My name's diamond, I am really in love with a junior colleague of mine at school(university)...she's black,average height and really beautiful..

I loved her ryt from the first day I saw her, told her my feelings ryt from the first day I approached her,did not hide my feelings,because I did not want to be friend zoned...

she's so brilliant,she's almost always having A's in all her courses just like me, but I am scared that she is not gonna be able to cope up with school and relationship, I promised her that I will give her enough time for her education,we'll read together,since I am her senior colleague,I'll help her out with some though task,her education will also be my priority.....I love her like madt.

When I talked to her and told her that I loved her,she said she's not ready for any relationship for now,but she is always gratifying my wish to visit her, she looks so tender and innocent also very cute...she's also very responsive when I talk to her.....when I wake up,the first thing I think about is her....she's always smiling at me,her cute smile kills me totally....

My question now is whether she is also playing hard to get or am I wasting my time chasing shadow?

I swear I love her...girls please tell me when you guys play hard to get,when u love a guy but u r pretending and when u dnt really want a guy...

And from ur experience you can also know if this Girl loves me or not...thanks
I'll appreciate every encouragement..

She's pretty,she makes me stammer..that's how powerful she is in my life...

"Help a boy today"

Lol

Lol. You know what I like abt you op? You're open-minded, you know what you want even though it sounds funny. You remind me of my 1st love back then

Well don't talk to her abt relationship. If she's not ready for a relationship then she isn't. Just let it flow like it has been flowing, intensify the affection. She'll by herself give in to what you want without relationship as she said

Its after the apple has been eaten that she will realize she's actually been in relationship for long.

Sha no give her belle, na school you dey o

Op, clearly she's not interested, she doesn't want any distractions to affect her grades, you should move on if you want the best for her

CrazyQuinn:
Op, clearly she's not interested, she doesn't want any distractions to affect her grades, you should move on if you want the best for her

Promised her that I'll give her enough time for her studies...I love her the same way I love her education

I don't read minds.

She might be playing hard to get, she might not want you, I don't know.

Diamonddris:



Promised her that I'll give her enough time for her studies...I love her the same way I love her education

we both know that's not true, easier said than done. Just maintain the friendship until she's through with her studies

CrazyQuinn:
we both know that's not true, easier said than done. Just maintain the friendship until she's through with her studies

U will not understand...I have my own studies to face too,and I dnt think loving her will stop me from reading....the fact is that waiting for three days I like waiting for 3yrs...tokless of waiting for 5 yrs...am in trouble

Mehnn keep chasing dhat girl am sure u will win her heart 1 day


dont give up......

Diamonddris:



U will not understand...I have my own studies to face too,and I dnt think loving her will stop me from reading....the fact is that waiting for three days I like waiting for 3yrs...tokless of waiting for 5 yrs...am in trouble

it won't stop you from reading but it can stop her from reading, you're only thinking of yourself. If you can't wait any longer, you can move on

CrazyQuinn:
it won't stop you from reading but it can stop her from reading, you're only thinking of yourself. If you can't wait any longer, you can move on

That's somehow true sha...but I am not thinking of myself alone
The fact is that I wish her well

youngberry001:
Mehnn keep chasing dhat girl am sure u will win her heart 1 day



dont give up......

Bro ! God bless you for that encouragement...am trying my best

Op don't u expect any lady to accept ur proposal instantly.....Giv her two months frm now and u see she starts considerin ur request!!!!

Diamonddris:



That's somehow true sha...but I am not thinking of myself alone
The fact is that I wish her well

If you wish her well you know what to do

GOFRONT:
Op don't u expect any lady to accept ur proposal instantly.....Giv her two months frm now and u see she starts considerin ur request!!!!

Yea that's ryt bro..lemme just wait sha o...I pray she considers me

Nigga, it's obvious all you want from her is to get between her thighs. When you say you 'want to love her' it's apparent you're in a haste to get down with her, if not, you should be content with the friendship existing between both of you at the moment.

She obviously likes you, that's why she visits with you and gives you that affectionate smile that makes you feel on top of the world. You should be content with that for now. I'm sure she's a sensible girl who knows that a serious relationship at this time will interfere with her studies, hence her response.

Give her time, but continue being close to her and win her trust. In the long run, when the time is right, a serious romantic relationship will develop between you two.

gozzlin:
Nigga, it's obvious all you want from her is to get between her thighs. When you say you 'want to love her' it's apparent you're in a haste to get down with her, if not, you should be content with the friendship existing between both of you at the moment.

She obviously likes you, that's why she visits with you and gives you that affectionate smile that makes you feel on top of the world. You should be content with that for now. I'm sure she's a sensible girl who knows that a serious relationship at this time will interfere with her studies, hence her response.

Give her time, but continue being close to her and win her trust. In the long run, when the time is right, a serious romantic relationship will develop between you two.

You are ryt...maybe I'll try that out..