As a lady you can guard yourself against all the players out there and prevent them from having access to your heart. If you want to avoid being played by any other men, you just need some foolproof dating skills at your disposal!

1. FLEE FROM GUYS WITH LOW SELF ESTEEM:You know how women say of each other that if they don’t love themselves, they can’t love someone else? Well, the same is true for men, which is why you want to avoid going out with guys who have clear and obvious self-esteem issues. A guy who’s unable to love himself or recognize his own value certainly won’t be able to see how valuable you are.

2. BEWARE OF THOSE WHO EASILY CATCH FEELINGS:Players are very good at pretending. Quite often, they’ll pretend that they have massive feelings for you right away.That’s a huge red flag. If he’s saying he loves you and he barely even knows you, there’s something wrong. If he’s engaging in intimate boyfriend behavior right away – calling and texting all the time, staying on the phone all night, showering you with gifts and compliments – then just be aware that it might be an act. See, if he makes you believe he’s perfect now, then later, when his player tendencies come out, he’ll already have you hooked.

3. KEEP A CALL LOG:Why? Because if you keep a list of when the potential player in your life calls or texts, you can figure out if you’re just a booty call. You might only hear from him after ten or eleven at night, you might only hear from him on the weekends, or he might message you at odd weeknight hours. Unless he works the night shift, there’s no reason he can’t get in touch with you during the daytime, too.

4. WATCH OUT FOR DEEP PROMISES:“Baby, I would NEVER treat you like that.” “Girl, I will NEVER wrong you.” “Pretty lady, I am here to take care of you FOREVER.” Extreme promises seem sweet and romantic, but they’re bad news. These are just lines, fed to vulnerable girls and women. Remember, the guy who really will treat you right isn’t going to tell you about it, he’s just going to DO it.

5. DON’T LET HIM GIVE YOU A NICKNAME TOO SOON:I know this probably seems like a stupid, trite point, but it’s really not. Players will often give out nicknames like “baby,” “bae,” “boo,” “honey,” “pretty lady,” “mama,” or “cutie,”among others. Now, nicknames can be sweet. However, if he starts using these right away and he uses nicknames more than your actual name, well … two things.

For one, he might justhave too many girls in his life to remember all of their names.For another, he might just be forging – and forcing – an emotional connection.

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