NovusHomo:


MOTHERS-in-law.
DAUGHTERS-in-law.

HomeOfMe:
Yes mothers are very protective of their sons;just like mother hen. But I'm lucky to have a very good and understanding mother-in-law. When I had a delay getting pregnant,five years after I had a set of twin boys,she was even more supportive than my own mother despite that I'm not even a yoruba by origin. It got to a point my husband became jealous of my closeness with his mom. I'm one of the few lucky ones I guess.

Benita27:
Very insightful.

NevetsIbot:
nah.. Can't tell ya... It isn't wise.. I feel my wife is on this forum.. She could be watching

fabulousdora:
Not all my ex's mother is an awesome woman

veave:
We just got a wife recently and i must confess, some ladies do not know how to behave. I actually learnt alot. And I'll try not to make same mistakes she made. Thank God mumcy is a proper child. of God, else. Hmmmmm.

iamloyalty:
Forget all this motherinlaw showing themselves if them see real kasala dem go hide. Any wife way dull himself na sabi.

Benita27:
You mean you met all your boyfriends mothers?.

pocohantas:


Think well, you don't know any of your uncle's wife that doesn't know how to cook?
This issue is way past being modern or not knowing how to cook.

Benita27:
Are all of you marring the woman?, and base on what you said is like you all are in a family house.
Hmm!.

veave:


the person that married her is my immediate elder brother

Pidggin:


So this makes her your wife?

veave:




Yes my love. I promise to treat her right just as i would want to be treated too

Pidggin:


Sorry dear, she is not your wife. She is married to your brother not you. You are her sis-in-law not her husband

veave:


she's my wife... its my responsibility to take care of her if my brother if my brother is not around

Pidggin:


Is this a joke? She is not married to you, it's not your responsibility to take care of her, don't interfere in their marriage except you are invited to

You need to find yourself a husband and kids also get a job dear all these things will occupy your time. Leave your brother and his wife to live their lives, make their mistakes, learn from them and grow. I hope your sister-in-law knows the type of family she got married into sometimes people need to consider things like this abnormalities before thinking of love, smh

Pidggin:


Is this a joke? She is not married to you, it's not your responsibility to take care of her, don't interfere in their marriage except you are invited to

You need to find yourself a husband and kids also get a job dear all these things will occupy your time. Leave your brother and his wife to live their lives, make their mistakes, learn from them and grow. I hope your sister-in-law knows the type of family she got married into sometimes people need to consider things like this abnormalities before thinking of love, smh

Benita27:
I noticed 80% of our Nigerian mother in-laws threat their daughter in-laws badly unlike their foreign counterparts, and this trend is so common,once a man says he wants to take you to see his parents instead of excitement a certain fear creeps in.
personally i'm not scared of meeting the man's father because i assume father's trust their sons to have made the right choices, but for the mothers is not usually the same, was able to ask someone if she felt same and she confessed feeling worse.
Why are our Nigerian mother in-laws so mean?.
Need your contributions, and Ladies how do you feel when getting to meet them?.

Cc: Aderola15.
Talk2Bella.
IamNawty.
Laveda.

ItsQuinn:
Not all mother-in-laws though

IamJix:

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I beg reforcast the games.
Good.morning.

raumdeuter:


I have a friend whose mother didnt attend his wedding because she did not approve of the girl he is getting married to

Among these people they have segregation based on religious beliefs, your family's financial background, social beliefs, what part of the country you are from, what level of education.

davidif:

Are they from Asia?

Benita27:
I noticed 80% of our Nigerian mother in-laws threat their daughter in-laws badly unlike their foreign counterparts, and this trend is so common,once a man says he wants to take you to see his parents instead of excitement a certain fear creeps in.
personally i'm not scared of meeting the man's father because i assume father's trust their sons to have made the right choices, but for the mothers is not usually the same, was able to ask someone if she felt same and she confessed feeling worse.
Why are our Nigerian mother in-laws so mean?.
Need your contributions, and Ladies how do you feel when getting to meet them?.

5minsmadness:


2 examples,
My cousin and my friend.

My cousin: Nice family, generous family, it was only when the boy declared his love for her we found out his mom was a fierce racist! They could be boyfriend and girlfriend as long as he didnt bring the black girl home to the family. I guess in a way it doesnt count cos the y finally didnt get married cos of her. Later heard the boy brought home and irish chic and the mom brought the house down in a rage. The guy is still single.

My friend. Married the boy. Caucasian mother in law moved in for two weeks. She saw hell. The woman was unbearable and unappeasable, kept on making condescendin remarks about how no girl was good enough for her Ronald... Only ate when thr guy was around... Made a statement once that suggested she was trying to poison her by putting something in her coffee...complained about the kitchen, complained about everything... Then asked to stay another two weeks to take good care of her son. My friend was a nervous wreck before the woman left. And this was in the UK o, not naija.

veave:



madam... calm down... no body is interfering with anything... SHE IS MY WIFE!!!! i do not know why it is making you worked up... and why for heaven's sake are you trying to add hand and leg to what we are talking about? on the bolded... she didn't know when she was coming in, so she came with fight... and when she realized no one had horns she decided to adjust... on her own. i see you already have a paranoid mindset about every grooms family... please change it... and like i said earlier.... i would treat her right... same way i would want to be treated when i get married...
i have a job sweetheart... @husband and kids.... errrmmmmm.... when i'm ready

frrank:


Hahahaha... This your comment ehen. I agree with you. Take care of your wife. Hope you transfer the care to your husband & children soon.

Benita27:
Are all of you marring the woman?, and base on what you said is like you all are in a family house.
Hmm!.