humnm! why do girls always break my heart?ever since my higher school days,till now that i'm now a first class graduate, i loved them,cared 4 them and always tried to make them happy, or i am i too caring? i know i have a bright career future but i also want a happy home.i discovered that girls dont reciprocate my love, i am now so disturbed that i avoid them these days, but i know this will not solve my problem, fellow users,i need your help.

Something is still Missing,check urself.

see that is yr problem right there, you need to have some sort of balance give and take, if you let a woman walk all over you with out calming yr position as the man they will never respect you.


you should your woman but with sense    

who cares if u are a first class graduate? Why do pretty educated wives of some rich men fall for their drivers or gardeners who never had a high school education let alone making a third class? There are certain enroutes to the hearts of ladies and boy, u have to find them out.

stop looking for marriage get girlfriends so you can learn about yourself and the kind of person you want

dont got into a relationship thinking it will lead to marriage, take everyday as it comes and stop being a bitch ass dummy

i'm a first class degree holder

erm why dont you put the sign on your forehead

you also need to be a first class man.did you allow the university to pass thru u or u passed thru the university?anyway go to the section on toasting skills.so that u can be a well rounded man

ollyruffy:

humnm! why do girls always break my heart?ever since my higher school days,till now that i'm now a first class graduate, i loved them,cared 4 them and always tried to make them happy, or i am i too caring? i know i have a bright career future but i also want a happy home.i discovered that girls don't reciprocate my love, i am now so disturbed that i avoid them these days, but i know this will not solve my problem, fellow users,i need your help.

, a tiger does not proclaim its tigritude, why the issue of first class in matters of relationship, humble urself brother and ladies will flock to you,

wetin be una own sef?if e dey vex you say im get first class,den go get your own.

pls do not kill the poor guy.plsssssssssss

alarinka:

, a tiger does not proclaim its tigritude, why the issue of first class in matters of relationship, humble yourself brother and ladies will flock to you,

how could you say the guy is not humble, he is trying to say that he is educated and not some dude sitting on the street corner. Nigerians are all about the money-education so i think he was right to say what he said.
i bet if he did not mention his status some one would have said he needed to earn more money.

Toughen up; Girls will take advantage of u if u r submissive to all their whims, try taking some tough decisions about your relationships, take charge and be the man that u should be but also be firm when things become a bit shaky
Good Luck

i always suffer heartbreak too, but in my own case i only have a 5th class

On a seroius note my brova,why dont u ask those ladies why they leave you. its either ure not man enough or ure too much of an african man. U know those guys who give girls so much money and whatever they want but lack the simple skills that are required in a rltp.

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sweetlove,coco29,honey_pot,loverbwoy,whitelexi,walelead, u guys are great! your contributions are highly constructive.Those words are the binoculars i'm now using to examine myself.
@alarinka,honey_pot,walelead and about my academic feat,i think coco29 and Thoniaslim have spoken my mind, 1LOVE.
More Contribution From The House Pls.

@Topic, get over it, don't let it control you,
you're the one to control it yourself

yes when a man deceives u once shame on him when twice shame on you.can it work vice versa?

rubbish!

Honey_pot:

Why do pretty educated wives of some rich men fall for their drivers or gardeners who never had a high school education let alone making a third class?

LoverBwoy:

erm why don't you put the sign on your forehead

walelead:

i always suffer heartbreak too, but in my own case i only have a 5th class

Roflmfao

try relaxing when in relationships, dont be too pushy nor clingy!! gals dislike guyz dat way goodluck!

is this rhodalyn? 
_{thought u kpaied} 

whats dat mean?!?!?

LoverBwoy:

stop looking for marriage get girlfriends so you can learn about yourself and the kind of person you want

don't got into a relationship thinking it will lead to marriage, take everyday as it comes and stop being a bitch ass dummy
erm why don't you put the sign on your forehead

You were a lil harsh on him.

That's why I will never bring my problem here on NL. People are always there to talk to you harshly as if they know everything.

its call tough love 

but i gave him a good advice though maybe a lil harsh but he's a guy so you know he wont be too sensitive

if I offended you ollyruff please forgive me before the new year 
I prey the almighty give you a good wife that will appreciate you

edygirl sorry
3/4 agreement: dont take things personal

Tough love my yansh

that yansh wey de smell like that!

You are nasty superman.

Not personal at all but you were a lil harsh on him or maybe it's just me. I hate harsh advices. I don't listen to them.

me nasty na lie! na that smelly yansh de nasty abeg! na bacteria u carry there jore

I have no time for a toddler like you that goes around smelling people's yansh. I am sorry for the small girls that would be left in your care. Nasty boy.

so nasty that even prayer cant stop the ozzin a$$

maybe u shld stop lovin and just focus on ursef or face ur career.

stop chasing them and let them come chasing you.

@ ollyruff
i strongly suggest u kill yourself dude

kill himself?

men take it easy on him, why don't you give him a right suggestion and feel his pain.

ewww
thats gay
u should kill yourself too for that statement