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Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by Nobody: 5:22pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
NevetsIbot:Lol. Hope your future wife can breath fresh air when she moves in?. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by NevetsIbot(m): 5:52pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
Benita27:Lol. You think I'll let mum pressurize my wife? Never. As long as she can cook pounded yam)ugwu,egusi soup... I won't let mom do nothing to her. 6 Likes |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by Nobody: 5:56pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
NevetsIbot:And if she can't cook pounded yam, plz teach her or send her to a catering school. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by steppin: 6:00pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
Benita27:Catering school indeed! What was she doing at home while growing up? Watching Nollywood movies? 10 Likes |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by Nobody: 6:02pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
steppin:How many Nigerian dishes can you cook?. no one is a monopoly of knowledge in any field, we learn every day. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by NevetsIbot(m): 6:15pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
Benita27:The meal is actually easy to cook na. The only strenous part might be pounding... And I'll happily do that for the food . If she can't cook, I won't marry her na. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by Nobody: 6:20pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
NevetsIbot:Who has the strength to pound yam?. Good luck as you search. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by NevetsIbot(m): 6:41pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
Benita27:So, you mean to say If your husband loved punded yam... You'll not prepare it?...... Modernization will not finish us o 5 Likes |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by steppin: 7:12pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
Benita27:You'd be surprised. I can cook well and a lot of them...if my future wife can't cook, how does she intend to get to my heart? 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by Nobody: 7:37pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
steppin:Steppin, JUJU dey na 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by Nobody: 7:38pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
steppin:There are other ways to get to your heart o!, it's not all about food. But if you insist it won't be a bad idea sending her to a catering school as a loving husband. What do you think?. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by Nobody: 7:40pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
NevetsIbot:If I know how to prepare it then no problem, it's once in a while meal. If i don't there are substitutes. |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by NevetsIbot(m): 7:42pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
Benita27:Substitutes like flour pounded yam.. Lazy lazy lazy girl!!!!! 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by Nobody: 7:45pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
NevetsIbot:Lol. |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by Nobody: 7:50pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
Op, the fear of your mother in law is the beginning of wisdom. They can finish your marriage before it starts if you ain't careful. They will make you do the unthinkable when you can no longer take their shits, that in turn makes you the bad person to outsiders. My prayer is for my mother in-law to see me as her own daughter instead of a rival biko 11 Likes |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by steppin: 7:56pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
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Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by steppin: 7:59pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
Benita27:I don't know about other guys, but the quickest way to my heart is good food. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by Nobody: 8:01pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
Benita27: Mothers in law have a reputation around the world, trust me. I think that you are scared and many others because you don't believe in yourself and that you can handle whatever situation occurs. I guess, you are still very young. Am I right? Mothers in law are human just like you and they have either a pleasant personality or they don't so hope for the best instead of expecting the worst and show that you treat her son right. Most mothers want to see their children happy. Drop that insecurity, it will make her suspicious. Be humble and yet self-confident. Know how to behave politely and always ask yourself how you would want your brother's woman to treat your mother and let that be your guidance. You can enjoy extending your family or you can make a problem out of it. The choice is yours. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by Nobody: 8:19pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
Mindfulness:Nice one. But i'm not insecure, just asked something that's a concern to me. |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by Nobody: 8:23pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
Aderola15:Lol twinnie. |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by Nobody: 8:30pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
Benita27: I am not saying you are insecure in general but you feel insecure about the situation and it's normal because it's a new situation and an important meeting and because you heard all these stories about wicked mothers in law. Drop that fear. You may have the best mother in law in the world. Who knows? And remember that your mother is or will be a mother in law too. Does it make her wicked or unbearable? |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by Nobody: 8:33pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
Mindfulness:Can't tell if she'll be because she's not yet. Thanks for your contribution. |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by Nobody: 8:34pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
What's your SOURCE......? How did u arrive at this....? Are u related to LAI MOHAMMED.....? |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by Nobody: 8:35pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
Benita27: I wish for you to have the most gentle and most warm-hearted and well-wishing mother in law who you will learn to love like a second mother. |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by Nobody: 8:36pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
Mindfulness:I wish to have that more than you can imagine. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by Nobody: 8:37pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
Benita27: Just believe that you will. Nothing is stronger than faith. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by Nobody: 8:37pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
EVILFOREST:So am i lying?, or you mean to say we don't have mean mother in-laws?. |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by Ugosample(m): 1:25am On Oct 05, 2016 |
raumdeuter: It is more of an African /SEA countries problem than say Europe/America IMO because The former are more particular about extended family stuff than say in Europe, where family members are more individualistic/mind their business. This is my observation tho, because my cousins in Germany hardly get involved in each other's lives, and their mother is living with their dad (my uncle) in the countryside most of the time, and is not inclined to visit all the time, as opposed to Naija MIL that will always find opportunity to visit/breeze in/get involved in the son's life. The more individualistic a society is, the less likely in laws (Not just mil) get involved/cause friction in the family. hope you understand my point? ? 5 Likes |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by cococandy(f): 3:27am On Oct 05, 2016 |
That sounds like someone who's emotionally unhealthy ammyluv2002: 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by motherfucker: 5:47am On Oct 05, 2016 |
Benita27:Mothers are very protective of their son. You wouldn't understand until you have raised one for 27+ years and a lady comes in one day to take away what she has laboured for. The mother would always feel no one can take care of her child like her. What most DIL should do is assure MIL that her son is in safe hands. It's that simple but most of you would rather compete with her or take her head on, which often backfire 7 Likes |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by Acidosis(m): 6:42am On Oct 05, 2016 |
For as long as wives continue to love their sons more than their husbands, MIL troubles will never stop. It is very easy to identify the future troublesome MILs. 7 Likes |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by Nobody: 7:07am On Oct 05, 2016 |
Acidosis:I am not sure of the bolded, because is not usually written on their forehead. 1 Like 1 Share |
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