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You will have a difficult life stuck with a man you don't love. Chances of loving him in marriage is almost non existent, you will only frustrate this man. Don't get married if you are not feeling it .

Zinny25:
I don't have any reason for not loving him, I have tried to love him but I can't, I even get upset when I see his call. Now my people wants me to get married to him because he's a good guy and have been patiently waiting for more than 5yrs. The irony of it is that the ones I love always break my heart. I'm so confused. A friend said it's an evil spirit that is making me not to love him and love the wrong people. I'm not attracted to him, I don't feel anything for him, I believe I can stay in a room with him for a week and nothing will happen

But Sister Zinny, why did you keep him waiting for that long

confistified:
boss hw far na continue ur story na

Boss mehn....no worry.....new story dey....

why not get on your knees and talk to God?
"Call to me, I will answer you and I will teach you great and mighty things you do not know" {Jeremiah 33:3}
'Now I am old, but ever since my youth
I never saw an Upright person ABANDONED,
OR the DESCENDANTS of the UPRIGHT forced to beg their bread' [Psalm 37:25]
"from the BEGINNING I REVEALED THE FUTURE,
in ADVANCE, what has not yet OCCURRED.
I SAY: MY PURPOSE will COME ABOUT,
I SHALL DO WHATEVER I PLEASE" (Isaiah 46:10)
God's Grace as you pray your way out...
Holy Spirit take over in Jesus Name. Amen.
"...I watch out for MY WORD TO PERFORM IT..." {Jeremiah 1:12}
IT IS FINISHED {JOHN 19:30}

Zedoo:
Boss mehn....no worry.....new story dey....

bro continue d old one na... finish that one up 1st

Zinny25:
Is it good for a girl to marry a man she doesn't love but the man loves her so much and can do anything for her. Will the love grow after marriage? Will she learn to love him? Do issues arise from such a union? I need answers to enable me take a decision.

the marriage won't last, just save yourself from the embarrassment of going back to meet your parent after some couple of months, since his calls irritates you.

sapiosexual1:
I think it's best you marry someone you love. If the love isn't mutual and you haven't grown the love for him after all these years, then I hate to break it to you that ur chances of growing into love in marriage is slim.
You would realise that ur only enduring the marriage, you would easily get irritated by even his 'lovable actions ' and you may end up frustrated.
Eventually you would devote your love to your kids, giving them more attention than your husby
My advice, try by all means to find something to love about him now, if not, you may not have to get married to him

you sound like u'v been dere