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Re: I Just Saw CONDOM In My Husband's Wallet, Am I Suppose To Just Overlook It? by Nobody: 1:22pm On Sep 28, 2016 |
SHOCK7:so your advice is to put up with a serial cheat. Okay. |
Re: I Just Saw CONDOM In My Husband's Wallet, Am I Suppose To Just Overlook It? by SHOCK7(m): 3:47pm On Sep 28, 2016 |
Re: I Just Saw CONDOM In My Husband's Wallet, Am I Suppose To Just Overlook It? by SHOCK7(m): 4:32pm On Sep 28, 2016 |
forlahkhe:Yes you are trying, but get a job first then u can beg for an excuse to pick up 'ur child but where are your siblings to help out? |
Re: I Just Saw CONDOM In My Husband's Wallet, Am I Suppose To Just Overlook It? by Nobody: 1:30am On Sep 29, 2016 |
Amelian:There's no such word as opportuned... BTW, I've not seen a situation like this in all my years living in Delta. |
Re: I Just Saw CONDOM In My Husband's Wallet, Am I Suppose To Just Overlook It? by Nobody: 5:16pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
Datazone: Keep deluding yourself. It happens for real. |
Re: I Just Saw CONDOM In My Husband's Wallet, Am I Suppose To Just Overlook It? by Nobody: 7:16pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
Amelian:Now who says it doesn't happen? It's one thing knowing how to read, the other is understanding. That I haven't seen doesn't imply that it is nonexistent. °_° |
Re: I Just Saw CONDOM In My Husband's Wallet, Am I Suppose To Just Overlook It? by Nobody: 7:33pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
Datazone: Well if u understand the scenario exists? What's the use quoting me in the first place? So? |
Re: I Just Saw CONDOM In My Husband's Wallet, Am I Suppose To Just Overlook It? by Nobody: 11:02pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
Amelian:I did correct you when you used a word that rendered your sentence erroneous otherwise, I'd walk away. 1 Like |
Re: I Just Saw CONDOM In My Husband's Wallet, Am I Suppose To Just Overlook It? by Nobody: 12:24am On Sep 30, 2016 |
Datazone: What's this one saying? Did I ask u to correct your so called erroneous sentence? Mr ITK, taking panadol for another person.. Go and correct yourself I didn't call you into my quote..mtchewww |
Re: I Just Saw CONDOM In My Husband's Wallet, Am I Suppose To Just Overlook It? by SirDorianGray(m): 9:34am On Sep 30, 2016 |
AkinPhysicist: Best Advice so far.... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Just Saw CONDOM In My Husband's Wallet, Am I Suppose To Just Overlook It? by chukwuboi(m): 8:37am On Oct 01, 2016 |
oglalasioux:I see there is more to this. Men are the major problems in the society, most lack purpose and understanding of being a man before jumping into marriage. 1 Like |
Re: I Just Saw CONDOM In My Husband's Wallet, Am I Suppose To Just Overlook It? by oglalasioux(m): 8:51am On Oct 01, 2016 |
chukwuboi: I disagree. It's our society that made it compulsory to get married. The society also mandated the man to pay through his nose to get a wife. He'll provide shelter, food and clothing. Then he has to put up with shit from the woman he practically bought. I don't believe you are a man. If you were you wouldn't say men are the problem. Are women the problem then? NO. It's our value system. When we stop deriding that sister or brother that is yet to get married and respect their privacy or their choice to divorce or be in a childless marriage, then we'll start thinking like human beings. |
Re: I Just Saw CONDOM In My Husband's Wallet, Am I Suppose To Just Overlook It? by Nobody: 11:23am On Oct 01, 2016 |
forlahkhe: I screamed WHAT?!! |
Re: I Just Saw CONDOM In My Husband's Wallet, Am I Suppose To Just Overlook It? by chukwuboi(m): 9:45am On Oct 02, 2016 |
oglalasioux:I understand where you're coming from, all you just said above is true and also understand the Genesis of the problem, people following the trend of making marriage compulsory and condemning those who don't, Myles Monroe's "relationship sermon" he said its satanic (not that there is a satan or our own satan) to force people into marriage or condemn divorce but I'm talking to those who are already victims(men) of the society what has to be done to gain control over themselves and start seeing not looking. |
