Just curious, given you have an attractive lady who is willing to go down with you; What will stop you from doing it?

Nothing. See question ohh. Atheist don't hold premarital sex as bad. There's absolutely nothing wrong with it. If you're old and responsible enough.

juicydiceyjoe:
Just curious, given you have an attractive lady who is willing to go down with you; What will stop you from doing it?

I do not see anything wrong in premarital sex between two consenting adults [none is hurting anybody, it is enjoyable to both.]

I have only turned down such advances sorely on the ground that i choose not to do it at that point or with the woman in question.

Nothing stops an atheist from premarital sex except he chooses not to sorely because he does not want to and no other reason.

Why should anyone not engage in pre-marital sex?

Dumb people for their mind pre-marital sex na sin! Pls can u explain how its bad?

I might not for a variety of reasons (STD etc)

But I see nothing wrong in pre marital sex, so long we are both consenting adults and I didn't lie or cajole to get her consent

Majority of religious people also engage in it

juicydiceyjoe:
Just curious, given you have an attractive lady who is willing to go down with you; What will stop you from doing it?

HIV, STDs , Unwanted pregnancy etc are reasons

DeSepiero:


HIV, STDs , Unwanted pregnancy etc are reasons

Put on a condom... And go in..

sonofluc1fer:
Put on a condom... And go in..

Maybe either of the two parties hate condoms. By the way, condoms can fail o, hehe

DeSepiero:


Maybe either of the two parties hate condoms.
By the way, condoms can fail o, hehe

Something must kill a man.

sonofluc1fer:
Something must kill a man.

Lmao... Definitely!!!

who says?

DeSepiero:


HIV, STDs , Unwanted pregnancy etc are reasons

All those risks are still there when you marry.

Lennycool:
All those risks are still there when you marry.

Yes! but they're far lesser.

DeSepiero:


Maybe either of the two parties hate condoms.
By the way, condoms can fail o, hehe

A properly used condom, provides more than 98% protection. Anti retroviral drugs for HIV reduces the risk of infection by 96%. It can be taken by a non HIV infected person and still offer the same protection.
If you hate condoms then you can take contraceptives, or use spemicide for males.
Sex education is key to a happy sex life. Not total abstinence.

Lennycool:

A properly used condom, provides more than 98% protection. Anti retroviral drugs for HIV reduces the risk of infection by 96%. It can be taken by a non HIV infected person and still offer the same protection.
If you hate condoms then you can take contraceptives, or use spemicide for males.
Sex education is key to a happy sex life. Not total abstinence.

Thanks for the schooling bro!
But as a Bachelor, SEX LIFE is the least of my priorities anyway. I'd bother about that as a Married man.

DeSepiero:


Thanks for the schooling bro!
But as a Bachelor, SEX LIFE is the least of my priorities anyway. I'd bother about that as a Married man.

Sure

Your question should be why should an atheist not do anything he wants to do.?

Or does any human have the right to tell another human what not to do?

I think people should do anything at all they want to so with the few years they have on earth. Lets see where this leads.

It's not pre-marital if it doesn't lead to marriage- Robert Mugabe.

juicydiceyjoe:
Just curious, given you have an attractive lady who is willing to go down with you; What will stop you from doing it?

as for me i cant just bring out my long banana like that na, except she is my g.f or wife to be ,,

What is Pre-marital sex? What has marriage got to do with sex?

Sex is sex,and the only time sex "may" be avoided if the outcome(baby) is not prepared for or potential STD s.... Otherwise there is nothing wrong with Sex. If two people end up going into the man-made institution called Marriage,that's their choice. Whether they had sex before or after is no big deal.

Thanks guys for the response.. moving away from your previously held childhood beliefs is a slow and difficult one

juicydiceyjoe:
Thanks guys for the response.. moving away from your previously held childhood beliefs is a slow and difficult one

Yeah it is. But what's the aim of these your questions

Lennycool:

Yeah it is. But what's the aim of these your questions

Trying to define my morality.

juicydiceyjoe:


Trying to define my morality.

Are you an atheist?

Lennycool:

Are you an atheist?

I don't like labels; this is my view though..

We don't know the cause/start of the universe...

This cause could be anything; a magical platypus defecating universes without it knowing..

Or maybe a single creator, we don't possibly know.

But the problem is many have gone with the second option and did not just stop there but went on to describe this creator, giving it names, stories and things it demands of us.

This I do not go with, cause there is no proof to it and on careful observation, it is obvious it is all made up by man.

So you can say am somewhat Agnostic, Deist, Atheist, non-religious, whatever..

juicydiceyjoe:


I don't like labels; this is my view though..

We don't know the cause/start of the universe...

This cause could be anything; a magical platypus defecating universes without it knowing..

Or maybe a single creator, we don't possibly know.

But the problem is many have gone with the second option and did not just stop there but went on to describe this creator, giving it names, stories and things it demands of us.

This I do not go with, cause there is no proof to it and on careful observation, it is obvious it is all made up by man.

So you can say am somewhat Agnostic, Deist, Atheist, non-religious, whatever..

Exactly my man . Just because we don't know what started life as we know it, doesn't mean we should create an imaginary being. Because that would be misleading. Religion is a scam.