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Ladies, Have You Thought About This? by automatix: 12:48pm On Sep 21, 2016
"Alex, are you still interested? Sister Joy (not real name) is now free."
A pastor friend sent this to me today.
I had told him about a particular sister in his church that I will like to woo for a relationship.
He said ok. I approached her and we got talking. Later, I asked her if she was in a relationship, she said yes. I asked her, 'serious relationship?' Lol. She said yes.
I wanted to persuade her and talk her out of that relationship. But I decided otherwise. Doing that will amount to witchcraft.
Now, after 3 years, I got the above message from her pastor.
It pained me because the young lady is so lovely, adorable and humble.
I don't know what happened. But the pastor told me in a nutshell that the engagement didn't work out.
Here's my reply to the pastor -
"Eeeyaah. It's too late. I'm engaged. My wedding is on 17th December 2016. I wish her the best in life."
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Friends, don't hold someone hostage.
If you know you don't want to marry him or her, then give him or her some gap so that others will know the coast is clear.
Young lady, don't let any man place embargo on you. If he's ready to marry you, let him go ahead and do that. Engagement shouldn't last for ages.
Young man, don't let any girl friend-zone you while looking for the 'right man' to come.
If you are no ready to marry, don't hijack or lay claim on anybody.
Stop driving interested people away.

Some girls think they are in a relationship, thereby putting off someone who might really mean well for them... I pray this will not be you portion, ladies. Start asking questions, find out who you are with, where you stand in his life before it is too late, especially those in their late 20s to early 30s

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Re: Ladies, Have You Thought About This? by Nobody: 12:52pm On Sep 21, 2016


Awwwwe, inspiring... :–\



So, She broke up with some dude... big fücking deal!!! :–\
this shouldn't be news.. lots of marriage crash on daily basis.... so, it ain't exactly a safe bet..

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Re: Ladies, Have You Thought About This? by automatix: 1:16pm On Sep 21, 2016
Estharfabian:


Awwwwe, inspiring... :–\



So, She broke up with some dude... big fücking deal!!! :–\
this shouldn't be news.. lots of marriage crash on daily basis.... so, it ain't exactly a safe bet..
lol
Re: Ladies, Have You Thought About This? by faithugo64(f): 1:50pm On Sep 21, 2016
soo on point



some guys can be...aga aga,acha acha


them no go enter,dem no go gree another person enter


Oga commot for door na
Re: Ladies, Have You Thought About This? by Nobody: 1:51pm On Sep 21, 2016
nice one.... Its a lesson for everyone!
Re: Ladies, Have You Thought About This? by automatix: 1:56pm On Sep 21, 2016
faithugo64:
soo on point



some guys can be...aga aga,acha acha


them no go enter,dem no go gree another person enter


Oga commot for door na
That is where you have to put your foot to the ground and ask questions like "where is this relationship heading"? Be BOLD enough to ask that question.

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