Re: I Just Saw CONDOM In My Husband's Wallet, Am I Suppose To Just Overlook It? by Joy1706(f): 11:08am On Oct 02, 2016 |
nellybadas:Oya what is your advice? She should stay there, pray and die of heart break and STDs? The era of women suffering and praying in a yeye marriage is gone o. |
Re: I Just Saw CONDOM In My Husband's Wallet, Am I Suppose To Just Overlook It? by Joy1706(f): 11:09am On Oct 02, 2016 |
Toks2008:Succor my azz. Ma'am please if you love yourself, don't read his threads abeg |
Re: I Just Saw CONDOM In My Husband's Wallet, Am I Suppose To Just Overlook It? by Joy1706(f): 11:10am On Oct 02, 2016 |
Talasuma:And so?? Na death sentence? Mens world my azz |
Re: I Just Saw CONDOM In My Husband's Wallet, Am I Suppose To Just Overlook It? by Joy1706(f): 11:12am On Oct 02, 2016 |
gbengaoa:The home belongs to the woman? So the man is a tenant or what? Can she kick him out at will since the home belongs to her? You mofos will be claiming HEAD upandan only when it's convenient |
Re: I Just Saw CONDOM In My Husband's Wallet, Am I Suppose To Just Overlook It? by Joy1706(f): 11:15am On Oct 02, 2016 |
Toks2008:Please kindly shove this retarded article where the sun don't shine. If you will not 'expect your wife to cheat' in your marriage, why should a woman expect such rubbish. You really think this is what this woman needs to hear at this point. Gosh! |
Re: I Just Saw CONDOM In My Husband's Wallet, Am I Suppose To Just Overlook It? by Joy1706(f): 11:18am On Oct 02, 2016 |
Olufemiolaolu:Really? Infidelity, emotional and financial abuse, neglecting hos own child and you say it hasn't gotten to that. Is it when she is hanging from the ceiling fan that you will realise the gravity |
Re: I Just Saw CONDOM In My Husband's Wallet, Am I Suppose To Just Overlook It? by Toks2008(m): 11:20am On Oct 02, 2016 |
Joy1706: Are you married sis? If NO please just keep off my mentions and if YES please what would you advice her do? LEAVE THE HUSBAND? I hate it when i read comments from some ladies on nland who have no scruples. Most teenagers and unmarried ladies will come online to start advising a married lady about marital matters..iranu |
Re: I Just Saw CONDOM In My Husband's Wallet, Am I Suppose To Just Overlook It? by Joy1706(f): 11:23am On Oct 02, 2016 |
ikp120:Dude! YOU ARE DUMB. My God! |
Re: I Just Saw CONDOM In My Husband's Wallet, Am I Suppose To Just Overlook It? by Joy1706(f): 11:25am On Oct 02, 2016 |
ikp120:Even a stupid boy like you wants to be boss. Hahahahahaha! . God save women ooooooo. Hahahahahahaha |
Re: I Just Saw CONDOM In My Husband's Wallet, Am I Suppose To Just Overlook It? by Nobody: 11:25am On Oct 02, 2016 |
I don't mind my husband cheating but the fact that I sacrificed my career to take care of the home and my child, and later he refuse to support our child is madness! Toks2008: |
Re: I Just Saw CONDOM In My Husband's Wallet, Am I Suppose To Just Overlook It? by gabbytabby: 11:31am On Oct 02, 2016 |
The average 9ja man plays away match such that girls have to decide when they marry how they choose to deal with this. Survive inspite of this or move on. I would not advice that you disrupt your child's life especially when you knew he had more than 1 girlfriend when you were dating and courting. Begin as you intend to go on. What you allow becomes how you are treated. We are all different so you need to decide what works for you and even at that there are things we might have done or not done in our twenties which might become inconsequential in our forties. I am a non conformist and not particularly bothered by other peoples talk or expectation of me. I do what makes sense to me and try not to expose myself to unecessary risk or put my livelihood and very survival into unstable hands. On the other hand there is no half measures with me I am usually 100 percent in or close to 100 percent out. In advising I use my head cos it is easy when you are not emotionally involved to be practical. A husband brings many hats to the table if one is not working then it is for you to look at the other hats to see if it works for you. Goodluck. |
