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Re: Why Are You Still Single? by Nobody: 7:54am On Jan 13, 2017
Haven't really given it a thought... shocked
Re: Why Are You Still Single? by Johnsown1(m): 10:47am On Jan 13, 2017
Nma27:
Haven't really given it a thought... shocked
U better do
Re: Why Are You Still Single? by Nobody: 8:16pm On Jan 13, 2017
Johnsown1:

U better do
OK
Re: Why Are You Still Single? by COdeGenesis: 10:18pm On Jan 13, 2017
udysweet:
And so after stating the reason(s) will you hook me up with the one who will make me ask question where he has been all this while? grin
Key among other things is,compatibility issues
Ifa hear say you no geh bf
Re: Why Are You Still Single? by Johnsown1(m): 10:47pm On Jan 13, 2017
Nma27:
OK
Good
Re: Why Are You Still Single? by bimbod(m): 12:52am On Jan 14, 2017
I don't know why..I just don't think am ready to be in a relationship now..or maybe its laziness dat Is doin me
Re: Why Are You Still Single? by bimbod(m): 12:53am On Jan 14, 2017
Nma27:
Haven't really given it a thought... shocked
hmm dis gel..u av join gang
Re: Why Are You Still Single? by Nobody: 4:20am On Jan 14, 2017
bimbod:

hmm dis gel..u av join gang
Gang? shocked
Re: Why Are You Still Single? by shegxi(m): 8:58am On Jan 16, 2017
dahmine:
Nobody gets me. angry
I'm just an irrefutable weirdo.
good morning irrefutable weirdo wink grin what does that even mean?
Re: Why Are You Still Single? by dahmine(f): 10:39pm On Jan 16, 2017
shegxi:
good morning irrefutable weirdo wink grin what does that even mean?
I apologize for the late response.
lol, google it naa. good evening, how was your day?
Re: Why Are You Still Single? by dahmine(f): 10:41pm On Jan 16, 2017
shegxi:
good morning irrefutable weirdo wink grin what does that even mean?
I apologize for the late response.
lol, google it now. good evening, how was your day?
Re: Why Are You Still Single? by yunnyp(m): 11:44pm On Jan 16, 2017
Date? Even marriage, I'm still doubting it...
I prefer having children than married.
Re: Why Are You Still Single? by Valsolo(m): 1:55pm On Jan 17, 2017
making my doll $$$ 1st... when am done, I'll become plural by default...
Re: Why Are You Still Single? by raydatluvs(m): 2:09pm On Jan 17, 2017
cutiem:
I guess am just scared of getting to love someone and eventually breaking up after spending so much time together.. I just want to b wit d one meant for me instead of all dis heartache
understandable, only you wouldn't know the one meant for you if you don't try. Abi dem dey write am for face?
Re: Why Are You Still Single? by shegxi(m): 2:52pm On Jan 17, 2017
dahmine:

I apologize for the late response.
lol, google it now. good evening, how was your day?
lol.....how strange can u be? what are some of ur weird behaviour.
yesterday was super hectic, today has bn kind enough. how are u too?
Re: Why Are You Still Single? by Johnsown1(m): 2:53pm On Jan 17, 2017
Raina80:
I frighten men.
Are u too pretty or too ugly.
Re: Why Are You Still Single? by Johnsown1(m): 3:42pm On Jan 17, 2017
1. If you are SINGLE and keep on saying "I DON'T TRUST MEN OR WOMEN!" Remember your mates are getting married every Saturday. Let me ask you, are they marrying spirits? Wise up!

2. If you are MARRIED and keep saying "I HATE THIS MARRIAGE!" OK! Is it not married people like you that are celebrating Gold, Silver and even Platinum jubilee?

3. If you keep on ranting, ''I'M LEAVING MY MAN, HE CHEATED ON ME!" Please, go to town and see all the fine, cute, sexy, hot, hungry and desperate chicks waiting to snatch your man's money and property, they don't even mind sharing. Make it work, my friend!

