Breaking up is hard to do, but let's be real, most often, it's for the best.


I highlighted what I thought are the best things about breaking up with someone



1. Saving those Naira bills. I remember getting my first salaary after my last breakup and realizing how much money I had because I wasn't spending it all on lunches and dinners not forgetting expensive gifts. I would rather take myself out for a treat and still have money left over!!!



2. Good riddance to bad rubbish. If it's not a match, it's hard but it's also good to move on. Being free of a relationship that clearly wasn't beneficial to you and focusing on yourself is very key.


3. Learning to love yourself again. I'm two weeks out of a six-year relationship and my sense of self has improved so much. Now that the shock is over I'm starting to love myself again for the first time in a very long time.


4. Finding yourself again. The moment you realize you are a complete person on your own is one of the greatest feelings ever. Understanding that you are an awesome person who people love and will love and that people still find you amazing even though your ex berated you and called you ugly and gave you side eyes whenever you felt good looking is a sigh of relief.



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