Re: I Just Saw CONDOM In My Husband's Wallet, Am I Suppose To Just Overlook It? by gabbytabby: 11:32am On Oct 02, 2016 |
The average 9ja man plays away match such that girls have to decide when they marry how they choose to deal with this. Survive inspite of this or move on. I would not advice that you disrupt your child's life especially when you knew he had more than 1 girlfriend when you were dating and courting. Begin as you intend to go on. What you allow becomes how you are treated. We are all different so you need to decide what works for you and even at that there are things we might have done or not done in our twenties which might become inconsequential in our forties. I am a non conformist and not particularly bothered by other peoples talk or expectation of me. I do what makes sense to me and try not to expose myself to unecessary risk or put my livelihood and very survival into unstable hands. On the other hand there is no half measures with me I am usually 100 percent in or close to 100 percent out. In advising I use my head cos it is easy when you are not emotionally involved to be practical. A husband brings many hats to the table if one is not working then it is for you to look at the other hats to see if it works for you. Goodluck. @forlahkhe 1 Like |
Re: I Just Saw CONDOM In My Husband's Wallet, Am I Suppose To Just Overlook It? by Joy1706(f): 11:37am On Oct 02, 2016 |
ayodeji200:Pretender! Your mother was also a sad single mother who fvcked every dicck in her neighbourhood. I know your family very well |
Re: I Just Saw CONDOM In My Husband's Wallet, Am I Suppose To Just Overlook It? by Toks2008(m): 11:38am On Oct 02, 2016 |
ItsQuinn: I have explained the road map to marital happiness or maybe tolerance in the thread i pointed her to which a certain Joy1706 asked her to disregard when im 200% that she has not even read and comprehended it. Look at the OP story again and you will see where she said she gave up her job and the second point in that thread says MAKE YOUR OWN MONEY So i honestly dont know how to explain to ladies that no matter the fantasy they have about marriage,there are some realities that they can not control and if faced with such situation they must be ready to face it head on. If any lady reads every thread i create about romance between aman and woman and deeply understands it, that lady will never have issues in her marriage. There is more to life to marriage and man woman matter please. |
Re: I Just Saw CONDOM In My Husband's Wallet, Am I Suppose To Just Overlook It? by Joy1706(f): 11:46am On Oct 02, 2016 |
Toks2008:Err...... He breaks his marital vows (infidelity), doesn't provide for her or his baby, completely useless as a husband and a father, he is emotionally abusive,irresponsible. Yes my dear, SHE SHOULD LEAVE THE HORSEBAND. She is a 'married spinster'. Oga you that you're divorced nko. What business do you have advising a married woman? If you were so wise and experienced, sheybi you'd still have a wife? |
Re: I Just Saw CONDOM In My Husband's Wallet, Am I Suppose To Just Overlook It? by Joy1706(f): 11:50am On Oct 02, 2016 |
Toks2008:There is no happiness a woman can find in a marriage in which the husband is not faithful. Take it or leave it. UNLESS she stops loving the husband or she gets a side bobo too |
Re: I Just Saw CONDOM In My Husband's Wallet, Am I Suppose To Just Overlook It? by Toks2008(m): 12:10pm On Oct 02, 2016 |
Joy1706: LOL! At least i have walked that road before so i have an experience of the road map innit? |
Re: I Just Saw CONDOM In My Husband's Wallet, Am I Suppose To Just Overlook It? by ikp120(m): 12:39pm On Oct 02, 2016 |
Joy1706: **Thinking aloud** I guess that woke up the man in our sister Joy! Let's laugh at that man joor! Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahha **Takes a break** **Resumes laughing** Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahhahaha |
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