yinkslinks:
woman how can u suffer when i make you happy in my Other Room

darkenedrebel:


Sometimes harsh words could be the only means in driving home the point.

People are hardly gung ho in coming to their stepfather's defense, though. You too get along well?

elfmann:

They will either run away from the thread or say that is how it is supposed to be. Hahahaha

Fingerprinter:
My parents are working class. My father used to earn more than my mother. He used to be the one taking responsibility for everything in the house; school fees and the rest. After sometime, my mother got a pay rise and she started earning more than my father. My father was still performing all his responsibilities despite the fact that my mother now earns more than him. My mother just helps out in one or two things in the house and there is peace everywhere.
Be like my parents!

freshvine:
If your mom is not extravagant, I don't see the reason why her husband should be demanding for her salary.

My suggestion is that she should come out clean and tell him how much she earns and if possible surrender her next salary to him to watch his reactions.

Men are known to display inferiority complex when broke by acting irrational. He just need the assurance from his wife that with or without his money, he's still in charge of the home.

Advice your mom to massage his ego a little and study him to avoid matrimonial conflict that could be blown out of proportion

prettythicksme:
Who bust who? i just feel like changing to m.

HungerBAD:
Interesting.

It is important to note that every family is different,and so one can not authoritatively say this is how it should be.

There are husbands that beat their wives up,others don't. There are husbands that cook at home,and others will not go near the kitchen,and there are husbands that will demand to know how much their wives earn and others won't.

The truth is,if a man is doing well in life,he will be less concerned with what the woman makes,even if she is the President of a Nation.

Gracious10:
Umu Nwanyi atago afufu,

So everyday, men come up with one rule after another so they can continue to marginalize and reduce us to nothing.

I guess women are zombies that have to be controlled by men, they should also tell us when to breath.

God is watch all of you in 3D.

Gerrard59:


So because they are practicing it, we should? Apart from the first nation, how many Nigerians will visit those hell holes?

How about we aspire to Finland, Norway, Sweden, Germany etc ?.


My country people and their lowering of standards

Amelian:
tender your salary to your husband and suffer for life.
My late aunt gave all her salary to her husband every month for 4years, she is always broke and eventually he married a second wife into the same house. She saw fire and pepper coupled together in her home..she end up dying of heart attack.. Smmmhhh.

May her soul rest in peace but
God forbid I will be so dumb to give my husband all my money every month... For what nah?
Such men should not see me in their entire life.. I should become invisible in their eyes amen.

ItsQuinn:
There's love in sharing .....although I disagree in the terms that; my partner get to know the truth of my earnings because it can lead to some disadvantages like my partner avoiding most of his responsibilities, both of us having one account is a no no, him deciding what and what not to do with my money ( I earned and work hard for that money, it's my money so I get to decide not him), and lastly; Nothing will ever make me to surrender my whole salary to my partner when I'm still in my right state of mind, only slaves do that

HungerBAD:
Interesting.

It is important to note that every family is different,and so one can not authoritatively say this is how it should be.

There are husbands that beat their wives up,others don't. There are husbands that cook at home,and others will not go near the kitchen,and there are husbands that will demand to know how much their wives earn and others won't.

The truth is,if a man is doing well in life,he will be less concerned with what the woman makes,even if she is the President of a Nation.

MrBLING:


Well you are the one who stated Nigeria is the worst place to be a girl child.
I know people can sometimes exaggerate issues just to make a point. You don't seem to be an exception based on your earlier post.
For the young lady and women Nigeria is Disneyland we're these Muslim dominated countries are!

carmag:


are you questioning God that made man to be the head

Talk2Bella:


Well laid point, there are different definitions of feminism

excellent2013:
Yes
Yes
Yes
Yes
Yes if she want to tender it.
Women sha! If there is no problem they must invent one.
Moreover any body that did not call me there when they were making agreement to become husband and wife should not disturb me with their problems.
If a woman have decided to marry, she should be ready to share more things than in the" other room".
Men and women should understand the meaning of love.
When there is mutual understanding, things will move on smoothly.
To the unmarried, iron out your finances so that you will not get married and be asking may be you should tender your salary or not.
Little things can cause big problems in marriage if not properly ironed out at the initial stage.