This advice is strictly for guys,

If you are toasting or trying to woe a lady, be clear from that start what you want,
so you don't end up signing up for something that you have to run away from.
A friend has been wooing this lady for a month or so, and when he finally wanted
to get official, she insisted that her CONDITION is no SEX RELATIONSHIP.
He knew he couldn't do that sheet, but because of the time and effort he had put in it,
and he didn't want her to think he only wanted her for sex, he agreed to it.
Six month down the lane, he is complaining seriously and cheating on the girl.
So what the hell telling her you love her when you cheat on her?

So whats the way out?
Be honest! If she gives you a condition and you are not comfortable with it,
don't accept it, tell her the truth that you can't cope.
You are the man, and its up to you to define the scope of your relationship
and for you to take charge.
Hid this advice and you would be happier in your relationships....

Peace

ok,

thanks for sharing your experience with us.


we go learn henceforth.

Ok

K

Mtchewww. Aren't you people tired of posting these relationship rubbish on this forum?

As long as a man thinks like a man and a woman thinks like a woman, there will always be trouble in relationships.

Maturity comes with seperating your thoughts from what ur gender colleagues think. Until a man learns to think like a woman and a woman conciously learns to think like a man; putting urself in the position of the opposite sex and seeing things from their view, until then there will always be complication troubles

But instead we have ppl who remain in their thought line and yet want d opposite sex to think of their desires along with them...very childish habits

The funny thing is if he quits now, the mumu girl on which he has been spending money, time, feelings and emotions upon will be complaining that he cheated on her as if she gave him any memorable fantasy worth remembering forever.

So he wanted her for sex only. Should he have been honest and told her from jump?...not in this lifetime. Should a girl be honest and tell the guy she is only after his money?... not in this lifetime. A man knows...ehmmm.... many men know what they want... and so do lots of women. A man wooing a woman is like an employer interviewing an applicant for a critical job position..... the employer has to sort out if the applicant is likely to be the one.... in the same way the man has to sort out if the woman is the one to meet his needs. Anyone that honestly shows his hand is likely to be used. In this case...if the guy's objective was sex... he should've been long gone since he heard no sex..... does he now plan raping her to get back his investment? If he doesn't have Playa skills ashawo is always available. ..and often have sale in these hard times!

RadicallyBlunt:
Mtchewww. Aren't you people tired of posting these relationship rubbish on this forum?

As long as a man thinks like a man and a woman thinks like a woman, there will always be trouble in relationships.

Maturity comes with seperating your thoughts from what ur gender colleagues think. Until a man learns to think like a woman and a woman conciously learns to think like a man; putting urself in the position of the opposite sex and seeing things from their view, until then there will always be complication troubles

But instead we have ppl who remain in their thought line and yet want d opposite sex to think of their desires along with them...very childish habits

The funny thing is if he quits now, the mumu girl on which he has been spending money, time, feelings and emotions upon will be complaining that he cheated on her as if she gave him any memorable fantasy worth remembering forever.

Well said,

Originalsly:
So he wanted her for sex only. Should he have been honest and told her from jump?...not in this lifetime. Should a girl be honest and tell the guy she is only after his money?... not in this lifetime. A man knows...ehmmm.... many men know what they want... and so do lots of women. A man wooing a woman is like an employer interviewing an applicant for a critical job position..... the employer has to sort out if the applicant is likely to be the one.... in the same way the man has to sort out if the woman is the one to meet his needs. Anyone that honestly shows his hand is likely to be used. In this case...if the guy's objective was sex... he should've been long gone since he heard no sex..... does he now plan raping her to get back his investment? If he doesn't have Playa skills ashawo is always available. ..and often have sale in these hard times!

Investment? the game is a game of no returns... Raping her to get back his investment is like bombing people for peace...

optimusmind:

Investment? the game is a game of no returns... Raping her to get back his investment is like bombing people for peace...

Lol.... some of us think that way....get in the game thinking it's an investment ...if you throw money at the babe you must get access to the ehmmm.... hairy bank.

Originalsly:
Lol.... some of us think that way....get in the game thinking it's an investment ...if you throw money at the babe you must get access to the ehmmm.... hairy bank.

Punishment for rape is life sentence,
no amount of money you throw at what not, is worth it