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The One Things You Should Know About Yourself by Newbeginnings(m): 1:05pm On Oct 25, 2016
UNDERSTANDING YOU

Good day, how are you all,

sure you might be at work, or at your own office (entrepreneurs) or at wherever you choose to be, but wherever you are we have to talk about something we all need to understand and clear out..

We are talking about you and your purpose...

Some of us have already set standards for ourselves, that this is who we are, what we can do and what we can't do, how we choose to behave and represent ourselves, although sometimes we can fail miserably and act differently due to overwhelming situations we claim are out of our control, when we are just weak inwardly in real truth.

The real deal is that many of us are just acting naturally... (passives)

Which is one of the reason why we will want to solve only our own problems first and still say I give to the poor when I have....

Which is why we believe we have to do things only for ourselves first, before we can get to a higher point.. when we can just sit and solve a problem for someone and get serious cash for it..

Which is why we believe that if we believe in something we can make it.

Reacting naturally to things is not bad, but if you check out the great people of today, they didn't just react naturally, they went further, dug deeper, they did research...

Whenever they react to something, they try to understand why they reacted and this understanding creates who they are, rather than those who just say that is just me and that is how I behave

Why do you sleep at 12:00 in the night and wake by 4:00am when as an adult you are supposed to be having 6 hours of sleep at least.. you might say that is just who you are, that you are a light sleeper... Think deeper, why don't you sleep six hours and get a clearer head, why don't I sleep six hours so that I can think better and eat better..

This week, you are planning to go to work, or by Gods grace let something big come your way... you say.

Think deeper...

Why don't you sit down and create something big.... then allow God to make it bigger....

You might be thinking of how you will feed today, and you are just hungry you can't even think of others (children in somalia) feeling so hungry... You as an adult can bear that hunger, sit down and draft an idea to make you never hungry again and also this idea can feed half of Africa ... Think deeper

It is not about solving the problems we see right now... It is about solving the ones that cause the problems..

Right now you might be praying to God that if you get a 500,000 job in shell that you will serve him forever that you will be able to feed and cloth... Why don't you pray to God to give you a billion dollar idea .. so that you will be able to give other people job so that they will be able to feed, so that they will be able to live... Just because you existed...

You say you have a big idea, a passion for this or that and then you want to send it into the market...

Wait!

Because you love the idea, because you have passion for it, doesn't mean it will sell, doesn't mean I will like it, because I am different from you, in order words you have to make the product to make sense to me for me to buy it.

It is not because it makes so much sense to you. I mean you think it can't fail that is why It will sell.. Nope... It must solve one of my problems and a less laborious rate than the ones I have or you are a dreamer..

Think deeper...

All this we can do if we stop being us... and we start thinking deeper, starting reacting to things because we know them and how they work and not because I said so or because that is how you felt or because that is your mood.... if we stop thinking about ourselves alone and about everyone...

It is just like business

You want to be rich right.... you don't want to suffer, so rather than thinking of solving your own problems alone ....you can do this, create a product which over 1 billion people in Africa will have to subscribe to for $10 a month, that is $10 billion in one month...

This way you just made yourself rich by solving others problems... in other words you solved millions of peoples problems and they gave you their money as a thank you..

Is that not better than sitting in an office for shell...

Is that not better than running a boutique or hair saloon when we have over 10 shops in every 20 minutes walk...

Think deeper...

Stop looking a problem or question and giving your immediate opinion....

Look at a problem, and ask yourself, how did this problem come about... what is the problem based on... What are the 100 solutions I have

Look at the question, and ask yourself, how is the person who is asking this question feel, what led her here, negligence, what is she trying to solve

Thinking deeper not only makes you more intelligent... But it makes you worth more than gold...

You are not just flesh and blood, who eats, drinks, sleeps... you are a bulk of intelligence, who eats, drinks, sleeps... So use it

Stay Healthy, Stay Wise

Remember to follow me so that I may share more... and I will always follow you back...

I will be sharing another article in a jippy.

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Re: The One Things You Should Know About Yourself by Lavedaa: 1:07pm On Oct 25, 2016
I didn't read, I'm just trying to wrap my head around another person telling me about 'my own self' sad
Re: The One Things You Should Know About Yourself by Newbeginnings(m): 1:10pm On Oct 25, 2016
Lavedaa:
I didn't read, I'm just trying to wrap my head around another person telling me about 'my own self' sad

You told me you will stop reading my threads... Why haven't you stopped... I am not the most handsome guy in the world... Please leave my threads alone....

But if you think there is something up there that will move the mountains in your life then read and comment about what you read...

Stay Healthy, Stay Wise
Re: The One Things You Should Know About Yourself by ghettowriter(m): 1:14pm On Oct 25, 2016
Those are some nice word of advice right there.


We are solely responsible for our fate in life.
Re: The One Things You Should Know About Yourself by Newbeginnings(m): 1:19pm On Oct 25, 2016
ghettowriter:
Those are some nice word of advice right there.



We are solely responsible for our fate in life.

Yes we are....

If you loved what you read above you can just follow me for more... Don't worry I will always follow back
Re: The One Things You Should Know About Yourself by Olasco93: 3:19pm On Oct 25, 2016
Newbeginnings:
UNDERSTANDING YOU


Think deeper...

Why don't you sit down and create something big.... then allow God to make it bigger....

This is insightful. Am inspired!
Re: The One Things You Should Know About Yourself by Newbeginnings(m): 3:25pm On Oct 25, 2016
Olasco93:

This is insightful. Am inspired!

