am On Sep 08, 2016 |
Tega4B Its so coincidental that I was advising a guy whose gf got pregnant for him yesterday. He said she wants to get rid of it cos of family (basically mother & brothers) but he wants her to keep it. The advise gave him is what I'll give you. Search deep within yourself what is more important, avoiding pissing off your mother or keeping a baby that could turn out lovely. The decision is entirely yours, and not your bfs. |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by bareal(m): 12:24pm On Oct 15, 2016 |
. Must you know where I'm from? Sorry, ur moniker says it all....u are a 'NOBODY' |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Tega4B: 5:48pm On May 23, 2017 |
Gosh,i had to look for this post. Thank u all for ur comments. UPDATE: I kept my baby(lost my job),he was cute,an epitome of perfection, I lost him eventually(yeah he died),(4days later). sometimes i wish i had aborted,i'm nt regretting my decision to keep him either.LIFE GOES ON EVENTUALLY! Thank u all. |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by kaziblake(f): 6:00pm On May 23, 2017 |
Tega4B:so sorry about that dear |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by olac21(m): 6:52pm On May 23, 2017 |
Tega4B:ehya..sorry about that!What about your your boyfriend..are still together and did he later take responsibility for the chid? |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Gloriagee(f): 11:45pm On May 23, 2017 |
I'm so sorry about your loss Tega4B: |
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