4. Stop saying "I HATE MY JOB!" Look! 20 million people are jobless and can't even find any not to talk of keeping it! Do you want to join them?

5. You keep saying "I HATE WHERE I LIVE!" Oh please! tears Try visiting those locations that are flooding now, people leaving in tin/zinc shacks in winter or people living/sleeping under the bridge at night and you will be grateful to God that you even have a place to stay!

6. Some say "I AM TIRED OF THIS LIFE!" Well, go to the hospital and see people fighting for their lives! Go to the mortuary and take a look then tell me what you feel after that! The point is, be positive and believe in God, that's all that matters. Be Blessed.

CHERISH EVERY MOMENT OF YOUR LIFE: To realize the value of a sister/brother ask someone Who doesn't have one.

To realize the value of togetherness: Ask a newly divorced couple.

To realize the value of four years: Ask a graduate.

To realize the value of one year: Ask a student who Has failed a final exam.

To realize the value of nine months: Ask a mother who gave birth to a stillborn.

To realize the value of one month: Ask a mother Who has given birth to a premature baby.

To realize the value of one week: Ask an editor of a weekly newspaper.

To realize the value of one minute: Ask a person Who has missed the train, bus or plane.

To realize the value of one second: Ask a person Who has survived an accident.

Time waits for no one. Treasure every moment you have.

To realize the value of parents ask orphans who lost his parents a day after his birth.

To realize the value of a friend or family member: LOSE ONE.

Remember. Hold on tight to the ones you love! And don't forget the one who sent it to you!

I HOPE EVERYBODY WILL REFLECT ON THIS.

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Re: Why Are You Still Single? by dahmine(f): 4:03pm On Jan 17, 2017
shegxi:
lol.....how strange can u be? what are some of ur weird behaviour.
yesterday was super hectic, today has bn kind enough. how are u too?
I ain't supposed to spread my dirty linen in public . I refuse to accept I'm weird though, in fact only weak minded people tag me weird or stubborn. All good, I'm good and thy day is also on the same boat.
Re: Why Are You Still Single? by shegxi(m): 5:55pm On Jan 17, 2017
dahmine:

I ain't supposed to spread my dirty linen in public . I refuse to accept I'm weird though, in fact only weak minded people tag me weird or stubborn. All good, I'm good and thy day is also on the same boat.
Lol...... the things that make u weird doesn't necessarily have to be bad things joor, and besides nothing is absolutely bad, u know that. come and share in private den.
Re: Why Are You Still Single? by chiwetel(f): 11:27pm On Jan 17, 2017
Being single is kind of like a therapy, it helps you improve on yourself to be a better individual and somewhat prepare yourself to deserve the kind of person you ask for. We can keep going on and on about how it's stressful to keep relationships and all,how gals are hoes and guys aasholes none of these talks would change the fact that love is indeed the greatest gift of all and you haven't really lived until you experience it.We all yearn for it,we deserve it..let's stop thinking too much and give it a try.

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Re: Why Are You Still Single? by DanielGb(m): 10:34am On Jan 31, 2017
chiwetel:
Being single is kind of like a therapy, it helps you improve on yourself to be a better individual and somewhat prepare yourself to deserve the kind of person you ask for. We can keep going on and on about how it's stressful to keep relationships and all,how gals are hoes and guys aasholes none of these talks would change the fact that love is indeed the greatest gift of all and you haven't really lived until you experience it.We all yearn for it,we deserve it..let's stop thinking too much and give it a try.
Tell them. They need to stop complaining. and learn to move on.
Re: Why Are You Still Single? by Nobody: 4:48pm On Jan 31, 2017
Being single far more better Than getting angry because he didn't pick ur calls Didn't reply your text messages That's rubbish