Of course... Remember to tell a friend.. we all need to be more than who are just are

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Re: The One Things You Should Know About Yourself by TheRealestGuy(m): 5:53pm On Oct 25, 2016
Newbeginnings:
UNDERSTANDING YOU

Good day, how are you all,

sure you might be at work, or at your own office (entrepreneurs) or at wherever you choose to be, but wherever you are we have to talk about something we all need to understand and clear out..

We are talking about you and your purpose...

Some of us have already set standards for ourselves, that this is who we are, what we can do and what we can't do, how we choose to behave and represent ourselves, although sometimes we can fail miserably and act differently due to overwhelming situations we claim are out of our control, when we are just weak inwardly in real truth.

The real deal is that many of us are just acting naturally... (passives)

Which is one of the reason why we will want to solve only our own problems first and still say I give to the poor when I have....

Which is why we believe we have to do things only for ourselves first, before we can get to a higher point.. when we can just sit and solve a problem for someone and get serious cash for it..

Which is why we believe that if we believe in something we can make it.

Reacting naturally to things is not bad, but if you check out the great people of today, they didn't just react naturally, they went further, dug deeper, they did research...

Whenever they react to something, they try to understand why they reacted and this understanding creates who they are, rather than those who just say that is just me and that is how I behave

Why do you sleep at 12:00 in the night and wake by 4:00am when as an adult you are supposed to be having 6 hours of sleep at least.. you might say that is just who you are, that you are a light sleeper... Think deeper, why don't you sleep six hours and get a clearer head, why don't I sleep six hours so that I can think better and eat better..

This week, you are planning to go to work, or by Gods grace let something big come your way... you say.

Think deeper...

Why don't you sit down and create something big.... then allow God to make it bigger....

You might be thinking of how you will feed today, and you are just hungry you can't even think of others (children in somalia) feeling so hungry... You as an adult can bear that hunger, sit down and draft an idea to make you never hungry again and also this idea can feed half of Africa ... Think deeper

It is not about solving the problems we see right now... It is about solving the ones that cause the problems..

Right now you might be praying to God that if you get a 500,000 job in shell that you will serve him forever that you will be able to feed and cloth... Why don't you pray to God to give you a billion dollar idea .. so that you will be able to give other people job so that they will be able to feed, so that they will be able to live... Just because you existed...

You say you have a big idea, a passion for this or that and then you want to send it into the market...

Wait!

Because you love the idea, because you have passion for it, doesn't mean it will sell, doesn't mean I will like it, because I am different from you, in order words you have to make the product to make sense to me for me to buy it.

It is not because it makes so much sense to you. I mean you think it can't fail that is why It will sell.. Nope... It must solve one of my problems and a less laborious rate than the ones I have or you are a dreamer..

Think deeper...

All this we can do if we stop being us... and we start thinking deeper, starting reacting to things because we know them and how they work and not because I said so or because that is how you felt or because that is your mood.... if we stop thinking about ourselves alone and about everyone...

It is just like business

You want to be rich right.... you don't want to suffer, so rather than thinking of solving your own problems alone ....you can do this, create a product which over 1 billion people in Africa will have to subscribe to for $10 a month, that is $10 billion in one month...

This way you just made yourself rich by solving others problems... in other words you solved millions of peoples problems and they gave you their money as a thank you..

Is that not better than sitting in an office for shell...

Is that not better than running a boutique or hair saloon when we have over 10 shops in every 20 minutes walk...

Think deeper...

Stop looking a problem or question and giving your immediate opinion....

Look at a problem, and ask yourself, how did this problem come about... what is the problem based on... What are the 100 solutions I have

Look at the question, and ask yourself, how is the person who is asking this question feel, what led her here, negligence, what is she trying to solve

Thinking deeper not only makes you more intelligent... But it makes you worth more than gold...

You are not just flesh and blood, who eats, drinks, sleeps... you are a bulk of intelligence, who eats, drinks, sleeps... So use it

Stay Healthy, Stay Wise

Remember to follow me so that I may share more... and I will always follow you back...

I will be sharing another article in a jippy.

shout out to my followers

MatthewDoyin(m), LanreDaMan(m), NevetsIbot(m), Sensie(f), dimexy247(m), Olasco93, PRISTINEMUSCLES, mikhe2(m), youngestmilly, twentyk(m), soulpeppersoup(m), djkaycee001(m), TheRealestGuy(m), abdeiz(m), ajsans, budosky(m), styles2009, blithe2nice(m), psalm1man(m), bassette(m), Shiitposter, agrovick(m), icanfeelit(f), jaywise(m), SpicyJosBabe(f), knight05

and a special copy: Julietcutie
Yo bro, been a while...

Been busy with work and stuff... just sent you a pm.

Pls reply asap.

Hope the day was good smiley
Re: The One Things You Should Know About Yourself by mumumugu(m): 6:17pm On Oct 25, 2016
i love this idea
Re: The One Things You Should Know About Yourself by Newbeginnings(m): 6:37pm On Oct 25, 2016
mumumugu:
i love this idea

Quite an interesting name you gave yourself...

Also quite great you loved the idea... Remember to follow me for more... I wouldn't want you to be left behind (I will always follow back)
Re: The One Things You Should Know About Yourself by Newbeginnings(m): 6:40pm On Oct 25, 2016
TheRealestGuy:
Yo bro, been a while...

Been busy with work and stuff... just sent you a pm.

Pls reply asap.

Hope the day was good smiley

It was very educating

I just replied you
Re: The One Things You Should Know About Yourself by Neimar: 7:14pm On Oct 25, 2016
mehn d tin long die

"ll find time to read it
Re: The One Things You Should Know About Yourself by bassette(m): 1:12am On Oct 30, 2016
The write up is really thought provoking...thanks

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