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Re: A Bitter True Story Of My Child's Delivery by Nobody: 8:59pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
Dandy1:You are still Baba ibeji........Another one will come |
Re: A Bitter True Story Of My Child's Delivery by oyomii(f): 9:00pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
We knw it sad bt u av several reasons to be grtful. 1. U didn't bcome a widow today and 2. You are now a dad. U've got a beautiful princess and a queen to look after. U are a blessed man. You've got jst one reason to b sad but several to b grtful. Your wife needs u nw more than ever. The labour room is nt as fun as u think it is. So b der for ur wife. Congrats sir. 1 Like |
Re: A Bitter True Story Of My Child's Delivery by Glomoni: 9:00pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
It's well bro, I know exactly how you feel after months of warming up for the boo boo, but be strong and also happy cos ur wife and boo made it. It could hv been worse,to give birth to twins no be here. |
Re: A Bitter True Story Of My Child's Delivery by Nobody: 9:02pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
Don't b a sucker , get ur a*ss up n b strong......better days ahead.....bless |
Re: A Bitter True Story Of My Child's Delivery by Onegai(f): 9:03pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
Dandy1: I'm so sorry for what you went through. A lot of doctors will recommend CS for multiple deliveries. It is not about how strong the woman is, it is about the amount of stress the babies go through. Any baby in delivery is stressed but then some babies then go through additional stress. Sometimes they swallow meconium, sometimes they poo in-utero. CS gives a form of control over how the babies will be born, they will schedule te birth at the best possible time and be prepared for any outcome. But please take heart, you guys came out victorious. Love your wife and be very patient with her, tell her what you're feeling too. God knows best. 8 Likes |
Re: A Bitter True Story Of My Child's Delivery by Bugatie(m): 9:04pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
herzern: Take heart bros, Triplet? This your prayer ehh 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: A Bitter True Story Of My Child's Delivery by dopedealer(m): 9:08pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
It is well .. |
Re: A Bitter True Story Of My Child's Delivery by 18wheeler: 9:08pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
Dandy1: 2 Likes |
Re: A Bitter True Story Of My Child's Delivery by linsa01(m): 9:09pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
Daddy boo, you better be greatful to God. To me you've not lost anything. after 9months you have your wife and a beautiful boo alive. No money spent on CS. please be strong and happy for the new baby and mummy boo. Congrats. |
Re: A Bitter True Story Of My Child's Delivery by osarenmwienda(f): 9:12pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
congratulations sir .
just thank God for everything.. you should be greatful |
Re: A Bitter True Story Of My Child's Delivery by happney65: 9:21pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
Dandy1: Please do not dispose the double things in a trash cash..Kindly give it out to an Orphanage or someone you know needs it.. omolola15 do you want twins?Receive it in Jesus name..speaking in tongues....Shaksksiskskskkdkkroboooo 1 Like |
Re: A Bitter True Story Of My Child's Delivery by dljbd1(m): 9:21pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
Be strong bro...your wife needs you. Be strong. 1 Like |
Re: A Bitter True Story Of My Child's Delivery by Pidggin(f): 9:21pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
Some people can be insensitive, this is ridiculous. Someone is grieving after months of preparing and planning for twins only to end up with one baby and another person who lacks empathy, decides to post pics of ordinary looking twins. To what end exactly, is the plan to send him further into depression or what? @OP, take heart, God will bless you with twins again and this time you shall not lose any of them, congrats on your princess, may God make her a light to her generation, God bless 3 Likes |
Re: A Bitter True Story Of My Child's Delivery by glossy6(f): 9:25pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
Oh my o my! Congrats all the same. |
Re: A Bitter True Story Of My Child's Delivery by iomoge2(f): 9:25pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
God will hive another set Amen Thank God you have one to hold and cherish. 48hours gone inside? Hmmmm. This os seriois. God bless Boo. |
Re: A Bitter True Story Of My Child's Delivery by femi4: 9:26pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
dont8:I feel like beating your Yoruba teacher right now 2 Likes |
Re: A Bitter True Story Of My Child's Delivery by queenfav(f): 9:26pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
Take heart,God knows best..His ways are not our ways.Congrats on your wife's safe delivery.You will definitely have more beautiful kids by God's grace. 1 Like |
Re: A Bitter True Story Of My Child's Delivery by rezzy: 9:26pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
Congratulations and sorry for your loss. Your boo will bring you abundant blessings and everlasting joy. |
Re: A Bitter True Story Of My Child's Delivery by TeeFeh(f): 9:27pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
Sorry |
Re: A Bitter True Story Of My Child's Delivery by Zehner(f): 9:28pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
Pidggin:honestly I am speechless where lies our empathy for each other? Very Insensitive. 1 Like |
Re: A Bitter True Story Of My Child's Delivery by queenfav(f): 9:29pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
Pidggin:Some nairalanders eh,dem dey do like who their brain go on sabbatical leave their head empty.He could not comment and go o,he had to post pictures of his twins.God help some people o. 3 Likes |
Re: A Bitter True Story Of My Child's Delivery by Pidggin(f): 9:34pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
Zehner: Honestly, it's sad. The OP is grieving and needs comfort not someone posting pictures of his own twins and saying "Here, look at mine I didn't lose any of them", I don't get it. I am speechless 3 Likes |
Re: A Bitter True Story Of My Child's Delivery by atilla(m): 9:36pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
I'm sure if ur wife knew there was a possibility of danger she would have opted straight away for the c section. She will be so pained and think her decision made it happen. I pray for God to strengthen both of u m. And make ur boo make u guys so happy. Take care bro and stay strong for ur mama boo and baby boo 5 Likes |
Re: A Bitter True Story Of My Child's Delivery by Medunah: 9:36pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
18wheeler:Seriously?? Last thing u should do right now is that. Like who gives a fvck bout what u opted for, insensitive asf 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A Bitter True Story Of My Child's Delivery by BomboyOnline: 9:37pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
So sorry to hear about your loss. Cherish Boo, and the ones that are coming after her. The Nigerian health care system have a long way to go. First of all, a twin pregnancy should have never been allowed to go full term not to talk of 3 weeks over nine months. Who allows a woman carrying twins to labor for hours? C section should have been considered as soon as the babies weren't coming. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A Bitter True Story Of My Child's Delivery by Beey(f): 9:38pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
MaBuk:It's not cheap but in case of multiples or should a complication arise, health insurance pays for CS |
Re: A Bitter True Story Of My Child's Delivery by BomboyOnline: 9:40pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
So sorry to hear about your loss. Cherish Boo, and the ones that are coming after her. The Nigerian health care system has a long way to go. First of all, a twin pregnancy should have never been allowed to go full term not to talk of 3 weeks over nine months. Who allows a woman carrying twins to labor for hours? C section should have been considered as soon as the babies weren't coming. |
Re: A Bitter True Story Of My Child's Delivery by Debbiehola(f): 9:41pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
Have a gratitude heart give God the Glory. In any situation give thanks. Regards to your wife ad d little princess boo. |
Re: A Bitter True Story Of My Child's Delivery by cococandy(f): 9:41pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
Your wife should have opted for the CS. Two babies over nine months in the belly. Placentas would have gotten aged and unable to function well. Lessons learned for next time if any. Sorry about your loss. And pls be strong for your wife. 7 Likes |
Re: A Bitter True Story Of My Child's Delivery by cococandy(f): 9:43pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
BomboyOnline:According to OP the doctor did suggest it but the wife refused. They can't force her you know. 3 Likes |
Re: A Bitter True Story Of My Child's Delivery by ambafrank: 9:44pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
Take heart God knows all, it could have been worst then this. |
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