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Re: Why Are You Still Single? by Nobody: 12:20am On Mar 17, 2017
Ihave someone for you?
3thelicioux:
M yet to find sum1 worth keepin
Re: Why Are You Still Single? by rjek: 6:54am On Apr 03, 2017
rittyray:
Being single far more better
Than getting angry because he didn't pick ur calls
Didn't reply your text messages
That's rubbish
Hmmmm, u will find it hard to date den......
Re: Why Are You Still Single? by dingbang(m): 1:49pm On Apr 10, 2017
3thelicioux:
M yet to find sum1 worth keepin
hey watsup smiley
Re: Why Are You Still Single? by stancydg: 3:45pm On Apr 10, 2017
There are issues that require sorting out for relationships to thrive, like this
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DFLRZKhd4iQ
Re: Why Are You Still Single? by Nobody: 12:41pm On Oct 29, 2017
I just had to comment in this.

I never intended to be single ,no,not at this age but well, a lot of factor contributed to it.

1. I was dumped actually from a relationship that was close to a decade. Why? I can't really pinpoint exactly but majorly I felt I was played,I was kinda naive.

2. I have trust issues so I find commitment very hard. Obviously, due to past experiences.

3. I find it hard to ask ladies out and to complicate matters,am more of an introvert except on my yipee days.

4. Lastly, the few ladies I have around me are not my specs so i just let them be friends so as not to break anyone's heart.

To be sincere actually, its quite relieving to be single sometimes especially for someone who has been with a nagging, pretentious and demanding partner. However,the truth is that we all need someone at one time or the other.

As much as I hate being single, i never pray to experience the bad side I hear and experience before . am just hopeful I'll meet someone who'll let me heart beat for love again.

@Talk2bella, any advice for me?

3.

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Re: Why Are You Still Single? by HermajestyQ(f): 1:08pm On Oct 29, 2017
Perspectives:
I just had to comment in this.

I never intended to be single ,no,not at this age but well, a lot of factor contributed to it.

1. I was dumped actually from a relationship that was close to a decade. Why? I can't really pinpoint exactly but majorly I felt I was played,I was kinda naive.

2. I have trust issues so I find commitment very hard. Obviously, due to past experiences.

3. I find it hard to ask ladies out and to complicate matters,am more of an introvert except on my yipee days.

4. Lastly, the few ladies I have around me are not my specs so i just let them be friends so as not to break anyone's heart.

To be sincere actually, its quite relieving to be single sometimes especially for someone who has been with a nagging, pretentious and demanding partner. However,the truth is that we all need someone at one time or the other.

As much as I hate being single, i never pray to experience the bad side I hear and experience before . am just hopeful I'll meet someone who'll let me heart beat for love again.

@Talk2bella, any advice for me?

3.
I can totally relate with your post. Your past r/ships didn't work out because they were never meant to be in the first place. Dont even think of embracing single life so that loneliness won't make you depressed Just open your heart and love will come.
Re: Why Are You Still Single? by Nobody: 1:50pm On Oct 29, 2017
HermajestyQ:
I can totally relate with your post. Your past r/ships didn't work out because they were never meant to be in the first place. Dont even think of embracing single life so that loneliness won't make you depressed Just open your heart and love will come.

My heart is opened actually. I did shut it out for a while but right now am willing to test the waters.

Are you available?
Re: Why Are You Still Single? by Talk2Bella(f): 2:00pm On Oct 29, 2017
HermajestyQ:
I can totally relate with your post. Your past r/ships didn't work out because they were never meant to be in the first place. Dont even think of embracing single life so that loneliness won't make you depressed Just open your heart and love will come.

what are your specs?
Re: Why Are You Still Single? by HermajestyQ(f): 2:27pm On Oct 29, 2017
Talk2Bella:


what are your specs?
. Christian and handsome working class Yoruba man between the ages of 30-34 years.
Re: Why Are You Still Single? by HermajestyQ(f): 2:27pm On Oct 29, 2017
Perspectives:


My heart is opened actually. I did shut it out for a while but right now am willing to test the waters.

Are you available?
Yes

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