This is not help, when you expect the people whom you ve helped to render the same thing back to you directly or indirectly.
When you remind the people you have helped, what you gave them or did to them.
When there is an issue between you and that same person you helped, and the next thing you say is “give me back my things”
This is not just a write up, it’s real and happens in the world around us. Our problem is while helping others, we don’t do that for the sake of Ar-razzaq [The provider], we do that and expect those people to be grateful to us, to be good to us, and to become the best to us.
Allah has done so many things for us, we didn’t even have the time to thank him. Yet, he didn’t stop being good to us. We forget that when relating to others. Because our hearts have been occupied by the kindness, and the reward.
Remember , anytime we are showing kindness, or giving out something to people, let totalize our kindness to Allah alone.
Prophet muhamed said:
«لَيْسَ لَنَا مَثَلُ السُّوءِ، الْعَائِدُ فِي هِبَتِهِ كَالْكَلْبِ يَقِيءُ ثُمَّ يَعُودُ فِي قَيْئِه»
(It is not befitting us to be an evil parable. The person who takes back his gift, he is like a dog that vomits and then goes back to his vomit.)

The prophet compared the person who takes back his gift to an animal, not just an animal but a dog.
By : sekinat Abubakry Sulaimon

Heeeeeee! sek tor has come again oo, i wonder who d islamic moderator is?