There is a post about Lady Dming or chatting a guy first. The truth is that many of us don't understand value and relationship, we always look for means to exploit each other.
From my observations so far, I will advice guys no to bother and get themselves worked up because of a Lady. What will be will be, If things will fall in place, a step at a time except you have hidden agenda.
Ladies too should learn courtesy, openness and avoid manipulations. Silly acts from ladies raised a lot of reg flag to serious minded guys.
But why is it when you need a favour, you will initate chat first?
Why do many ladies like to string a guy along because of gains?
why do many of you become chatterbox when you require urgent help?
Lastly, why is it that even when some of you manage to message a guy first, you behave as if you are doing him a favour by talking to him.
Let's ponder on value and work on ourselves. Know what you want as a guy or a Lady and communicate your stand point.